Similar here, my partner and I are mostly talking in English for non-important/silly stuff and switch to French when things said are serious/important. A way to separate real/serious from joking/sarcasm.
English is my native language. Iâm reasonably fluent in some parts of life in French but I feel like if I were to try to have a deeper conversation about something like emotions I would struggle to find the right words. Is that kind of what makes it easier for you non-native speakers that are identifying with this post?
I couldn't find the exact article I read before, but I found one talking about how processing discomfort through an L2 was less emotionally distressing than in the native lang
I only swear in English because swearing in my own language makes it more dirty somehow . Also I only speak English online because no one else wouldn't understand shit otherwise .
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grrgyle@slrpnk.net · 33 pts · 2y
When someone says my name with the correct pronunciation and accent đł how do they know my true name
cmac@lemmy.world · 23 pts · 2y
This is why, as a native English speaker, I just never express my emotions.
The_Dark_Knight@lemmy.sdf.org · 4 pts · 2y
Was thinking about that .
Dasus@lemmy.world · 21 pts · 2y
You jest, sir, but this is the reason I purposefully got a British therapist instead of using my native language in therapy.
herrwoland@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 2y
I can totally relate
MajorSauce@sh.itjust.works · 7 pts · 2y
Similar here, my partner and I are mostly talking in English for non-important/silly stuff and switch to French when things said are serious/important. A way to separate real/serious from joking/sarcasm.
PyroNeurosis@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 2y
Makes sense: English is a completely unserious language.
jqubed@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 2y
English is my native language. Iâm reasonably fluent in some parts of life in French but I feel like if I were to try to have a deeper conversation about something like emotions I would struggle to find the right words. Is that kind of what makes it easier for you non-native speakers that are identifying with this post?
tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip · 4 pts · 2y
I couldn't find the exact article I read before, but I found one talking about how processing discomfort through an L2 was less emotionally distressing than in the native lang
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/02699931.2018.1540403
webghost0101@sopuli.xyz · 6 pts · 2y
Me and my wife and half my friends irl
guyrocket@kbin.social · 5 pts · 2y
Maybe nothing is real in English.
KingJalopy@lemm.ee · 1 pts · 2y
It is, it means lack of something or anything.
ThrowawayPermanente@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 2y
I feel this one. Things I say in a foreign language don't really have emotional weight
The_Dark_Knight@lemmy.sdf.org · 4 pts · 2y
I only swear in English because swearing in my own language makes it more dirty somehow . Also I only speak English online because no one else wouldn't understand shit otherwise .
kurodriel@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 2y
So, this is why? I never realized, thanks for that.
lugal@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 2y
FĂŒhl ich
lars@lemmy.sdf.org · 1 pts · 2y
En tant quâAmĂ©ricain, je peux ĂȘtre plus honnĂȘte Ă©motionnellement avec moins de coĂ»ts Ă©motionnels cuando hablo una lengua que no se llama inglĂ©s.
lastone007@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 2y