Side by side masturbation, sometimes there's no time for full on sex. Instead of not doing anything because it's midweek, touch yourself and eachother but don't have intercourse.
This! Even when you have plenty of time, mutual masturbation can be good to take it slow and make it last longer. Especially if you're not touching each other, you're both in control and get to watch each other enjoying yourselves.
Meet up as if you don’t know each other. Show up to a bar/event separate. Flirt all night and hook up. If you’re down for a little risk, the hook up can be semi public. Then you head home separately
18 Comments
Mycatiskai@lemmy.ca · 30 pts · 214d
Side by side masturbation, sometimes there's no time for full on sex. Instead of not doing anything because it's midweek, touch yourself and eachother but don't have intercourse.
FoolsQuartz@lemmynsfw.com · 7 pts · 214d
I think simple things like this add to the longevity of a couples' sex life.
The people who get bored of sex are the ones who try for pornstar sex every time, in my opinion.
They need to have an appreciation of sex for all the different things it can be and all the ways they can have it.
pinkpint@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 210d
This! Even when you have plenty of time, mutual masturbation can be good to take it slow and make it last longer. Especially if you're not touching each other, you're both in control and get to watch each other enjoying yourselves.
Taiatari@lemmynsfw.com · 27 pts · 214d
Talking about current fantasies and kinks, ideally more than once because they change. Sex gets better when you talk about the wants and needs.
ivanafterall@lemmy.world · 21 pts · 214d
Butt stuff.
Mickey7@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 214d
Agreed. GF and I tried it several times. Sort of a bucket list thing
playfulkittykat@pawb.social · 6 pts · 214d
From both sides.
ivanafterall@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 213d
Yep, but you'll need someone pretty well-endowed to try butt stuff from the other side.
prac@lemmy.world · 17 pts · 214d
Just laydown and look into the sky for half an hour and talk
daggermoon@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 213d
This works better at night. Bonus points if you can point out stars by name. No further rizz will be required.
prac@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 213d
Exactly my point😅
SmuttyLad@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 214d
Sounds just splendid :)
TigerAce@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 17 pts · 214d
Figure out how to pay the bills.
jerkface@lemmy.ca · 11 pts · 214d
MDMA
FoolsQuartz@lemmynsfw.com · 9 pts · 214d
Nudist beach or naked days at home together. Understand this isn't sexual, but about intimacy nonetheless.
stockings_n_summer@lemmynsfw.com · 6 pts · 214d
Feltching
Siriousproblums@lemmynsfw.com · 6 pts · 214d
Meet up as if you don’t know each other. Show up to a bar/event separate. Flirt all night and hook up. If you’re down for a little risk, the hook up can be semi public. Then you head home separately
DavidDoesLemmy@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 211d
Strawberries
ekuzo@lemmynsfw.com · -5 pts · 214d
kiza@lemmynsfw.com · -6 pts · 214d