Now we can stop calling it trauma and call it life. If everyone supposedly has a trauma, maybe we need to reevaluate a cutoff when it's just "problems" and when it's already "trauma"
Same. This includes all of my hobbies and interests, and even the food I like. It's infuriating to realize that the abusers from your childhood had more say in who you are than you did.
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LongLive@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 1y
Now what?
regedit@feddit.online · 9 pts · 1y
Now...we dance!
can@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 1y
DBT?
toofpic@lemmy.world · -5 pts · 1y
Now we can stop calling it trauma and call it life. If everyone supposedly has a trauma, maybe we need to reevaluate a cutoff when it's just "problems" and when it's already "trauma"
can@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 1y
We do?
If it's interfering* with your daily life it's trauma. I'm sure there's a better, more nuanced, definition, but that's the gist.
VubDapple@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 1y
It is more common than you'd think
ObtuseDoorFrame@lemm.ee · 4 pts · 1y
Same. This includes all of my hobbies and interests, and even the food I like. It's infuriating to realize that the abusers from your childhood had more say in who you are than you did.
LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 1y
Yep the control is a massive part of the abuse, they want a captive. You deserved better
joby@programming.dev · 3 pts · 1y
I've been realizing this myself lately.
sprite0@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 1y