"Our Wire Mothers" - It's important for us to be careful that our technology does not supplant the human need for socialization.

Absolutely. The essay does actually address that towards the end:

There’s no shame in turning to the internet for supplementing socialization when doing it “better” isn’t feasible. It’s easy to imagine situations where someone might not have access to a community that keeps them sane. A gay teenager stuck in rural Alabama. A woman born into a controlled religious society. A New York sports fan in Boston. Some days in life, the best we can hope for is making it until tomorrow in one piece.

This is true. Even amongst humans, there's a concept called "surrogate partners", who work with sex therapists who help patients deal with barriers in intimate relationships.

With some families, and areas, this may be better

Here’s a shorthand way to think about healthful technology use.

https://www.merriam-webster.com/grammar/healthy-or-healthful

Is it 'Healthy' or 'Healthful'? You don't win friends with arbitrary usage rules from the 1880s

Do you like healthy food? Or do you think green vegetables only qualify as "healthful"? Those in the latter camp believe that healthful means "good for your health" (which is true), and that healthy means "having or showing good health" (which is also true), and that one word can never be used for the other. . .which, well, isn't true.

These vegetables are healthful. They are also healthy. Both words are correct.

Let's look at the histories of these two words. Healthful is older. It dates to the late 14th century, when it was used exclusively to mean "conducive to health" or "good for you." Within about 150 years, though, healthful was also being used to mean "having or showing good health."

Around the same time this alternate meaning of healthful developed—in the mid-1500s—the word healthy came on the scene—and it was used with both meanings that healthful had.

Since then it's all been pretty much downhill for healthful. The word is now only rarely used as a synonym for "well," and it's not very frequently used to mean "good for you" either. Yep, since its introduction more than 450 years ago, healthy has been the more common word for both meanings.

For a long time it seems no one cared about which word people used. The distinction between healthful and healthy was first prescribed as a rule in the 1880s. The rule, though, never had much of an impact on actual usage. In American English, healthy is far more common than healthful, and in British English healthful is downright rare. You can of course observe the distinction if you want to, and call vegetables healthful and your well friends healthy. You'll be correct if you do, and in the minority. You can also ignore the distinction and say that both vegetables and well people are healthy. You'll also be correct, and in the majority. It's up to you.

Why do you say this?