Once I came from being slapped in the face, but was already primed for it. It was surprising and made me laugh, and felt like an accomplishment of a sort.
I think I value my natural response too much to want it trained, I don't want to lose that, never try to control it.
👩: He's already training me to cum on command, not without genital stimulation tho, it's more like accelerating my orgasms while I'm already stimulated. Even so, if cumming on command whenever could be possible for me, I'd like to maintain my current trigger, which is him saying "cum for me"
@FistingEnthusiast yes, I was thinking that a combination may be the best, especially if it were innocuous things that triggered it. Then it can be quite deliberate, just by layering two or three things that might be commonplace, but when combined have an impact that is anything but
I managed to cum once just by trusting like once, in a way where I stretched it hard. I'm not sure how, and can't do it again. But I felt I needed to get rid of the pent up stuff fast, and didn't want to deal with it proper.
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pevrert@lemmynsfw.com · 5 pts · 1y
"Don't cum"
Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@kinkycats.org · 4 pts · 1y
@pevrert 😂
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com · 4 pts · 1y
Once I came from being slapped in the face, but was already primed for it. It was surprising and made me laugh, and felt like an accomplishment of a sort.
I think I value my natural response too much to want it trained, I don't want to lose that, never try to control it.
HotCoupleSD1959@lemmynsfw.com · 4 pts · 1y
👩: He's already training me to cum on command, not without genital stimulation tho, it's more like accelerating my orgasms while I'm already stimulated. Even so, if cumming on command whenever could be possible for me, I'd like to maintain my current trigger, which is him saying "cum for me"
southsamurai@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 1y
No touch orgasms exist.
They're fun, if not exactly easy
blazeresponder@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 1y
Maybe just by words. So if you are asked to cum immediately 🤔😏
FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 1y
I get close with a good glass of wine...
I'd like it to be combination of things, so it would be very deliberate
I'd like it to happen when my fiancée gives me a certain look, with a certain phrase, and touches me in a certain way
Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@kinkycats.org · 3 pts · 1y
@FistingEnthusiast yes, I was thinking that a combination may be the best, especially if it were innocuous things that triggered it. Then it can be quite deliberate, just by layering two or three things that might be commonplace, but when combined have an impact that is anything but
FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 1y
Sometimes when my fiancée cums, she grips my biceps so hard she leaves little bruises from her thumbs
If I get a similar bruise from working or something, when I see it, I chub up
Pavlov was right!
Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 1y
I would either go with pure anal stimulation from being fucked or when my partner cums in any fashion.
zxqwas@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
Tap iddqd in Morse code on my nipples.
RepressedLemmier@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 1y
I managed to cum once just by trusting like once, in a way where I stretched it hard. I'm not sure how, and can't do it again. But I felt I needed to get rid of the pent up stuff fast, and didn't want to deal with it proper.
Sexyrafi25@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 1y