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This months question(s) are:
For those that participated in Locktober, tell us about your experience! Did you have any challenges in making it the entire month? If you're like me and don't necessarily play with formal chastity, would you ever consider doing it in the future?
7 Comments
thatothertwo@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 294d
Ooh good question, I'm curious to see how everyone views locktober. I did spend most of the month in chastity, but not really because of the month. I think it's just my new status quo now.
I got a new cobra cage recently and it's so comfortable I've even been able to wear it overnight more frequently. Much better than the cheap plastic one I bought first to try out. And it fits better than the metal one, though I really liked the weight of the metal one.
I found I am still able to cum while caged quite easily if I really wanted to though. Using a vibrator on it worked quickly the couple of times I tried. And when I'm really worked up, slapping my balls or grinding them between my thighs can work. I know it's all a personal rule for each sissy, and if they're lucky, their keyholder, but do you think that's "cheating"?
daddyfox30@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 294d
Cumming regularly is healthy and it can be very hard for some without a vibrator to do.
So it is not cheating IMO as long as you stimulate your ass aswell. Try to use the vibrator less tho and also stop before you get over the edge.
You will need it far less after a while.
Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 290d
I personally don't have much of an interest in chastity. I would play around with it as a power dynamic with a key holder, but myself it just seems boring. I can just not cum without using any special equipment 🤭
If you're still staying caged and haven't set any rules specifically saying you can't, I don't see why it would be. Being able to still cum while caged is quite literally the end goal for a lot of sissies. It was for me at least and it was quite a long journey.
chloespanked@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 268d
I love chastity but I don't do it all the time. I love not having a dick between my legs. There's an effeminate dick-in-a-cage. I can't stroke it or really stimulate it. When I'm trying not to use my clitty, and I'm feeling horny, and maybe I haven't come in a week or two - the cage makes me feel safer from temptation
JuBuckrow1812@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 292d
Hello~ I've been leaning more into my girly side this last year, but I didn't participate in Locktober. I've thought about getting a cage, but I'm really not sure if it's for me. It might be a thing I do in the future, though. :3
Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 291d
I would definitely make sure you have a good idea of how you like it and your body responds to it before trying for the longer term though. You can get a cheap cage to try it out, but the size and quality of the cage does make a big difference from what I've been told so keep that in mind.
Chastity for me is always something I'd explore with a partner/key holder as a power dynamic, but have no interest in it just by myself.
JuBuckrow1812@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 290d
Yeah. It's definitely an interesting idea, but I agree that doing it without someone to hold the key doesn't seem as fun.