i appreciate it, but i am not cisgender and my dick does solidly fall in the micropenis category. i could have been clearer about that, but it sucks, so,
those are really lovely sites though, and i do think there's still some potential (with my dick). surely there are women who enjoy having a tongue inside them (probably a very comparable experience)
to try my dick out on a (cis) woman... even if it's quite small by cis guy standards. i can't imagine they'd get much out of it... but surely, there's someone out there who would?
i also have poor luck with women... although i know it can happen, it just hasn't worked out yet. i should just go out to the straight bars and dress masc... sigh
(i need to hop on The Apps also, but i need to get pictures first...)
(coming from a transmasc) a woman with an adequately large clit might not be able to penetrate, but i bet it would still feel pretty good on your ass 🤔
you know, i don't save my porn, but... i managed to find the couple of best vids i found before in this category. both of them are lacking in some way... but they're kind of close enough to get the gist
alright, i know you want an example of the audience involvement... the only thing i got is this insanely hot gif i think i downloaded off redgifs. and thankfully, it's still uploaded there with the same filename lmao: https://www.redgifs.com/watch/unrulyvalidgazelle
anyways, if there was a vid that like... combined all of these... idk if it would be my ideal porn vid but certainly scratch an itch that's otherwise hard to get! and if they're underwhelming, it's cool. hope they're at least somewhat enjoyable though
so there's a lot of axis when it comes to sexuality, especially around asexuality! i'll define them for you, and give a few examples, which might help you feel things out for yourself
allosexual - asexual
this is the spectrum of feeling typical sexual attraction to not feeling it. there's a lot of points in between allo and ace! for example, i'm demisexual, which means i only develop sexual attraction to people after establishing a strong trusting relationship with them. other examples are like, grey asexuality, aegosexual, etc
high libido - low libido
this is the spectrum of how horny you get/how often you want to do sex acts. it sounds like you're on the moderate to low end here, but it's good to know that it's not necessarily related to whether you're ace or not! for example, i'm demi and also high libido
sex positive - sex repulsed
this axis describes how you feel about sex acts, usually with other people. you can be totally stone cold ace and still enjoy sex, for whatever reason (enjoying other people's enjoyment, kink stuff, etc) - it's another thing that's just, related but doesn't define asexuality
alloromantic - aromantic
romantic attraction is its own axis! just like someone might not feel sexual attraction, one may or may not feel romantic attraction. it is also a spectrum, and i think there's a lot of similar identities in it to the ones on the ace spectrum e.g. demiromatic
anyways it sounds to me like you're on the ace spectrum for sure! i think you should read about some of the different identities in the ace spectrum and see if you can relate to any. for example, you might find aegosexual resonates with you:
Aegosexuals may have sexual fantasies, view sexual content, or masturbate, but typically feel little to no sexual attraction or desire to engage in sexual intercourse. Many aegosexuals fantasize about sex from a third-person perspective
i don't see enough porn scenes where there's like... a crowd getting too rowdy over a strip dancer or similar. where they break the hands off rule, start fondling her, and eventually progressing to just the whole crowd getting involved in fucking her / jerking off
(...... consentually)
seems to be a pretty limited niche, i found a few vids kind of like this, but nothing exactly right
is this question aimed at trans men? because the answer is probably yes (i would be more willing to have sex) and no (i would have less available partners to have sex)
i mean, the nice thing about medical accommodations, i think, is that they don't need to know what it is? they just need the documentation showing what your required accommodations are
but yes, i understand it's different from a high sex drive. i guess you didn't specify the origins of the compulsion, but at some point, it becomes nuch easier for me to do it regardless of the impact on my life (e.g. sleep) than not to, despite consistently eating about an hour of time (because otherwise it'll keep me awake for several hours and i won't be able to sleep at all). there are times where the impulse has been so strong i can't focus on work till it's dealt with, times i've snuck off to deal with it at work (thankfully, this has been a rare occurrence...)
