Life update: Turns out porn / Fansly wasn’t for me. NSFW

I still want to post here as I like the platform. I think maybe it could be a way for me to get people to visit me at the club. I enjoy posting, but if I don’t have an opportunity to earn from it, I personally feel uncomfortable to post nudity. I’m just being transparent. My ex is stalking me and harassing me online. Eventually I may feel comfortable to post details of the clubs I’m at but I have to play it safe for now. 💓 I may give the info out in messages to those who wish to meet me. I would have to do light screening to ensure you aren’t my stalker. Thanks 🫶

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28 Comments

deezcashews@lemmynsfw.com · 38 pts · 3y (3 replies)

I will miss your boobies. Maybe change your name and get a mustache. Winter Bananamore has a nice ring to it.

SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com · 18 pts · 3y

Winter bananamore 😂😂😂

SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com · 6 pts · 3y (1 reply)

Read the body. I didn’t quit lemmy ✨

deezcashews@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 3y

Oh thank God 😂

mammalian@lemmynsfw.com · 19 pts · 3y (1 reply)

That really sucks that you're being harassed like that. I hope you stay safe

SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com · 6 pts · 3y

Thanks 🙏 me too lol

DeadWorld@lemm.ee · 13 pts · 3y (2 replies)

Most impotrant thing is staying safe, but you did make some fun looking content. Good luck

SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com · 14 pts · 3y (1 reply)

Thanks ☺️ I still will post nudes and maybe gifs but not XXX videos :)

DeadWorld@lemm.ee · -1 pts · 3y

How fun; Ill keep an eye out! Though I'm a little sad I've apparently missed out on the video. If your still gonna post photos, maybe cosplay could be a good alternative. I know you'd look good as many different characters

Talontlyham@lemmynsfw.com · 9 pts · 3y

Gotta watch out for yourself. Stay safe and maybe see a lawyer?

tg3_@lemmynsfw.com · 7 pts · 3y

Sometimes keeping those boundaries is for the better. Stalkers are not fun to have. Even as a guy, I've had a stalker before and I'm here to tell you that I know exactly what that feeling is like. Just probably not on the same wavelength. Just do what makes you feel comfortable more than anything. I and everyone else here respect you for your clarity.

zebra@lemmynsfw.com · 6 pts · 3y

We're lucky to have you! Stay safe ❤️

itsnicodegallo@lemmynsfw.com · 6 pts · 3y (3 replies)

Wait, you're legit meeting dudes from the Internet? 😲 Girl, you really are rolling the dice there. Lol

A couple of my friends are strippers and have had to deal with psychos, and I've had somebody in my burlesque troupe need my help dealing with a bitter ex who kept attending our shows. It sucks that you're having to deal with that kind of fear for your safety.

SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 3y (1 reply)

They will be meeting me at a public establishment with security. I know how to set boundaries as a dancer. My stalker is an ex. With all due respect,burlesque is not like club stripping.

SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 3y

I’m sorry I was sassy. Going through a lot. I appreciate the support.

SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 3y

I know what I’m doing thanks :)

Crismus@lemmynsfw.com · 5 pts · 3y (1 reply)

That sucks. Stay safe and you will be missed.

SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 3y

Read body. Still here :)

CYCLR@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 3y (2 replies)

That's all right. We had a good time around here

SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com · 4 pts · 3y (1 reply)

Maybe you didn’t read the body. I’m still here

CYCLR@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 3y

Just read it, that's even better!

chilibagpiper@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 3y

Just wanted to say you're an awesome poster and thanks for supporting the platform!

smk@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 3y

Please do whatever you need to stay safe! ❤️ to you

PornyMcPornypants@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 3y

Will still enjoy seeing you around. Looking forward to seeing you on gonemild 😉

mashbooq@infosec.pub · 2 pts · 3y

I hate how many women on social media have stalkers; men are awful 😞

NSFWbear@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 3y

Will miss seeing all of you but you have to stay safe to keep adding your beauty to the world

painfullyseattle@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 3y

Stay safe! Loved your Barbie pics!

gdrhnvfhj@lemmynsfw.com · 0 pts · 3y

Are you in Europe?