Oh, it's alright :)
I bought these one especially because they were smooth enough for a beginner (since I mostly am not using them by myself). I believe it's a mix between light and soft rope
It definitely is work. Choosing the right ropes for the right uses, learning how to tighten correctly a knot, not hurting the model, having a nice looking result... Honestly I knew this one already but I still had to start over once and it took me half an hour
On bondage/shibari?
I always was kinky but I stumbled across a dom that gave me the basics (I didn't slept with him). Afterwards youtube was an endless source of joy but it was hard to find someone to get into it. So I learned some self tie techniques. The feeling of rope on itself is just arousing
On my encounter?
Surprisingly we barely talked. We met at the train station, he hold my hand and led me in the parking. I got pinned against a wall in a fairly empty area, choked until I put away my clothes. I was fucked before my top was removed, it appears I was way to much exciting for hum to wait~ I had an amazing moment
Weeeell it just takes so much time to get into pure shibari aesthetics so I rather like the quick-into-fun-restraint too. Feeling completely helpless, being vulnerable, forced to be open...
Pleased sigh
Anyway this time it was definitely to impress someone, to trigger imagination in an effective way
Without the back it would be hard but it's a variation of this one : https://youtu.be/9-F3dr94o58
For explanation I just skipped the 2 knots on my ribs and ended the very last passing upper behind. I didn't want it to be too much regular
No joke there are plenty of survival techniques to change a rope into and armband
In my case, I had a very special encounter so I felt like wearing this as an underwear was a survival situation. I had no sex since a while, was dying inside ;3
Sad. Maybe it's time to ask what changed? "I had the feeling I knew you on this topic but how do you feel about it today?" could be a relevant question, with mutual respect ofc. You don't want her to be pressured, neither feel put aside
Well I had the same problem with my ex (9 years relationship). We patched it the last years by allowing to seek sex out ot the couple. Worked ok for me for that time with a lot of fap. Sex felt like "my thing", like it was a hobby I had on my own
To your problems there might be answers too but I'd advise to seek for the help of a sex therapist and do a couple session to talk over how to bring the fire between the lovers. Most of people change with time, have less thrive in sex because life and the body just put them there. They're focused on loan, children, everyday's life or just the loving component in the couple
Today I couldn't imagine involve in a romantic relation without the kinky/horny side. I'm very open about it coz I believe it's one of my needs. The last guy I dated, I was very upfront on the subject. After I noticed he was flirting I asked straightforwardly "Man. You're cute and all but before I can consider even seeing you romantically... How do you feel about sex? "
Since I'm pretty new to Lemmy NSFW, for now I'm just exploring the exhibitionnist kink. What I like when I do the pic is the feeling to show myself to the world. It's a weird mix between trying to make people look at me the way I look at me, and knowing how people will feel horny about it
Y a know, my body appears to be in the beauty standards but I believe I would have made shots anyway even if I was "ugly". To me humans are beautiful with their imperfections, moreover imperfections make humans beautiful
(One artist that made me cry is the work from junjun_artfactory)
Also I have enough knowledge in psychology to understand the human need for beauty, whatever beauty might mean. So no worries, your reflection is largely welcomed!
idk I believe I have some sense of style but when it comes to arouse someone it depends so much on tastes and sensitivity. I'm pretty sure I could just take any random shot there will be someone to like it around. Also there are some very stunning pics playing on erotic art on Lemmy and they don't have that much success 🤷
Core question being : why we do what we do? What do we want to express? In my case I just enjoy myself and sharing to make other people enjoy too. Aesthetics is not the point but I appreciate your feedback anyway
Oh, it's alright :) I bought these one especially because they were smooth enough for a beginner (since I mostly am not using them by myself). I believe it's a mix between light and soft rope
It definitely is work. Choosing the right ropes for the right uses, learning how to tighten correctly a knot, not hurting the model, having a nice looking result... Honestly I knew this one already but I still had to start over once and it took me half an hour
Wdym?