like, i don't mind it and sometimes i like it, but it definitely impacts my life in ways i'm more cognizant of as i try to take care of myself better. obviously, i'm not required by my body to put in a full work's week of masturbating, but i'm not sure if the 5-10 hours i mentioned is negotiable; this is just the minimum i can get by on, i could easily go above that (although i won't lie, 40+ is impressive)
i, uh... hm. maybe learned a new thing about myself tonight
a lot of my life revolves around managing my sex drive, yeah. i have to make sure to reserve like an hour and change, every other day, at most, to keep myself functioning well. i did think it was weird it took me so long and it usually delays my sleep by an hour and contributes (along other factors) to a consistent pattern of sleep deprivation
i did a little reading and perhaps this is related to the ADHD. wouldn't surprise me
more surprised that i thought it was normal to clock something like 5-10 hours a week getting off...
that said, i don't think i want to get a diagnosis, i kind of like being wired like this. i can.. mostly manage having a job fine haha
are you hoping to get a treatment for your hypersexuality via getting a diagnosis? or just a dx for accommodations in the workplace or something? no need to answer if you don't want to
(for background, i'm also trans, although trans masc and about ten years older than you. but i've been hypersexual for as long as i can remember; since i was a teenager i was basically a compulsive masturbator)
(it's an interesting mix with being demi, i'm actually a lot more interested in masturbation than sex... except when i have someone i'm interested in. then i become a sex demon 😈)
could be like a sensory thing too, like, idk, it's a little less wet to kiss someone after they've had a cock in their mouth vs a pussy. you get a lil messier and the sensation might just make you feel icky, or you might not like the taste
unfortunately, OP, we can't answer for you, but i would caution you from assuming it's some kind of belief-based disgust or like, a superiority thing, or whatever
thanks to all the cool folks shutting this shit down, big appreciate y'all
for OP: transgenderism (the word) isn't real, you idiot. being transgender isn't a religion, i need testosterone to be normal, which just happens to be something my body doesn't produce naturally. i don't worship it
not living on your own is brutal for any sort of sexual connection with yourself. hang in there friend
oh no, sorry, i meant tongue as the closest comparison to how my specific dick feels 💀 it's um, unique from cis guy dick
i appreciate it, but i am not cisgender and my dick does solidly fall in the micropenis category. i could have been clearer about that, but it sucks, so,
those are really lovely sites though, and i do think there's still some potential (with my dick). surely there are women who enjoy having a tongue inside them (probably a very comparable experience)
i did get a kick out of this though: https://lemmynsfw.com/pictrs/image/36967755-9b28-4caa-93c8-48e8dfbb7fb2.jpeg
to try my dick out on a (cis) woman... even if it's quite small by cis guy standards. i can't imagine they'd get much out of it... but surely, there's someone out there who would?
i also have poor luck with women... although i know it can happen, it just hasn't worked out yet. i should just go out to the straight bars and dress masc... sigh
(i need to hop on The Apps also, but i need to get pictures first...)
need to find someone like you but appreciate that you're out there
(coming from a transmasc) a woman with an adequately large clit might not be able to penetrate, but i bet it would still feel pretty good on your ass 🤔
thought about this a lot myself, lol
thank you for introducing me to a new kind of rope play
bro i gotta bust like 18 times to feel like i did anything 😭😭😭
selfish question but any tips to find a hookup?
