my boyfriend called women, specifically lesbians, boring??

i’m 22, gay trans man. my boyfriend is 21, cis man. he said women, specifically lesbians are boring and that he prefers men, specifically gay guys but not straight.

how are lesbians boring?? I don’t get it. is it because gay guys like men and lesbians don’t? i’m trying to understand, sorry 😭

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profgrumpypants@midwest.social · 5 pts · 1y
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oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 pts · 1y (1 reply)

Have you tried asking him what he meant? Like why he finds them boring.

s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works · 1 pts · 1y

he said he didn’t know why

alexsystem@lemmings.world · 4 pts · 1y

my guess is that it’s because lesbians aren’t relatable to him nor attracted to him, so gay guys are “better” to him