Discussion Thread January 18, 2026

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172 Comments

Rarepotato@lemmy.ca · 18 pts · 202d (5 replies)

How does 🐦 have 4 children, she's been a mom for 20 years, and doesn’t know how to replace their toothbrushes after having strep? 🐦 didn't get sick because she's never there, or if she is, her mom or Shane were taking care of everyone/everything.

Her ā€œnoticing thingsā€ project isn’t being launched right now bc it’s not the right time. You mean choosing joy and memes to cure all 72 of her afflictions/ailments?

I bet she's either launching something with that wacka doodle therapist whose podcast she was on, or it's the online subscription hypnotherapy person (who isn't a therapist)

crownofgold6@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 201d

She’s probably the type to never provide her kids with new toothbrushs bc she doesn’t seem to have a clue about anything. Idk who doesn’t change their toothbrush after being sick, I thought it was common knowledge.

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 201d (2 replies)

Now isn’t the time but next week everything will be perfect in the world eh? šŸ˜µā€šŸ’«

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 201d (1 reply)

What's is this "noticing things" project?

ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 201d

Bird and noticing things are not compatible.

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 202d

Did she say she was launching something? Who the f wants any kind of lessons from her?

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 18 pts · 206d (5 replies)

ā€œAlways choose loveā€ love yourself F everyone else 🤣 also the instant coffee makes a whole lot of sense now. 🐦 just tell everyone you have no idea how to make coffee and Shame isn’t there do it for you anymore.

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 206d

Always choose love??? Says the 41 yr old who has 2 divorces hahah... Mmmm OK.

crownofgold6@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 206d (3 replies)

LOL!!! Maybe thats gearing up for her new love story, she fell in love (on traitors) and decided to chase that šŸ¤”

Side note: I know most of us are blocked but does anyone ever reply to her stories or comment on her posts and say ā€œyou’d never know you’re going through your second divorceā€ lol because I’d love to

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 206d

I wish I oculd. Comments like that got me blocked

Beeboop@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 205d (1 reply)

I wonder if this is a coincidence....

cookiefleck@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 205d

High chance of no

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 17 pts · 203d (5 replies)

Imagine posting a video of yourself crying over an almost failed art attempt with everything going on right now. JFC

facialSwelling@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 202d (1 reply)

It was a rookie mistake she made. 🤣 Always exposing their lack of actual experience for their cosplay careers. Watching the artist sculpt with her "hot tools" is equally amusing.

Gereminator@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 202d

If you unfollow her, can you no longer see her stories? I don't see this.

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 10 pts · 203d

Void and selfish. Boo hoo

GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca · 10 pts · 202d (1 reply)

Can someone explain this? It’s gone from her stories or I can’t find it.

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 202d

This tool reposted a video of herself crying over glue that didn’t dry properly on her ā€œartā€ Poor thing had to scrape it all off šŸ™„

Mostlycivil@lemmy.ca · 17 pts · 197d (1 reply)

Gotta love how she turns shopping for a dress for her daughter to all about her!

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 197d

And ends it with a gifted pair of fucking Uggs from Browns Shoes. JFC gift it to a woman who needs them.

facialSwelling@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 206d (2 replies)

In Sasha Exetor's #Caudalie video #thebirdspapaya looks a little different than her IG stories.

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 15 pts · 206d

Can’t do the easiest of tasks…

cookiefleck@lemmy.ca · 10 pts · 205d

Always ā€œactingā€ any time a camera is near. Jut the jaw out, big expressions…exhausting.

MrsCookie@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 200d (6 replies)

Go on girl, give us nothing with that ginger ale review. Why bother send her these things???

ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 199d (2 replies)

She's doing ginger ale reviews? Like a 1000 follower account? šŸ¤ŖšŸ˜†

Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 199d

She has to slum it with ginger ale because Diet Coke isn’t answering her desperate tags

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 11 pts · 199d

Lmfao. Love that for her

crownofgold6@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 199d

*smacks lips ā€œdang that’s good stuffā€ Wow thanks! Really selling the product.

No_really_why@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 199d (1 reply)

Noooooo Canada Dry is my drink. 😩😩😩

No_really_why@lemmy.ca · 11 pts · 199d

Tried to dm them but their messages are limited šŸ˜‘

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 198d (3 replies)

Got herself a room at the Fairmont. All snuggled up watching Traitors, doubt she was alone.

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 198d (2 replies)

Screw the kids right.

