Plus, you're not owed a date just because you think you otherwise deserve consideration. Superficial or not, people are entitled to decide what relationships they want to engage with upon whatever criteria they want.
Might mean they miss out on certain experiences, but that's not your problem.
Strongly disagree. I find any breast over the small end of average to be flat out gross. So I'm shallow? Won't date anyone with a penis either, so I guess I'm a homophobe?
So to be a decent person I must date people with a feature that turns me completely off? Can I date you to get started?
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ynazuma@lemmy.world · 34 pts · 2y
The shortest and the dumbest and the most superficial ones
Bullet dodged
Telorand@reddthat.com · 25 pts · 2y
Plus, you're not owed a date just because you think you otherwise deserve consideration. Superficial or not, people are entitled to decide what relationships they want to engage with upon whatever criteria they want.
Might mean they miss out on certain experiences, but that's not your problem.
ynazuma@lemmy.world · 25 pts · 2y
Everyone has a right to choose what they want. Absolutely
If this was a guy saying he only dates DD girls would he be a douche?
Having a single physical trait as a deciding factor without considering anything else makes for a shallow person
That is the point
Guys that think they are owed something are wrong as well
captainlezbian@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 2y
Yeah I think less of both of these people, but their losses
funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 2y
"was Russ Meyer a douche?" yes, absolutely.
shalafi@lemmy.world · -12 pts · 2y
Strongly disagree. I find any breast over the small end of average to be flat out gross. So I'm shallow? Won't date anyone with a penis either, so I guess I'm a homophobe?
So to be a decent person I must date people with a feature that turns me completely off? Can I date you to get started?
ynazuma@lemmy.world · 13 pts · 2y
Missing the point. The joke is that there is an artificial cut off at 6 feet, or at DD breasts, or at A cup breasts. Whatever
Clearly yes or no penis is not the same.
Being 5’11’’, 3cm les than 6ft would not be gross
Jax@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 2y
You're allowed to choose your partner based on whatever criteria you want.
Don't be surprised when you find yourself with someone just as shallow as you are.
Num10ck@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 2y
i've heard women speak of the Sixes: 6ft, 6 figures, 6-pack abs, 6 inches.
i've never heard a male speak if an equivalent list.
PsychedSy@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 11 pts · 2y
Tits, waist, hips.
ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 2y
The difference is to most men those wouldn't be complete deal breakers.
PsychedSy@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 1 pts · 2y
That's fair.
DriftinGrifter@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 0 pts · 2y
i mean shit i like that in guys too
Apytele@sh.itjust.works · 6 pts · 2y
RealFknNito@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 2y
I'm 6'3" and feel an obligation to become extremely well built or risk being accused of wasting my good fortune.