Maybe its just my family line where this seems to be a thing, weird/odd food cravings during pregnancy.
???
Well, yeah, yogurt isn't that weird, lol.
I guess uh... do you recall what kind of painkiller or... some other kind of IV cocktail they had you on?
Or did you not have one?
I was a C section birth due to being stuck in ridiculous position, trying to come out butt first if I remember right what my parents said, so... yeah, glad you were able to avoid that.
Haha, yeah, I guess :D what kind of cravings are present in your family?
I was on no painkillers, I simply forgot to ask for that as the contractions took up all my mental focus... It would have made it a lot more comfortable, but oh well ^^
C sections are so fascinating, if I would have needed one, I would have loved to have a transparent screen, so that I can see what they are doing. But yeah, I'm glad I didn't need one.
Usually its weird in that they would not regularly eat too much of something, as ... a lot of people in my family are picky eaters (cough neurotic cough) but like...
Suddenly, its time for 5 pickles per day, for basically weeks.
Or... some particular kind of sausage or meat with a very specific seasoning flavor profile, has to be that exact brand/flavor/mix.
Oh well, most of my family is literally nuts (have actual diagnosed fairly serious mental disorders), so ... yay my family line!
But uh yeah... ironically, in a misguided idiot attempt to screen me for some kind of one of those disorders or something, I got a botched spinal tap, against my will, from a quack... my dad thought this could somehow screen me for rheumatoid arthritis, before I finished puberty.
Basically no one develops rheumatoid arthritis until like their 40s.
Theres nothing that a spinal tap accomplishes that screens for that.
... I was having minor growing pains from puberty.
Anyway, reason I mention all that is to make a kind of dark and edgy joke about how I guess I've come closer than you have to having an epidural =P
Hahaha, what a tangent, I love it! But yeah, that sounds fucked up... I hope you are well, and that you have only the kind of contact to your family that you want to have :)
Not well at the moment, but recovery and PT is ongoing and making slow but steady progress.
And, I do have the amount of contact with my family that I desire ... that amount is 0, they probably think I am dead.
Yeah, I'm not gonna be continuing my family line, but, I still recognize that a functional family, a wanted and well cared for child... well, that's a beautiful thing that should be celebrated.
Pregnancy was easy, I felt so good, it was the first time I felt good about my body even though it was big, I felt beautiful. No migraines because of the hormones, which was glorious, and crazy high sex drive, the additional blood flow made sex feel so good.
Labor was weird - mine were mostly "precipitous", meaning I didn't really feel anything, silent labor, until the transition, so I would like puke and have very sudden hard labor for about a half hour then a baby.
Childbirth sucks. My midwife told us to do fisting to train for it but we didn't, and ought to have, I got torn. Again, mine were fast, no pushing on purpose my body just did it but even a small baby is too big to come out that way, and mine were big (smallest just under 8lb, biggest right at 10lb). Still, better than abdominal surgery and recovery.
Hormones for sure. It was odd, I couldn't dredge up any desire at all. I could get off but it was like I couldn't be bothered, was starting from below zero instead of my usual +3, or the +5 of pregnancy, teenagehood, and 40s.
Nursing - i would get a strong feeling of doom when the milk came down, thought I was crazy and didn't tell anyone, found out many years later that it's called DMER and was not just some unique madness. But once it started it was fine, it feels about how you would imagine, physically. Emotionally, outside of the odd doom rush, it made me feel good about my boobs - they were very small even while nursing but made So Much Milk it made me realize they were real boobs, complete and functional, in a way I had not felt at all before.
How often would you get the DMER thing?
Also, I’ve heard nursing described as feeling like “peeing through one’s nipple” …is that accurate?
Also, apart from sex drive, how long did it take for your body to get back to normal after birth?
Every time but only for a little while. Like the worst drug rush ever. Then it was just gone. And no, not like peeing, it's secretion not excretion, I didn't feel the milk coming out as much as the baby latching on. It did squirt right out though, it's pretty funny and also magical and awesome, free food for the baby is an incredible design.
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laughingsquirrel@discuss.tchncs.de · 9 pts · 318d
shadow_acct@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 318d
I don’t know where to start:
Edit: I added a question and changed some wording. Also, thank you for answering my initial question!
laughingsquirrel@discuss.tchncs.de · 3 pts · 314d
shadow_acct@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 313d
I’m glad you have a supportive partner!
laughingsquirrel@discuss.tchncs.de · 2 pts · 299d
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 316d
Kind of silly, but... did you have any specific food cravings, and if so, what were they?
Also, congrats on momhood!
laughingsquirrel@discuss.tchncs.de · 2 pts · 315d
Thank you :)
Hmm, not really, I ate mostly the same stuff as before. But I did increase my yogurt intake, I think.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 1 pts · 314d
Huh...
Maybe its just my family line where this seems to be a thing, weird/odd food cravings during pregnancy.
???
Well, yeah, yogurt isn't that weird, lol.
I guess uh... do you recall what kind of painkiller or... some other kind of IV cocktail they had you on?
Or did you not have one?