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 11 pts · 198d

No seriously. That poor child šŸ’”

GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca · 11 pts · 198d

Probably has mostly free weekends now.

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 198d (9 replies)

Starting the day with some body shots. The lack of content and hiding must have her engagement down.

crownofgold6@lemmy.ca · 18 pts · 198d (2 replies)

What a way to start a Saturday, the same old boring shtick! She’s really nothing since Shame left and she can’t post the kid anymore either. Now that she actually has to do stuff at home like watch the kids she posts a lot less since Shame isn’t taking on all the responsibility 24/7. That or she is still freely gallivanting around and doesn’t want to post who she’s with.

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 15 pts · 198d (1 reply)

Hid all day yesterday. What’s the matter? Couldn’t post because of who she was with? Her coverage of the Bridgerton bs was basically just reposting photos she was tagged in. Didn’t even brag about her Fairmont hotel room.

crownofgold6@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 198d

She seemed to have no problem posting C a while back but ever since we started talking more about their relationship and then the divorce announcement she’s seemingly hiding them.

facialSwelling@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 197d

The touching herself in this video was cringe. Just get an OF already.

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 198d (3 replies)

The way she's using her arm to pull back her stomach. Nice.

Poofluencers@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 197d

It’s all body checking. She is so obsessed (not used in a trendy way but truly) with her body. She is sick.

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 198d (1 reply)

Yup!

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 198d

Also the size of her hands compared to body lmfao. What a loser

BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 197d

I hate this trashy woman

Gereminator@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 204d (4 replies)

I unfollowed her.

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 204d

This community is where you’ll get your daily updates šŸ‘šŸ¼

MoonChild@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 204d

Congratulations!

No_really_why@lemmy.ca · 11 pts · 204d

If you get curious - use an anonymous viewer!

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 204d

Yay. Congrats.

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 197d (4 replies)

Shame must have dropped šŸ‹ off this morning. Cos playing mom of the year šŸ™„šŸ™„šŸ™„ How sad for that little girl who loves her mom, the witch who abandons her for every pointless opportunity handed her way.

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 15 pts · 197d (1 reply)

Never have I ever had to show social media my child loving me. Fucken loser she is.

Mostlycivil@lemmy.ca · 10 pts · 196d

It’s always so forced and rehearsed and to 🐦 benefit…poor kid!

No_really_why@lemmy.ca · 10 pts · 196d

Asking why she shared affection is super weird

crownofgold6@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 196d

I could never imagine doing this with my child for the camera, it’s just weird

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 15 pts · 197d (4 replies)

That's some shade on birdie... 100%

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 197d (1 reply)

Oh the brave one in her villain era, won’t name a single person and posts cryptic bs.

Poofluencers@lemmy.ca · 17 pts · 197d

Exactly! What’s she’s doing isn’t breaking the mold, she’s just trying to get attention, so…same mold. She’s just trying to turn her own life into a reality TV script. I don’t even want to give her the comments to repost. She is really a looser.

Gereminator@lemmy.ca · 7 pts · 196d (1 reply)

Whose account is this??

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 8 pts · 196d

It’s Renee’s, she seems desperate for attention.

Poofluencers@lemmy.ca · 15 pts · 205d (5 replies)

Sasha posted a video where bird is front and centre. She looks awkward and bitchy all at the same time. You gotta watch the whole thing!

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 205d

Doesn’t even look like she wants to be there. Definitely doesn’t give 2 shits about what that guy is saying.

bellaportuguesexo@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 205d (1 reply)

She looks so uninterested and bitchy

Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 204d

She looks like a bish. She's talking to another influencer who is a very vocal queer person who I would die to have a conversation with. She's not even listening.

MaleficentTrouble428@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 205d

Just standing there while others talk to each other

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 205d

She looks hella awkward šŸ˜‚ how the hell has she made it this far

cookiefleck@lemmy.ca · 15 pts · 205d (8 replies)

Love the big advertising for hello fresh. Which is pretty bargain-basement partnership for an influencer, but also HORRIBLE for people who can’t do gluten. …Not that she’s going to eat anything.

Poofluencers@lemmy.ca · 17 pts · 205d (3 replies)

She’s been posting food more often. She’s either playing the game of the shrinking weight loss influencers who show themselves eating huge portions from fast food places and Diet Coke to prove they eat or she’s trying to find filler content now that she can’t show L. Either way add it to the many, many things where she should not be an ā€œinfluenceā€.

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 205d (1 reply)

I’ve noticed too! Seems to be always posting food now.