On bondage/shibari? I always was kinky but I stumbled across a dom that gave me the basics (I didn't slept with him). Afterwards youtube was an endless source of joy but it was hard to find someone to get into it. So I learned some self tie techniques. The feeling of rope on itself is just arousing
On my encounter? Surprisingly we barely talked. We met at the train station, he hold my hand and led me in the parking. I got pinned against a wall in a fairly empty area, choked until I put away my clothes. I was fucked before my top was removed, it appears I was way to much exciting for hum to wait~ I had an amazing moment
Rope bunny check
Weeeell it just takes so much time to get into pure shibari aesthetics so I rather like the quick-into-fun-restraint too. Feeling completely helpless, being vulnerable, forced to be open...
Pleased sigh
Anyway this time it was definitely to impress someone, to trigger imagination in an effective way
x) This will just lead Morfray to more frays
Without the back it would be hard but it's a variation of this one : https://youtu.be/9-F3dr94o58 For explanation I just skipped the 2 knots on my ribs and ended the very last passing upper behind. I didn't want it to be too much regular
My my, always loving the way you express yourself Weirdo~
No joke there are plenty of survival techniques to change a rope into and armband
In my case, I had a very special encounter so I felt like wearing this as an underwear was a survival situation. I had no sex since a while, was dying inside ;3
Always eager to feel me I see~
Shut up and take my body
Sad. Maybe it's time to ask what changed? "I had the feeling I knew you on this topic but how do you feel about it today?" could be a relevant question, with mutual respect ofc. You don't want her to be pressured, neither feel put aside
Well I had the same problem with my ex (9 years relationship). We patched it the last years by allowing to seek sex out ot the couple. Worked ok for me for that time with a lot of fap. Sex felt like "my thing", like it was a hobby I had on my own To your problems there might be answers too but I'd advise to seek for the help of a sex therapist and do a couple session to talk over how to bring the fire between the lovers. Most of people change with time, have less thrive in sex because life and the body just put them there. They're focused on loan, children, everyday's life or just the loving component in the couple
Today I couldn't imagine involve in a romantic relation without the kinky/horny side. I'm very open about it coz I believe it's one of my needs. The last guy I dated, I was very upfront on the subject. After I noticed he was flirting I asked straightforwardly "Man. You're cute and all but before I can consider even seeing you romantically... How do you feel about sex? "
Since I'm pretty new to Lemmy NSFW, for now I'm just exploring the exhibitionnist kink. What I like when I do the pic is the feeling to show myself to the world. It's a weird mix between trying to make people look at me the way I look at me, and knowing how people will feel horny about it
Y a know, my body appears to be in the beauty standards but I believe I would have made shots anyway even if I was "ugly". To me humans are beautiful with their imperfections, moreover imperfections make humans beautiful (One artist that made me cry is the work from junjun_artfactory)
Also I have enough knowledge in psychology to understand the human need for beauty, whatever beauty might mean. So no worries, your reflection is largely welcomed!
I considered to pose for art teaching classes. What stopped me is the fear to feel cold :p However, thank you so much 😊 I'll try to keep it good
I totally get the privacy point. And ofc all the amateur-spontanneous mood, very relatable!
I'm flattered lady and gentleman ^^
(No judgement mate)
idk I believe I have some sense of style but when it comes to arouse someone it depends so much on tastes and sensitivity. I'm pretty sure I could just take any random shot there will be someone to like it around. Also there are some very stunning pics playing on erotic art on Lemmy and they don't have that much success 🤷
Core question being : why we do what we do? What do we want to express? In my case I just enjoy myself and sharing to make other people enjoy too. Aesthetics is not the point but I appreciate your feedback anyway
Enlighten me 😏
Are the masks a thing that arouses you in filming or definitely just a safety tool?
BTW I love your content, you always seem to enjoy what you do with a lot of complicity
I wasn't expecting such kind of compliment... ! Thanks, I'm really flattered