I just asked my online crush if she wanted to date when we got to know each other more and at first she said no because I was too heavy for her (160 lbs, she is 90, she doesn't want much of a weight difference and doesn't like chubby x skinny). Next, she kept playfully teasing me about my crush on her after I confessed and said "Oh, you really want me?" and then said she would think about dating me if I really did like her. My friends all say that's a definite no and that she won't say yes and all that...
11 Comments
erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 22 pts · 1y
I would be rather careful around this one, not accepting you for your body is a big red flag imo, who's to say this is the only thing they are going to have a problem with?
relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club · 4 pts · 1y
Fair enough, thank you
bear@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 22 pts · 1y
Not wanting a weight difference sounds like bs. Sounds like a red flag to me.
relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club · 3 pts · 1y
Real
SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 19 pts · 1y
relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club · 3 pts · 1y
It's okay, she likes someone else anyway
Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world · 15 pts · 1y
You are worth so much more than that. Please respect yourself and don't fall into this clearly manipulative relationship.
relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club · 5 pts · 1y
Thankfully, she likes someone else. Thank youuu
possumparty@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 13 pts · 1y
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 run away from that situation bc she's already trying to emotionally manipulate you
relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club · 3 pts · 1y
Thank youuu
Rakonat@lemmy.world · 13 pts · 1y
She's playing games and you're always going to be the loser here. Cut and run before that red flag turns to something scarier.
relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club · 3 pts · 1y
Thanks so much!