the real answer is paying really close attention to her responses, having a general idea of where on a womans body it feels good to touch, and being motivated and enthusiastic to make her feel good. sometimes i get in the zone and it almost feels like i can feel what theyre feeling. empathy goes such a long way its crazy.
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applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 26 pts · 14d
the real answer is paying really close attention to her responses, having a general idea of where on a womans body it feels good to touch, and being motivated and enthusiastic to make her feel good. sometimes i get in the zone and it almost feels like i can feel what theyre feeling. empathy goes such a long way its crazy.
okwhateverdude@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 14d
Yeah, exactly. If you aren't playing their body like a virtuoso plays an instrument, are you even trying?
Engine606@lemmy.ml · 1 pts · 14d
Well said.
Aurenkin@sh.itjust.works · 8 pts · 14d
This is so true. Getting in the zone like that is such an amazing feeling, I love it, especially her reactions.
Funkt4st1c@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 14d
This is true even if shes pretending at first. Body signals very different from verbal
dismay3915@lemmy.world · 13 pts · 14d
I think we humans have a flaw in our nose design because it really clogs up and sometime the only way is a little bit of finger exploration.