I have an amazing kid and I love her and she's the light of my life and I wouldn't trade her for anything and all...
...but she is absolutely killing me and this is the hardest, scariest thing I've ever done in my life, and if anyone felt even one percent less than totally committed to parenthood then I would advise them not to do it. The idea of trying to convince somebody to create a human being that they would then resent, leading to at least two deeply fucked up lifetimes, is the stupidest goddamn thing imaginable.
There are plenty of people who want to have kids. Let 'em. Everyone else should do something they'd rather do instead.
The majority of humans dont have access to sex ed, sterilization, birth control and abortions
So theres a million people out there who are regretful parrnts and didnt have the oppurtunities that you did and they dont feep the same joy towards your kid as you do.
I feel sorry for thrm
Thanks for your story and consideration though 🫂
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GraniteM@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 14d
I have an amazing kid and I love her and she's the light of my life and I wouldn't trade her for anything and all...
...but she is absolutely killing me and this is the hardest, scariest thing I've ever done in my life, and if anyone felt even one percent less than totally committed to parenthood then I would advise them not to do it. The idea of trying to convince somebody to create a human being that they would then resent, leading to at least two deeply fucked up lifetimes, is the stupidest goddamn thing imaginable.
There are plenty of people who want to have kids. Let 'em. Everyone else should do something they'd rather do instead.
UnequalExchange@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 13d
The majority of humans dont have access to sex ed, sterilization, birth control and abortions
So theres a million people out there who are regretful parrnts and didnt have the oppurtunities that you did and they dont feep the same joy towards your kid as you do.
I feel sorry for thrm
Thanks for your story and consideration though 🫂
boredsquirrel@slrpnk.net · 1 pts · 14d
reev@sh.itjust.works · 10 pts · 15d
B-but... But number-go-up capitalism :(
boredsquirrel@slrpnk.net · 8 pts · 14d
I even struggle to be an adult and live like this XD
UnequalExchange@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 13d
The majority of humans dont have access to sex ed, sterilization, birth control and abortions. Always remember this.
Theres a million stories out there thst coulf have gone like hers' but didnt get a chance to....
makeshift0546@lemmy.today · -1 pts · 15d
destructdisc@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 15d
I'm still looking for who asked
makeshift0546@lemmy.today · -1 pts · 15d
destructdisc@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 14d
Are you purposely being obtuse or are you just in the habit of barging into spaces where you're not welcome?
makeshift0546@lemmy.today · 0 pts · 14d
hakase@lemmy.today · 3 pts · 14d
Lol, they banned you for being "anti-childfree" when you were clearly critiquing the wording of the OP and not the content.
The mod was already owned and ratioed but decided to add "petty" and "fragile" to the list of descriptors as well.