The week after laser hair removal is so dysphoria inducing

Like I got another (5th) session of laser on my face and I look like I have really thick beard shadow, I know it's temporary but I have a hard time looking into the mirror... Sadly shaving doesn't do anything because the hair is under the skin. :( It's a tough week but I've had worse <3

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dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 14 pts · 1y

Yeah, some of my most acute dysphoric moments happened looking in the mirror after facial laser.

I think using foundation helped me at the time, if you are really red some mica green color correction under can help too.

I also try to ensure I can stay home and not have any important social events for a week or two after the appointment. My dysphoria is so much worse with all those dark hairs, and so so so much better after they fall out.

pooberbee@lemmy.ml · 11 pts · 1y (1 reply)

I'm right there too. At first, I had big areas dropping out, and the bad shadow didn't bother me as much because I was excited to see progress the following week. But lately I'm not seeing much progress, and it's still thick and dark in places, so it feels like I've plateaued a bit. I'll probably eventually switch to electrolysis, but it feels too early still. I'm trying to learn to accept myself. It's not an overnight thing, it's a transition, and I want to love myself even in my intermediate forms. But it isn't always easy.

MicrondeMMMMMMM@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 8 pts · 1y

🫂

Yes, that feeling like nothing is happening is dreadful...

It's going to get better! :)

ValenThyme@reddthat.com · 11 pts · 1y (2 replies)
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MicrondeMMMMMMM@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 1y

<3333

Noodle07@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y

They're not stubborn, they're stubbles! 😂🤣

Sorry

ShaunaTheDead@fedia.io · 5 pts · 1y (1 reply)

You seem to already know this, but the pain is temporary and the dysphoria is temporary. At least this time it's serving a larger goal and you'll feel way better about your face soon!

MicrondeMMMMMMM@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 1y

Yes 🫂

I Hope I wont need laser soon, some men are still less hairy than I am and they want beard... I wish I could give them mine it made some jealous...

Vibi@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 1y

This broke me for a few weeks after my last session 😭Dysphoria was already bad that week. Technician and I decided to increase the strength of the laser - previous sessions maybe a pain level of 4, but the last one was like a 7. Face was so swollen and irritated... I didn't leave my place for over a week until everything calmed down and I was able to trim/shave. I hope your face and skin heals soon and those remaining hairs disappear 🩷

whodatdair@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 1y (1 reply)

Daww, sorry you’re feeling self conscious - sounds like you’re a strong person though, you got this! :)

My partner is about to go through the same, thanks for posting - seeing everyone here having similar experiences made me think maybe I’ll try to figure something out to make her feel girly after her session 💜

MicrondeMMMMMMM@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 1y

Definitely do it helps more than you would think<333

Taalnazi@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y (1 reply)

You too? Hugs

MicrondeMMMMMMM@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 1y

🫂