I was a C section birth due to being stuck in ridiculous position, trying to come out butt first if I remember right what my parents said, so... yeah, glad you were able to avoid that.
laughingsquirrel@discuss.tchncs.de · 2 pts · 314d
Haha, yeah, I guess :D what kind of cravings are present in your family?
I was on no painkillers, I simply forgot to ask for that as the contractions took up all my mental focus... It would have made it a lot more comfortable, but oh well ^^
C sections are so fascinating, if I would have needed one, I would have loved to have a transparent screen, so that I can see what they are doing. But yeah, I'm glad I didn't need one.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 314d
Usually its weird in that they would not regularly eat too much of something, as ... a lot of people in my family are picky eaters (cough neurotic cough) but like...
Suddenly, its time for 5 pickles per day, for basically weeks.
Or... some particular kind of sausage or meat with a very specific seasoning flavor profile, has to be that exact brand/flavor/mix.
Oh well, most of my family is literally nuts (have actual diagnosed fairly serious mental disorders), so ... yay my family line!
But uh yeah... ironically, in a misguided idiot attempt to screen me for some kind of one of those disorders or something, I got a botched spinal tap, against my will, from a quack... my dad thought this could somehow screen me for rheumatoid arthritis, before I finished puberty.
Basically no one develops rheumatoid arthritis until like their 40s.
Theres nothing that a spinal tap accomplishes that screens for that.
... I was having minor growing pains from puberty.
Anyway, reason I mention all that is to make a kind of dark and edgy joke about how I guess I've come closer than you have to having an epidural =P
laughingsquirrel@discuss.tchncs.de · 2 pts · 300d
Hahaha, what a tangent, I love it! But yeah, that sounds fucked up... I hope you are well, and that you have only the kind of contact to your family that you want to have :)
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 299d
Not well at the moment, but recovery and PT is ongoing and making slow but steady progress.
And, I do have the amount of contact with my family that I desire ... that amount is 0, they probably think I am dead.
Yeah, I'm not gonna be continuing my family line, but, I still recognize that a functional family, a wanted and well cared for child... well, that's a beautiful thing that should be celebrated.
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com · 5 pts · 317d
For me:
Pregnancy was easy, I felt so good, it was the first time I felt good about my body even though it was big, I felt beautiful. No migraines because of the hormones, which was glorious, and crazy high sex drive, the additional blood flow made sex feel so good.
Labor was weird - mine were mostly "precipitous", meaning I didn't really feel anything, silent labor, until the transition, so I would like puke and have very sudden hard labor for about a half hour then a baby.
Childbirth sucks. My midwife told us to do fisting to train for it but we didn't, and ought to have, I got torn. Again, mine were fast, no pushing on purpose my body just did it but even a small baby is too big to come out that way, and mine were big (smallest just under 8lb, biggest right at 10lb). Still, better than abdominal surgery and recovery.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 316d
Firstly: Ow, fuck, am guy, am even guy who uh, isn't afraid of a prostate massage, but still, can't imagine internal tearing from childbirth is fun...
Did you maybe get an epidural or some kind of IV with some kind of painkiller?
But anyway, as with the other mom (congrats by way!)... did you have any specific food cravings during pregnancy and if so, what were they?
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 315d
Not really, no. I did eat more, and drink more water. And got sleepy more.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 3 pts · 315d
Huh!
Well, thanks for answering =D
shadow_acct@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 316d
Pregnancy stops migraines? Also, did you not have morning sickness?
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 316d
It stopped mine because periods were my main trigger. And no, not really any morning sickness, I felt good.
Nursing tanked my sex drive though, that was very disappointing after the high of pregnancy!
shadow_acct@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 316d
What does nursing feel like?
Also, did your sex drive tank because nursing made you tired or was it more the hormones of nursing just quelling your sex drive?
Finally, how did the additional blood flow make things feel good?
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 315d
Hormones for sure. It was odd, I couldn't dredge up any desire at all. I could get off but it was like I couldn't be bothered, was starting from below zero instead of my usual +3, or the +5 of pregnancy, teenagehood, and 40s.
Nursing - i would get a strong feeling of doom when the milk came down, thought I was crazy and didn't tell anyone, found out many years later that it's called DMER and was not just some unique madness. But once it started it was fine, it feels about how you would imagine, physically. Emotionally, outside of the odd doom rush, it made me feel good about my boobs - they were very small even while nursing but made So Much Milk it made me realize they were real boobs, complete and functional, in a way I had not felt at all before.
shadow_acct@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 315d
How often would you get the DMER thing? Also, I’ve heard nursing described as feeling like “peeing through one’s nipple” …is that accurate? Also, apart from sex drive, how long did it take for your body to get back to normal after birth?
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 315d
Every time but only for a little while. Like the worst drug rush ever. Then it was just gone. And no, not like peeing, it's secretion not excretion, I didn't feel the milk coming out as much as the baby latching on. It did squirt right out though, it's pretty funny and also magical and awesome, free food for the baby is an incredible design.
shadow_acct@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 315d
What does feeling full feel like vs feeling empty then?
SluttySalamander@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 316d
So far just lots of nausea… but early right now. Hope it gets better.
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 315d
Congratulations!
SluttySalamander@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 314d
Thanks!