A figure, pondering, stands in front of a billboard with around 40 subscribed trans-related threadiverse communities. Captioned "But am I trans?"
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A figure, pondering, stands in front of a billboard with around 40 subscribed trans-related threadiverse communities. Captioned "But am I trans?"
13 Comments
Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone · 30 pts · 1y
Me, on HRT for 15+ years, post top-surgery: but am I really trans? š¤
For clarity Iām happy with transitioning, the doubt just never fully went away for me. I even felt doubt as I walked into the OR, knowing Iād wanted top surgery since before I knew what it was! I think doubt just means you have a functioning brain that recognizes the dangers and social consequences of being trans. So I tell myself and congratulate myself on my self awareness, anyway.
Arkhive@piefed.blahaj.zone · 11 pts · 1y
Iām making a bit of an assumption based on ātop-surgeryā, which I interpreted to mean the chop, not augmentation. If thatās the case Iām glad youāre here! Iād be glad either way, but this slice of the internet is pretty dominated by trans femmes, and Iām always glad to see our siblings using this space too!!
Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone · 13 pts · 1y
Yup, trans dude here. There are dozens of us!! š
thoughtfuldragon@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 pts · 1y
I keep seeing more of y'all which probably means I'm doing something right.
maya@piefed.blahaj.zone · 6 pts · 1y
I would have to agree with you about that. A big part of the doubt for me is that I really only started questioning after reading about gender online, rather than online material simply confirming feelings I already had. But I also know that if I was truly cis, I probably would not still be questioning 8 months after first reading said material.
TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 15 pts · 1y
TIL Non Credible Defense is a trans related comm
maya@piefed.blahaj.zone · 12 pts · 1y
I sometimes mistake Non Credible Defense posts for 196 posts lol.
knightly@pawb.social · 5 pts · 1y
They do have a similar aura, don't they? XD
princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 14 pts · 1y
You don't think it be like that, but it do.
maya@piefed.blahaj.zone · 6 pts · 1y
I've met people who are into trams, and it absolutely be like that lol.
Arkhive@piefed.blahaj.zone · 13 pts · 1y
Desire paths is sleeper trans coded. Also we have almost the same subscriptions, and Iāve been on HRT for over 2 years. Still cis tho
TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 12 pts · 1y
I've literally transitioned; still cis tho
Zoomboingding@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 1y
Selfhosted? How much more denial could you possibly have?