Yeah in my experience men like to fetishize lesbians for the idea of multiple women and for the idea of “switching our sides”. From what I hear straight women like gay men more for the idea that they’re more comfortable with femininity and vulnerability as well as mutual attraction to men. Ironically I hear bi men have a wildly different experience and are prone to being rejected over it.
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metaconnoisseur@lemmynsfw.com · 19 pts · 2y
Sandbag@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 2y
What do you mean by different reasons?
metaconnoisseur@lemmynsfw.com · 13 pts · 2y
captainlezbian@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 2y
Yeah in my experience men like to fetishize lesbians for the idea of multiple women and for the idea of “switching our sides”. From what I hear straight women like gay men more for the idea that they’re more comfortable with femininity and vulnerability as well as mutual attraction to men. Ironically I hear bi men have a wildly different experience and are prone to being rejected over it.
dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.com · 4 pts · 2y
Yeah story of my life 😔
AnAccount@lemmynsfw.com · 16 pts · 2y
I’ve heard from several women that they really like gay porn.
Dagnet@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 2y
My female friends that read manga often like reading yaoi so I assume yes
Beastie@lemmy.sdf.org · 7 pts · 2y
Hell yes they do. Speaking for my wife and many of her friends.
captainlezbian@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 2y
According to my gay guy friends: yes.
Maddie@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 2y
Some do, it's never done anything for me tho
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 2y
I think when you ask "does anybody" anything the answer is yes.
I don't find gay sex arousing, no. But don't mind if a guy is bi, it's not a turnoff either.
Kolanaki@yiffit.net · 1 pts · 2y
My first GF was into watching gay porn and talked about gay dudes the way straight dudes talk about lesbians.
Letdown3473@lemmynsfw.com · -4 pts · 2y
Only for shopping purposes...
rufus@discuss.tchncs.de · -6 pts · 2y
Not sure if women fetishize as much as men do.