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 205d

She's got nothing else

GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 204d

Yeah I agree. The family content has disappeared.

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 205d (3 replies)

Such a performative knob.

crownofgold6@lemmy.ca · 10 pts · 205d

So embarassing

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 205d

Lmfao.. Down the tube.

cookiefleck@lemmy.ca · 3 pts · 199d

Her tile work (at home and the Pepto cabin) always looks like ham.

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 15 pts · 208d (3 replies)

My my what textured skin all of a sudden.

ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca · 17 pts · 208d

So her phone CAN take high quality shots, but ONLY when the parts she usually filters aren't in frame. Interesting, I didn't know iPhone had that feature.

GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca · 15 pts · 208d

Welcome to the ā€œFun with Filtersā€ workshop.

crownofgold6@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 208d

This photo was so pointless, much like her entire online existence

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 15 pts · 210d (12 replies)

ā€œHer go toā€ sure bird. Way to sell that cream.

BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 209d

The way she showcases details on her borrowed clothes over and over but is on a brand trip and doesn’t name or explain the brand she fakes uses. This company is dumb for sending this lazy narcissist.

facialSwelling@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 209d (6 replies)

Her editing makes her look like a cartoon. The super tiny neck is a joke. Here is a reality check for her.

facialSwelling@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 209d (5 replies)

I also think she had a nose job when she first lost weight and an upper eyelift around 2018. No amount of Botox can lift lids as low as she had, to where they are now IRL. The filters on top make her even more ridiculous.

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 209d (3 replies)

@facialSwelling@lemmy.ca always coming in clutch with the screenshots 🤣 and I guarantee she got an upper bleph. It’s so obvious

facialSwelling@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 209d (2 replies)

šŸ˜‚ I think she's had everything done. The more I look at old photos. She probably edited those as well. For you: more more side-by-sides.

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 10 pts · 209d

Lol

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 209d

I can’t 🤣🤣🤣

GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca · 7 pts · 208d

I can attest to this. You need a fair amount of laser treatments, etc to get rid of that many freckles. Who cares right. Just stop acting like you were born with and wake up with flawless skin. Showing your skin texture isn’t enough to show transparency.

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 11 pts · 210d (2 replies)

Who's nose lol

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 210d (1 reply)

Face blurred to high heaven

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 210d

Always.

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 11 pts · 210d

Sahajan tho, right?

crownofgold6@lemmy.ca · 15 pts · 210d (5 replies)

Literally the most boring content creator, she has nothing worthwhile going on and nothing to post. What a snooze. You’d still never know she was in the midst of a divorce either.

Also nobody wants those gross ass lips near their forehead for a kiss

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 18 pts · 210d (1 reply)

They look like a pigs asshole šŸ– And for real, one story for the failure of her marriage with ā€œthe greatest love of her lifeā€ and she’s completely glossed it over while continuing to accept lavish opportunities. How her idiot fans can’t see how disgusting she is baffles me!

ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca · 15 pts · 210d

Oh it's being framed as something she's moving on from, stepping out to a new phase of life as though that marriage was something to endure and get through to truly find herself. EVERYTHING is always framed as something she overcomes, childhood, teenage years, marriages, birth... she basically says life always just happens to her in the worst of ways, but she fights and survives, like some kind of warrior. šŸ™„

BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 210d

That’s why she announced in her stories instead of a post. Limited knowledge so many (bots) won’t even know.

Glowpop@lemmy.ca · 10 pts · 208d (1 reply)

Soooo many of you were asking about my jacket!! I'm a size S #affiliate #partner #gifted

crownofgold6@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 208d

I was thinking the other day she doesn’t point out her size anymore when she posts outfits

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 200d (1 reply)

Her buddy Myles saw her grift a $200 hoodie so he sent the company a message and grifted one for himself? But ya don’t forget to support local āœŒļø

facialSwelling@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 200d

He's as bad as bird.

Rarepotato@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 208d (2 replies)

Why is she pretending like this is a huge big deal? All the influencers there got their picture like this. Acting like she landed the cover of some magazine 🄸 strange behavior.

Meanwhile look around. They all got one. What in the make believe world does she live in

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 207d (1 reply)

Look at this tragic mouth

Glowpop@lemmy.ca · 10 pts · 207d

Not even for the snark; this is actually terrifying, and gross

Rarepotato@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 198d (5 replies)

šŸ—£ pay attention to meeeeee (but only if it's sexual in nature and/or makes me a victim.

GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 198d (1 reply)

Look how little I am. I can ride piggy back! She’s always having someone pick her up.

BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca · 8 pts · 197d

She’s been carried her whole life.

crownofgold6@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 198d

Hate her so much. Imagining having to listen to these idiots in the hallway

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 198d (1 reply)

Like anyone needed to know this? She so crude.

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 11 pts · 198d

Literally NO ONE needed to know what undergarments she was wearing. Why I called her a slut - attention whore 🤔

facialSwelling@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 206d (1 reply)

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 11 pts · 206d

Who’s face is this šŸ¤”šŸ˜‚

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 199d (2 replies)

Has this slut even watched Bridgerton šŸ˜’

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 15 pts · 199d (1 reply)

Looking wider

facialSwelling@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 199d

Sarah edited (shrunk) her neck more than her bust and waist, Sarah needs to get her editing together, normally our waist size is roughly double our neck circumference... Birdie, editing your neck so thin is a DEAD give away. FRAUD!

The "waist size is roughly double our neck circumference" measurement, is a trick that REAL fashion stylists use when sourcing garments. Sarah Nicole Landry and her pals don't know this 'trick' because they've never actually worked a day in the fashion industry. They have contributed to reducing that industry to nothing but amazon clicks.

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 201d (3 replies)

This is not a flex Birdshit - you are not relevant in spite of the fantasy you believe 🤔

crownofgold6@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 201d

She WOULD have a mug with her dumbass face on it, wonder which of her ā€œfriendsā€ inflated her ego with this. Or did she inflate her own ego and get it made. Just screams something NB would get for her.

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 201d

Literally no one talked about this nobody.

Glowpop@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 201d

Lol, one of the moments is her sipping coffee. Totally had this made herself.

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 208d (6 replies)

She loves ā€œthe fashionsā€

Rarepotato@lemmy.ca · 15 pts · 208d (2 replies)

She also walked into a kitchen to get cooking lessons like that

crownofgold6@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 208d

Truly such a bimbo

ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 206d

This is a bad tv show version of dressing up to greet your husband at the door. It's hanging out and glasses to play at being a "sexy secretary". šŸ˜† So professhunul! A veree smart laydee!

crownofgold6@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 208d (1 reply)

Woof couldn’t cover up her tatas for a day with Caudalie 🄓

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 11 pts · 208d

Keeping it classy as usual šŸ˜‚

cookiefleck@lemmy.ca · 6 pts · 205d

Yeah, that’s not what her boobs do. That’s what a filter does.

Gereminator@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 202d (1 reply)

What's the story with BP and Ariana? Are they still friends?

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 10 pts · 202d

Rarely see them together anymore. AJC commented bday wishes for šŸ‹ on Bird’s IG.

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 208d (5 replies)

crownofgold6@lemmy.ca · 17 pts · 208d (2 replies)

Should’ve been a no phones rule for yoga. She’s obsessed, probably the only person there scrolling during yoga.

FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 208d (1 reply)

Sasha was taking a selfie 🤣 this clown was in the background

ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca · 15 pts · 208d

These a-holes can't even give someone the respect and attention they deserve for even the briefest moment. Self-important social media addicted losers.

ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 206d

Always being a disrespectful twat. Someone gave their time and energy to lead that class but the fabulous Sarah Nicole can't pay attention and leave her phone alone for even a hot minute. Gross, rude-ass person.

Glowpop@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 207d

Reminds me of her doing the same thing, scrolling her phone and being a useless lump during group yoga at that Caribbean retreat she went to with the other influencers

facialSwelling@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 206d

In Sasha's video of Sarah, there still looks like some sort of filter is on. Look at her lips here.

Gereminator@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 201d (3 replies)

Have we talked about AM's hubby Scott's teeth? He looks like Ross when he got his teeth whitened.

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 10 pts · 201d

His teeth LOOK LIKE TURKEY TEETH 😬

Glowpop@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 201d

Yes!! This is all I think about when I see those strangely gargantuan, white ass teeth he decided to get. To each their own, but there's no way THAT was the end result he wanted. They look so ridiculous! I hope they have no black lights in their house šŸ˜‚

bellaportuguesexo@lemmy.ca · 7 pts · 201d

Donkey teeth

Bazell@lemmy.zip · 2 pts · 209d

Nice soft toy.