i'm a trans man so that doesn't help lmfao
yea, i usually prefer it. do people like static vibrator intensity? LOL i get numb to the sensation quickly and the pattern helps mitigate it
you know, i don't save my porn, but... i managed to find the couple of best vids i found before in this category. both of them are lacking in some way... but they're kind of close enough to get the gist
this one is actually a married couple fucking in some kind of ceremony on stage. it doesn't have the audience involvement but there's something hot about the sheer number of people there just to watch. note that this is part 1 and 2 of a three part series: https://www.xnxx.com/video-uu55hd6/pornovatas.com_romantic_real_public_sex_big_natural_tits_vs_big_dick_by_victor_bloom
this one is just a dude fucking a stripper on a table and there's like... one guy watching and plausibly an audience. again, not too much audience involvement, but it's hot the way he fucks her just SO GOOD up there for the crowd: https://xhamster.com/videos/gorgeous-stripper-gets-eaten-out-and-her-pussy-filled-with-hard-cock-xhMEdlU
alright, i know you want an example of the audience involvement... the only thing i got is this insanely hot gif i think i downloaded off redgifs. and thankfully, it's still uploaded there with the same filename lmao: https://www.redgifs.com/watch/unrulyvalidgazelle
anyways, if there was a vid that like... combined all of these... idk if it would be my ideal porn vid but certainly scratch an itch that's otherwise hard to get! and if they're underwhelming, it's cool. hope they're at least somewhat enjoyable though
so there's a lot of axis when it comes to sexuality, especially around asexuality! i'll define them for you, and give a few examples, which might help you feel things out for yourself
allosexual - asexual
high libido - low libido
sex positive - sex repulsed
alloromantic - aromantic
anyways it sounds to me like you're on the ace spectrum for sure! i think you should read about some of the different identities in the ace spectrum and see if you can relate to any. for example, you might find aegosexual resonates with you:
i don't see enough porn scenes where there's like... a crowd getting too rowdy over a strip dancer or similar. where they break the hands off rule, start fondling her, and eventually progressing to just the whole crowd getting involved in fucking her / jerking off
(...... consentually)
seems to be a pretty limited niche, i found a few vids kind of like this, but nothing exactly right
probably the fact i can break 100 orgasms, given a couple hours
literally nothing else in my life is going well, but damn, i can hit 100 orgasms
hard to be too upset about life after having 100 orgasms
is this question aimed at trans men? because the answer is probably yes (i would be more willing to have sex) and no (i would have less available partners to have sex)
(also i am a trans man)
funny question tho
i mean, the nice thing about medical accommodations, i think, is that they don't need to know what it is? they just need the documentation showing what your required accommodations are
but yes, i understand it's different from a high sex drive. i guess you didn't specify the origins of the compulsion, but at some point, it becomes nuch easier for me to do it regardless of the impact on my life (e.g. sleep) than not to, despite consistently eating about an hour of time (because otherwise it'll keep me awake for several hours and i won't be able to sleep at all). there are times where the impulse has been so strong i can't focus on work till it's dealt with, times i've snuck off to deal with it at work (thankfully, this has been a rare occurrence...)
like, i don't mind it and sometimes i like it, but it definitely impacts my life in ways i'm more cognizant of as i try to take care of myself better. obviously, i'm not required by my body to put in a full work's week of masturbating, but i'm not sure if the 5-10 hours i mentioned is negotiable; this is just the minimum i can get by on, i could easily go above that (although i won't lie, 40+ is impressive)
i, uh... hm. maybe learned a new thing about myself tonight
a lot of my life revolves around managing my sex drive, yeah. i have to make sure to reserve like an hour and change, every other day, at most, to keep myself functioning well. i did think it was weird it took me so long and it usually delays my sleep by an hour and contributes (along other factors) to a consistent pattern of sleep deprivation
i did a little reading and perhaps this is related to the ADHD. wouldn't surprise me
more surprised that i thought it was normal to clock something like 5-10 hours a week getting off...
that said, i don't think i want to get a diagnosis, i kind of like being wired like this. i can.. mostly manage having a job fine haha
are you hoping to get a treatment for your hypersexuality via getting a diagnosis? or just a dx for accommodations in the workplace or something? no need to answer if you don't want to
(for background, i'm also trans, although trans masc and about ten years older than you. but i've been hypersexual for as long as i can remember; since i was a teenager i was basically a compulsive masturbator)
(it's an interesting mix with being demi, i'm actually a lot more interested in masturbation than sex... except when i have someone i'm interested in. then i become a sex demon 😈)
could be like a sensory thing too, like, idk, it's a little less wet to kiss someone after they've had a cock in their mouth vs a pussy. you get a lil messier and the sensation might just make you feel icky, or you might not like the taste
unfortunately, OP, we can't answer for you, but i would caution you from assuming it's some kind of belief-based disgust or like, a superiority thing, or whatever
thanks to all the cool folks shutting this shit down, big appreciate y'all
for OP: transgenderism (the word) isn't real, you idiot. being transgender isn't a religion, i need testosterone to be normal, which just happens to be something my body doesn't produce naturally. i don't worship it
at least talk about being trans correctly
honestly? yeah this