Sorry if I struck a nerve, I was joking, but it is kind of the theme of the post...
If you want actual advice, I've found that some well executed tongue-play sets the mood and loosens things up quite nicely and maybe have some toys to play with ready as well. The reality is though that if it's a hard line for your partner and they aren't willing to compromise you're in a tough spot.
Referencing your edit: I don't think it's a widely used term tbh and if it is I'm willing to bet it means something far different. I was specifically just using the post title lmao.
Fair enough and sometimes that's just life. I mostly commented that because of your "just the tip" comment because to me that speaks at least to a certain level of willingness but maybe a lack of preparation in the end. For someone who's inexperienced it takes a LOT of warm up, like on the order of hours, to ensure it's a pleasurable experience because in the end you need to be relaxed for it to feel good which can be tough if the sensations are new and you're in pain.
Like many men I fantasize about FFM threesomes, but then I after I think about it a bit I realize that I don't think my ego could handle disappointing two women at the same time.
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nudermeisters@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 2y
scabrous_leper@lemmynsfw.com · 6 pts · 2y
It was uncomfortable inititially...but then...not!
nudermeisters@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 2y
Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 2y
Cheer up pal. You'll meet a nice guy or gal to help you out. If not, just give 'em the old Cancun Surprise!
nudermeisters@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 2y
Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 2y
Sorry if I struck a nerve, I was joking, but it is kind of the theme of the post...
If you want actual advice, I've found that some well executed tongue-play sets the mood and loosens things up quite nicely and maybe have some toys to play with ready as well. The reality is though that if it's a hard line for your partner and they aren't willing to compromise you're in a tough spot.
nudermeisters@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 2y
Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 2y
Referencing your edit: I don't think it's a widely used term tbh and if it is I'm willing to bet it means something far different. I was specifically just using the post title lmao.
Fair enough and sometimes that's just life. I mostly commented that because of your "just the tip" comment because to me that speaks at least to a certain level of willingness but maybe a lack of preparation in the end. For someone who's inexperienced it takes a LOT of warm up, like on the order of hours, to ensure it's a pleasurable experience because in the end you need to be relaxed for it to feel good which can be tough if the sensations are new and you're in pain.
scabrous_leper@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 2y
Anal is like threesomes, very overrated
nudermeisters@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 2y
SEND_BUTTPLUG_PICS@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 2y
Like many men I fantasize about FFM threesomes, but then I after I think about it a bit I realize that I don't think my ego could handle disappointing two women at the same time.
Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 2y
You're not fooling me. I know it was no surprise 😏
scabrous_leper@lemmynsfw.com · 5 pts · 2y
No really-My Spanish was NOT sufficiently fluent to know that was what he intended!
nudermeisters@lemmynsfw.com · 5 pts · 2y
scabrous_leper@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 2y
Haha. something like that, to be sure
Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 2y
Hahaha a likely story! I'm sure round 2 was also an accident?
scabrous_leper@lemmynsfw.com · 4 pts · 2y
well, that was round two, actually. Then I kicked him out!
nudermeisters@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 2y
scabrous_leper@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 2y
that...I DO know
Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 2y
And not even a thank you for the good time cuddle or smoke for the road? I'm aghast at your hospitality missy 😤
bows4dalow@mastodon.social · -1 pts · 2y
@scabrous_leper Reup on 🍃⛽️-https://t.me/bows4daloww