Like I chose my desired field but now, I am bored like I doom scroll or watch random videos on YT and avoid to study. I got bad grades too. How to have focus??
Like I chose my desired field but now, I am bored like I doom scroll or watch random videos on YT and avoid to study. I got bad grades too. How to have focus??
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gregs_gumption@lemm.ee · 5 pts · 1y
I'm an old man and have had that problem my entire life. I recently found out about pathological demand avoidance (PDA) and it describes me perfectly. Since then I've been able to recognize when I'm avoiding a demand and sometimes work around the avoidance to do what I need to do. Maybe PDA is something you're experiencing and can find ways to work around it.
PDA description
Sorry I don't have better advice. I know the shitty feeling of not doing the things you need to do, so I wish you luck getting it sorted out.
Naive@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
It's okay. I am actually an autistic person so thing seems difficult to me
OmnipresentDonut123@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
Same man. In my case, I cried my heart out and then slapped myself until I locked in to studies, worked for me :p