mzesumzira

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on Normal [5ish/Crevetta] · c/comicstrips · 24 pts · 155d

"You're so mature for your age" is what predatorial adults often say to traumatised teens with self esteem issues to make them feel special and manipulate them into their control. In the panel they use it to push her to drink, presumably to lower her resistance to whatever they have in mind for later.

on Bored rule · c/196 · 4 pts · 211d

So what happened to the Squirrel Lord?

on What would you add? · c/mentalhealth · 1 pts · 262d

What the other commenter said, abusers love to make their victims feel responsible for their own abuse.

Also, other people's feelings are not my responsibility doesn't mean I don't get consequences if I hurt someone, it means my safety and my boundaries are valid even if someone hates them enough to cry about them.

The point does not stands on its own, rainbow people absolutely can have a hard time "passing", just ask the many gay kids bullied and harassed even when deep in the closet, without even mentioning trans folks.

Even if blackout drunk I managed to forget that, though, "you are fine if you hide who you are" is still a shitty argument to endorse.

You'd think, but there's lot of people that make eating meat a thing all right.
I never got bothered for eating meat, but I got approached several times by complete strangers while getting veg food because they HAD to mock me, convince me or explain nutrition to me.
Every group has their fanatics.

It's a mixed bag, as the other commenter said.

Not American, but news here have been focusing heavily and specifically on immigrants instances of crime for years, pushing often the same talking points Fox News uses; it affects people's perception of reality, they feel threatened and they are given no perspective on how prevalent it actually is or the systemic reasons why.

Now that doesn't justify the hate they display, but many could be led to reason if the outside pressure leveraging their ignorance stopped.