Hey, at least they’re not going to waste time and money on a second date. Might be the start of a fun friendship, though, if they enjoy friends who bust their chops.
This seems very much like just a fun jab that immediately breaks the ice, if someone doesn't go for a second date because of this alone I think they are too easily offended.
This could be a yellow flag for a lot of people and hey, good for them if they don't wanna deal with this and potentially worsening behaviour in the future, have nothing to do with easily offended. Have to see how the actual date goes tho.
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tkk13909@sopuli.xyz · 163 pts · 2y
Depending on how they said it, this could be a yellow or green flag lol
spookex@lemmy.world · 15 pts · 2y
Yep, that is absolutely something that I would do
tkk13909@sopuli.xyz · 14 pts · 2y
Not even maliciously, it would just be hilarious!
stevedidwhat_infosec@infosec.pub · 44 pts · 2y
It’s probably not that deep fam 😂
everybody works at different “depths” don’t forget
CaptObvious@literature.cafe · 34 pts · 2y
Hey, at least they’re not going to waste time and money on a second date. Might be the start of a fun friendship, though, if they enjoy friends who bust their chops.
solivine@sopuli.xyz · 76 pts · 2y
This seems very much like just a fun jab that immediately breaks the ice, if someone doesn't go for a second date because of this alone I think they are too easily offended.
Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc · 3 pts · 2y
This could be a yellow flag for a lot of people and hey, good for them if they don't wanna deal with this and potentially worsening behaviour in the future, have nothing to do with easily offended. Have to see how the actual date goes tho.
Kusimulkku@lemm.ee · 2 pts · 2y
Could've just been a joke, but that's also a yellow flag for some
hitmyspot@aussie.zone · 17 pts · 2y
And honesty.
jaschen@lemm.ee · 27 pts · 2y
My wife has done this to me. 20+ years together.
5714@lemmy.dbzer0.com · -28 pts · 2y
I wouldn't call that a date.
Lemminary@lemmy.world · 49 pts · 2y
I would. It's funny and not their responsibility. But they were honest. And I appreciate people who are both sincere but also curious.
Kusimulkku@lemm.ee · 11 pts · 2y
What, meeting in a cafe?