Okay, so first off, I wanna say that I'm in a lovely relationship with "Jess" and have been for a few days. Before I dated my friend and now girlfriend Jess, though, was my ex that I posted about around 2 weeks ago: Evangelina.
Evangelina and I were going great, until she told me she needed me for something. I asked what she needed me for, and she said she was horny.
I didn't know what to do, so I sent photos of my face and said "Here you go," but she asked for "different photos".
When I refused to give them to her because we'd only been dating for a few days and I'd been sexually harassed before, she said "It's fine, I get it." But then she blocked me??
9 Comments
hendrik@palaver.p3x.de · 14 pts · 1y
Doesn't sound like love to me.
relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club · 2 pts · 1y
Fair enough
Grimy@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 1y
Did you meet Evangelina in person? "Only dating for a few days" and then blocking when you refuse photos makes me think you are on the younger side and this is a man trying to get photos so he can blackmail you.
relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club · 3 pts · 1y
Yes I’m 18 and this person was an online GF
Grimy@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 1y
Well for what it's worth, I think you made the right decision to not send any photos. Sounds like your ex had ulterior motives.
I also think love is a strong word and doesn't come about after only a few days of dating.
blarghly@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 1y
An online "relationship" is not a relationship. Outside some extremely rare circumstances, romantic relationships require physical proximity to form. If you want a real girlfriend, you are going to have to meet up with them in the real world. If anyone tells you that you should adopt a strategy of messaging strangers online to have an online-only relationship as a path to romance - they are wrong and you should not listen to them.
Noobnarski@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 1y
I would say that even if she was not this bad to you I feel like just dating for a few days is really not long enough to love someone. You can feel attraction but I would say love only comes later when you really know the person.
relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club · 1 pts · 1y
Very true
lilcutie24@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 1y
no she used you for your body i think :( or looks, whatever