Women who like to dominate: what is your favourite way to do so, and why?

Women who like to dominate: what is your favourite way to do so, and why?

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24 Comments

Ginaaaa_w@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 1y (3 replies)

Get his credit card and buy all the hottest lingerie to wear for him… and maybe some other stuff for myself lol

Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@kinkycats.org · 1 pts · 1y (2 replies)

@Ginaaaa_w how would you dress him, given free reign?

Ginaaaa_w@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 1y (1 reply)

Either in a suit or completely naked haha

Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@kinkycats.org · 1 pts · 1y

@Ginaaaa_w or preferably in a suit and then completely naked (after he's stripped you right down, of course!)

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 1y (19 replies)

Cucking

Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@kinkycats.org · 1 pts · 1y (18 replies)

@Gentlewest with your partner present or learning about proceedings after the event?

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 1y (17 replies)

Basically told him I was going out to do it

Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@kinkycats.org · 2 pts · 1y (16 replies)

@Gentlewest which begs the question of his reaction: anger, humiliation arousal...all of the above? Did he get to reclaim you afterwards when your body still very evidently showed the signs that you had fucked them?

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 1y (15 replies)

The marriage was essentially dead at that point anyway because of his unwillingness to address and deal with his sexual inadequacy.

Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@kinkycats.org · 2 pts · 1y (13 replies)

@Gentlewest and were you submissive with the man you chucked him with? I guess from reading your posts you sound like a natural submissive albeit one who is clear about her own sexual preferences and self-confident enough to choose submission on her own terms

Gentlewest@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 1y (12 replies)

It was very much a case of here I am, do what you will with me.

Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@kinkycats.org · 1 pts · 1y

@Gentlewest well I hope he knew exactly what he needed to do with you!

RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 1y

You are braver than me but yeah over 20 years monogamous, never really satisfied (ex was giving in bed but a once a week one minute guy, then 5 years of none at all when he got crazy) and good sex did give me perspective that broke us up.