Yeah I was thinking this is a common complaint of a lot of the married women in my office. They always “have to give their spouses lists of things to do” rather than the adult spouses taking the initiative to participate in their household decisions and I’m like…I don’t want to say anything, because so many seemed resigned to this as normal and expected, but I’d rather die alone.
I feel like this is often a case where one partner cares more about something than the other and partners having very different opinions on what is still tolerable when it comes to for example cleaning stuff in the house. This is probably affected a lot by socialisation and that's how you get that it's almost always the man not doing some chores their wife gave them.
I remember when my wife wasn't working I would come home and she would be fucking around shopping all day and going places. The least you could do is clean up after yourself, I'm not asking you to chore all day. I'm glad she got a job, because I hated that shit.
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db2@lemmy.world · 29 pts · 117d
If your spouse treats you like a child you both did everything wrong.
Beth@piefed.social · 6 pts · 116d
Yeah I was thinking this is a common complaint of a lot of the married women in my office. They always “have to give their spouses lists of things to do” rather than the adult spouses taking the initiative to participate in their household decisions and I’m like…I don’t want to say anything, because so many seemed resigned to this as normal and expected, but I’d rather die alone.
zaphod@sopuli.xyz · 4 pts · 116d
I feel like this is often a case where one partner cares more about something than the other and partners having very different opinions on what is still tolerable when it comes to for example cleaning stuff in the house. This is probably affected a lot by socialisation and that's how you get that it's almost always the man not doing some chores their wife gave them.
FosterMolasses@leminal.space · 26 pts · 117d
THE CHICKEN IS STILL IN THE FREEZER, THIS IS NOT A DRILL
Shameless@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 117d
Why is this a universal experience 😔
devfuuu@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 116d
Just eat something else? It's not like it's going bad if it's still literally frozen.
TheMadIrishman@sh.itjust.works · 9 pts · 117d
Fuuuuuuuuuck. Been there. Lol
BigBrownDog@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 117d
I remember when my wife wasn't working I would come home and she would be fucking around shopping all day and going places. The least you could do is clean up after yourself, I'm not asking you to chore all day. I'm glad she got a job, because I hated that shit.
Sergio@piefed.social · 5 pts · 116d
"I'm working on it right now!"
southsamurai@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 116d
Okay, I have the feeling I know who the artist is, but my brain ain't making the connection. Anyone happen to know?
platypode@sh.itjust.works · 10 pts · 116d
Painting of a Smoker by Adriaen Brouwer
southsamurai@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 116d
Nice! Thank you very much
Edit: and I was right, I did recognize the style from his other painting of smokers lol.
realitaetsverlust@piefed.zip · 2 pts · 117d
Idk why but I somehow see a homeless andrew tate in that image