Gereminator@lemmy.ca · -6 pts · 207d (33 replies)

Hey guys, I'm new here. I have been a 🐦 follower for..... Wow way before šŸ‹. I've always loved and enjoyed her. Recently, when she announced her separation from šŸ§”, I wondered how legit she is because she'd never mentioned anything at all. So I started searching for chats and there's sooooo many.

I'll be honest - some of your comments/convos sound like you're jealous or very high school. But I'm interested in legitimate, honest opinions/information.

Thanks ā˜ŗļø

No_really_why@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 207d (17 replies)

I can assure you it’s not jealousy. Mostly I’m pissed she’s lying about filters, botox, fillers, etc - all while promoting skincare products. She’s being dishonest about a lot of things, and no one likes her exploiting her kids, particularly the youngest one. She also lied about having a full time nanny during the pandemic, making it seem like she was balancing it all on her own. I appreciate the validation this groups gives me in feeling betrayed.

No_really_why@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 207d (12 replies)

I also don’t believe this is a ā€œI’m just curiousā€, but I’m happy to point out the fraud she is again and again.

Gereminator@lemmy.ca · 5 pts · 207d (11 replies)

I'm just a normal mom from Alberta šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø

No_really_why@lemmy.ca · 4 pts · 206d (10 replies)

Sorry, easy to get defensive around here!

Gereminator@lemmy.ca · 7 pts · 206d (9 replies)

I'm seeing that!! I was being legit and honest. Like, irl when someone "doesn't like someone" there's a level of jealousy there. Mention it here and I got my head bit off! I read the "intro" from Lemmy and now I'm falling through a huge rabbit hole of people who legitimately hate her and my eyes are very open now. I appreciate this discussion and correspondence.

facialSwelling@lemmy.ca · 11 pts · 206d (4 replies)

People can dislike other people without being jealous. Comparison doesn't guide everyone's thought process, like it seems to for Sarah. For example, I don't like Trump. I'm not jealous of him. If you believe there is a level of jealousy when someone doesn't like someone, I can understand your attraction to the Birds Papaya. She may have felt like a comrade in arms. GumboYaYa made a great point about mothers who tell their daughters, ā€œOh, honey, they are just jealous of youā€. My Mother never did that; maybe your mother and Sarah's mother did. I'm not saying this to shame you. Maybe those drawn to Sarah were raised by mothers who lacked self-awareness.

Gereminator@lemmy.ca · 5 pts · 206d

Ok let's chat then. But I'd appreciate it if you took a breather first.

Not liking her because she lies, deceits, uses filters, is genuinely a bad mother or wife - cool. I can get with that.

Making fun of her teeth, saying she is ugly, she "probably made so much money on that" - from an outsiders perspective, yeah, some of it sounds like jealousy; not in the "I wish I looked like her" way, but in a "I kind of wish I had what she has" way. Especially when you haven't met her or actually interacted with her.

THAT BEING SAID. I have been reading tons of threads, posts, snarks (literally JUST discovered that word and what it means...) and while I see much of the disapproval of BP as legitimate (as I requested in my original post) perhaps the disdain has encompassed the persona AND the looks (that she manipulates and makes money off of).

So chill. There's no ulterior motive here. I'm genuinely curious, and up until literally a couple months ago, I was an avid follower of the BP and now I'm learning who she truly is and I, too, feel manipulated, lied to and like an utter fool for believing in her and genuinely liking her.

But attacking me - someone who you have never met - doesn't make you any better than her.

GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca · 11 pts · 206d (2 replies)

The assumption that when women call other women out for their bullshit means there is a level of jealously is wrong on many levels. That’s exactly what the person who is being called out says. It makes me think of the mothers who tell their daughters ā€œoh honey they are just jealous of youā€ instead of helping their girls to grow and become self aware of their behaviors…we just say others are jealous. And they grow up never having learned how to see themselves. I am responding, respectfully, but in some ways defending the women who have grown tired of the lying that women influencers are doing and the damage it is causing.

MoonChild@lemmy.ca · 8 pts · 206d

Excellent points.

facialSwelling@lemmy.ca · 8 pts · 206d

šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘

No_really_why@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 206d

You have to admit your wording wasn’t exactly the most open minded either though ( ie. using ā€œjealousā€)

Gereminator@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 207d (3 replies)

I agree. Have you ever seen the show How I Met Your Mother when everyone realizes something about the other person in the group and there's a sound of a glass shattering? That's how it's felt for me lately. Just this....... "wait a minute" moment. I am feeling validated though!

