Ok after rereading my comment i need to elaborate a bit because it sounds psychotic - I dont have a real gender preference i just call myself an ethical chaser because I think its funnier saying it that way because it also includes trans people

Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.org · 20 pts · 114d (5 replies)

That's not what a chaser is. That is quite literally the opposite of a chaser.

DerShendi@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 114d (4 replies)

Might be but ive been told by trans people and saw post from other people calling anyone who likes trans people(no matter if they like cis people aswell) a chaser so i just started labeling myself as such

Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.org · 26 pts · 114d (3 replies)

Ok, then lemme clear this up :3

A chaser is someone who wants to have sex with a trans person, because the person is trans, regardless of their character, etc. Most chasers are only interested in trans people that haven't had gender affirming surgery, so it's double icky.

DerShendi@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 10 pts · 114d (2 replies)

Oh so they just want to microdose being gay as a fetish!!! Ok thanks for explaining it to me because I have shitters as friends and they turn everything into a meme.

Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.org · 7 pts · 114d (1 reply)

How would it be gay?

DerShendi@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 7 pts · 114d

It wouldn't be but to some cis straight people it counts as being gay(Im comming with the mentality of a third world country so i genuinely might be wrong its just how i heard people here talk about it . Im from Kosovo)

Soulg@ani.social · 10 pts · 114d (16 replies)

Seems kinda by definition not ace then?

kayzeekayzee@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 12 pts · 114d

Describing sex acts and doing sex acts are two very different things. At least for me anyways.

rockSlayer@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 10 pts · 114d (2 replies)

Not all ace people are sex repulsed.

Soulg@ani.social · 3 pts · 114d (1 reply)

I didn't say anything about repulsion; but if you sometimes want sex, then how can you be ace? That's frankly a genuine question because I thought that was literally what being ace was about.

piccolo@sh.itjust.works · 18 pts · 114d

Asexual = lack of sexual attraction, not desire/urges.

Its like being hungry but without any specific cravings.

DerShendi@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 pts · 114d (11 replies)

True but i dont even know at this point. Ive lived thru my entire 29 years of having no romantic or sexual feelings towards any person or gender and then theres the last 2 months where ive just been horny on main every other week for no fuckass reason i dont know at this point.

TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 6 pts · 114d (1 reply)

tbh, simply discovering stuff about yourself/opening your mind to other possibilities can unlock a lot of hidden desire you didn't know you had. Regardless of what flavor you are, you definitely come across as queer in some way

DerShendi@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 113d

Yeah true and im open about it so im not shoving it down im just even more confused than i was before. Also im here on this website so ofc some fruit is flowing down my veins

N0tTr0xy@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 4 pts · 114d (2 replies)

You are horny but it’s not directed towards anybody specifically?

DerShendi@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 114d (1 reply)

Yes its not pointed pointed towards anyone.

N0tTr0xy@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 113d

I have that with some fantasies. It’s somewhat scary, since if I ever tried them out, the person I’m doing that with would be basically disposable.

JennyLaFae@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 114d (5 replies)

Injections every two weeks? Possibly hitting a sweet spot on your levels.

DerShendi@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 114d (4 replies)

Im not on hrt... Im not even trans, at best im agender but im still debating that :(

JennyLaFae@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 114d (3 replies)

Same, but with the addition of "I have trans friends who are trying to forcefem me"

How sure are you? :3 /jk

DerShendi@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 114d (2 replies)

They've been at it for the past 4 years so pretty sure. I said in an earlier post that i dont feel like any specific gender at all so theyve been thinking that i might be NB or agender but theyre still trying :3

JennyLaFae@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 114d (1 reply)

To be more clear the joke was insinuating "are you sure you're not on hrt" not "are you sure you're not trans"

DerShendi@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 6 pts · 114d

My bad gang im the big tism xD