One of each is a fantasy of mine and my partner. Shes mostly submissive but we both think it'd be super to hot to have a dominant woman play with us both. We've been with other women before but they've been pretty much submissive too.
Yeah it took me a long time to figure out that submissive is not passive. I fought my own sexuality because I thought it was lazy or not a grown woman kind of sexuality to want to be submissive or to be dominated. I'm egalitarian in the rest of my life, cooperation is the name of the game.
And I am not passive in bed, just like when guys like to be in charge, sex-wise. And I don't like being in charge, or dominant. But I do like being active, and pleasing!
I'm definitely the dominant one and have had sex with 50+ women. I'd love to try being the sub now and again, and I've tried, but the women I've slept with just aren't into it.
Gods bless 'em, a few have tried, but none have ever nailed that "I own you and will fuck you any way I please!" dynamic. They want to be the one fucked any way I please. Maybe they selected me for my dom groove. No idea.
If I had to pick, I prefer submissive over dominant.
However, what I really want is an equal, a partner who knows what she wants and expresses that. Speak and I shall provide, less demanding want, more needing want - seeing, hearing, feeling her pleasure is like music to my soul. Loving, fulfilling and completing one another. Someone to take on the world with.
If she's older than me I prefer dominant. If she's younger or around the same age, I prefer submissive.
It's so hot to have an older woman climb on top of you and take what she wants. Conversely, it's hot to have a younger woman on her knees worshipping your dick.
It depends on the mood. Sometimes I want a woman to absolutely destroy my asshole or tease me to death. Other times I want to absolutely dominate her and make her do disgusting things for me.
19 Comments
bitjunkie@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 1y
Yes
emeralddawn45@discuss.tchncs.de · 7 pts · 1y
One of each is a fantasy of mine and my partner. Shes mostly submissive but we both think it'd be super to hot to have a dominant woman play with us both. We've been with other women before but they've been pretty much submissive too.
VoyeurVixen@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 1y
FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com · 5 pts · 1y
Submissive, but I like a woman who knows what she wants and I have no time for pillow princesses
I'm not particularly dominant, but I have no desire to be subby
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com · 5 pts · 1y
Yeah it took me a long time to figure out that submissive is not passive. I fought my own sexuality because I thought it was lazy or not a grown woman kind of sexuality to want to be submissive or to be dominated. I'm egalitarian in the rest of my life, cooperation is the name of the game.
And I am not passive in bed, just like when guys like to be in charge, sex-wise. And I don't like being in charge, or dominant. But I do like being active, and pleasing!
FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 1y
A power-bottom can really make you both work!
shalafi@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 1y
I'm definitely the dominant one and have had sex with 50+ women. I'd love to try being the sub now and again, and I've tried, but the women I've slept with just aren't into it.
Gods bless 'em, a few have tried, but none have ever nailed that "I own you and will fuck you any way I please!" dynamic. They want to be the one fucked any way I please. Maybe they selected me for my dom groove. No idea.
VoyeurVixen@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 1y
SubmissiveLiam@lemmynsfw.com · 4 pts · 1y
Love dominant women. Nothing sexier than a girl who takes charge and knows what they want
SmuttyLad@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 1y
If I had to pick, I prefer submissive over dominant.
However, what I really want is an equal, a partner who knows what she wants and expresses that. Speak and I shall provide, less demanding want, more needing want - seeing, hearing, feeling her pleasure is like music to my soul. Loving, fulfilling and completing one another. Someone to take on the world with.
Corny as hell maybe, but a man can dream <3
FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 1y
These words could have come from my own mouth
RepressedLemmier@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 1y
Not really either. Just like assertive women that take what they want.
HotCoupleSD1959@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 1y
Submissive, but I like to be (not extermely) dominated from time to time
Lembot_0002@lemm.ee · 2 pts · 1y
BiCuriousBuns@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 1y
I like both, it really depends on my mood.
Bob71@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 1y
strong women who can be delicate.
DancingBear@midwest.social · 1 pts · 1y
Lemon376Unpadded@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 1y
If she's older than me I prefer dominant. If she's younger or around the same age, I prefer submissive.
It's so hot to have an older woman climb on top of you and take what she wants. Conversely, it's hot to have a younger woman on her knees worshipping your dick.
Himedanshi@lemmy.ca · 1 pts · 1y
When I was 16 year old I would fantasizing about being stepped on by my hot MILF teachers.
ducky9373@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 1y
It depends on the mood. Sometimes I want a woman to absolutely destroy my asshole or tease me to death. Other times I want to absolutely dominate her and make her do disgusting things for me.
VoyeurVixen@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 1y
freeusething@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 1y
I’m not into women really, but being dominated by one is still appealing. I’ve been whipped by a couple of women and had a good time.
sasoni75@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 1y
Look my profile and tell me! But to answer your question dominant women.
daggermoon@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
Dominant, I don't like to lead. I think it would be so much easier.