me_irl

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grrgyle@slrpnk.net · 33 pts · 2y

When someone says my name with the correct pronunciation and accent 😳 how do they know my true name

cmac@lemmy.world · 23 pts · 2y (1 reply)

This is why, as a native English speaker, I just never express my emotions.

The_Dark_Knight@lemmy.sdf.org · 4 pts · 2y

Was thinking about that .

Dasus@lemmy.world · 21 pts · 2y (1 reply)

You jest, sir, but this is the reason I purposefully got a British therapist instead of using my native language in therapy.

herrwoland@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 2y

I can totally relate

MajorSauce@sh.itjust.works · 7 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Similar here, my partner and I are mostly talking in English for non-important/silly stuff and switch to French when things said are serious/important. A way to separate real/serious from joking/sarcasm.

PyroNeurosis@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 2y

Makes sense: English is a completely unserious language.

jqubed@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 2y (1 reply)

English is my native language. I’m reasonably fluent in some parts of life in French but I feel like if I were to try to have a deeper conversation about something like emotions I would struggle to find the right words. Is that kind of what makes it easier for you non-native speakers that are identifying with this post?

tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip · 4 pts · 2y

I couldn't find the exact article I read before, but I found one talking about how processing discomfort through an L2 was less emotionally distressing than in the native lang

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/02699931.2018.1540403

webghost0101@sopuli.xyz · 6 pts · 2y

Me and my wife and half my friends irl

guyrocket@kbin.social · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Maybe nothing is real in English.

KingJalopy@lemm.ee · 1 pts · 2y

It is, it means lack of something or anything.

ThrowawayPermanente@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 2y

I feel this one. Things I say in a foreign language don't really have emotional weight

The_Dark_Knight@lemmy.sdf.org · 4 pts · 2y

I only swear in English because swearing in my own language makes it more dirty somehow . Also I only speak English online because no one else wouldn't understand shit otherwise .

kurodriel@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 2y

So, this is why? I never realized, thanks for that.

lugal@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 2y

FĂŒhl ich

lars@lemmy.sdf.org · 1 pts · 2y

En tant qu’AmĂ©ricain, je peux ĂȘtre plus honnĂȘte Ă©motionnellement avec moins de coĂ»ts Ă©motionnels cuando hablo una lengua que no se llama inglĂ©s.

lastone007@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 2y
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