MoonChild@lemmy.ca · 11 pts · 206d (2 replies)

If you poke around Reddit you’ll see comments from people who know her and find your feelings are correct

Gereminator@lemmy.ca · 11 pts · 206d (1 reply)

I'm falling through a huge reddit rabbit hole. I'm just shocked..... I'm getting more and more appalled at this whole persona. And soooo embarrassed I fell for it šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 206d

We have all been there. Welcome!

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 207d

Lmfao. Jealous of what? We actually just cant stand her. There is really no reason to explain why... Its obvious.

facialSwelling@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 207d (7 replies)

Hi, new here, wow! To be honest, you sound very grade 10, maipulative and suspect.

If you are new to #thebirdspapaya snark, why are you using symbols for Lemmie, Shane Landry and Sarah Nicole Landry? How did you know the exact symbols to use? Did you pick that up from cruising the Reddit pages for hours on end? Over here on Lemmy, we say Sarah's name.

"I'll be honest" is often used by people doing the opposite. So fess up, come clean. Who are you? What's your objective? I think you don't like Sarah and are using shame (jealous or very high school) to trigger emotional or aggressive responses about Sarah. Perhaps you want to generate a flurry of activity. What did she do to you? I'm interested in legitimate information. She fucked you over, didn't she?

Thanks 🄸

Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 207d (1 reply)

It's giving very "hello fellow peoples who do not like this lady, who I am definitely not, as you can see by my profile pic"

facialSwelling@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 206d

This šŸ˜‚ or I'm Renee Reina, hoping to stir the pot.

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 207d

:)

Gereminator@lemmy.ca · 4 pts · 207d (3 replies)

You seem nice. Yeah I did check reddit first and used the emojis to be nice. šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø

facialSwelling@lemmy.ca · 7 pts · 206d (2 replies)

Nice of you to call the members of this group, jealous or very high school.

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 206d (1 reply)

Right? Not exactly the best intro 🧐 Jealousy implies that we want what birdshit has. We don’t want fake followers (literal strangers!), filtered morals, or affiliate links disguised as ā€˜authenticity.’ Criticism isn’t high school jealousy Gereminator—it’s discernment. There’s a difference!! We also don’t compete with people who sell integrity for commission. She is an ugly, shameful woman and a poor excuse of a mother.

BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca · 8 pts · 206d

Jealous that I don’t plagarize articles and pass them off as my own? I’ll pass, that’s not someone I look up to or aspire to be. It’s ok to call out shitty people as shitty people.

crownofgold6@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 207d

Jealous? Why would I be jealous of someone who is clearly not happy with their life so they have to filter every part of themselves on top of getting work done to make herself look better (no shame against getting work done!! It’s just she does it but still filters herself and lies about it!!!!). Unlike her I actually love my family and don’t want to spend endless days and nights separated from them. Why would I be jealous of someone who is now going through their second divorce? She couldn’t even keep a marriage with a man that was her fairytale because she cared more about herself and her need to be away from that man and their child every chance she got. Why would I he ienaoieofspmeoje who has been accused for cheating and that’s why her relationship ended?

I don’t think anyone here is jealous of this trainwreck. But that’s always what people assume when she isn’t liked, you can just not like someone for the person they choose to be (and she chooses to be a shitty narcissistic one), it isn’t always about jealousy.

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 207d (2 replies)

Can you explain what you love about her content?

Gereminator@lemmy.ca · 10 pts · 207d (1 reply)

It's been about the last 4-6 months I've not enjoyed her content as much. I don't follow any other influencers at all, she was the only one. I just liked her, I guess. I messaged her about 4 months ago telling her I has a dream about her and that she, Shane and bailey were super tall, like 8 feet and she replied to me (I was pumped!) saying she actually is really tall and responded only about herself. The glass ceiling started cracking

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 11 pts · 207d

She's literally disgusting.

Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca · 12 pts · 207d (1 reply)

I love how it’s always the jealousy card šŸ˜‚ our lives are FAR RICHER than hers. We hate her because she’s a greedy, tone deaf grifter who doesn’t parent her children, abandons them any chance she can get to be a spoiled, privileged ā€œinfluencerā€ and is also a pathological liar. ā€œBody positivityā€ while shooting Ozempic, tox and fillers and also filtering allllll her own photos. She’s a lying, greedy, spoiled little brat who does absolutely nothing to deserve the life of privilege she lives.

Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca · 13 pts · 207d

Right! Jealous of what. She's a twice divorced, selfish twat.