Daily Discussion Thread: โ„๏ธ Friday, July 05, 2024

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Gibsonisafluffybutt@aussie.zone · 21 pts · 2y (3 replies)

The offer has arrived.

Hoping to speak to the general manager asap next week to discuss the police check.

I also have 4 more interviews next week for different companies.

All in good time.

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 2y

When it rains it pours?! Let's hope one of these pans out! This is great news. Also great that you've got a way of getting your record cleared so it isn't gonna keep being a problem

StudChud@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y

Fantastic! YOU did this! I'm so proud of you!

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

It's all looking good.๐Ÿ˜ธ

StudChud@aussie.zone · 17 pts · 2y (1 reply)

The heater's on,
The cat is warm,
Wrapped up in the things that
Smell like me;
The greatest compliment a cat
Could ever give a monkey.

melbaboutown@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

Look at those happy eyes. Mickey is โ€˜mirin

Gibsonisafluffybutt@aussie.zone · 14 pts · 2y (3 replies)

Was contacted by another place to move forward into the interview the process.

Just emailed the other recruiter to get a feel for what's going on with this offer.

Let's see what happens.

StudChud@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Ahhhh yessss! Fantastic! You're awesome!

Gibsonisafluffybutt@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Thank you!! Now it's 2 more interviews next week. Maybe things are looking up. I dare hope...

StudChud@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Wow! Great work! You're killin' it, bro!

TinyBreak@aussie.zone · 13 pts · 2y (1 reply)

We had a quick chat. We both apologized, she thought she was doing the right thing (in her own way) but now understand how it may have seemed like she was kind of just ignoring me. We've promised to try listen to each other more.

Gibsonisafluffybutt@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Communication can be so easy to mess up, especially when you're new parents.

Here's my 2 cents for what it's worth:

People make mistakes. They always will. It can be frustrating, especially when the stakes can be quite high.

But, the most important thing we can do when someone close to us makes a mistake, is to forgive them. Without strings attached.

Without recriminations. Without "I told you so's". If there are harmful consequences from our loved ones to error, we begin to keep things to ourselves. To stop communicating for fear of causing strain.

That doesn't mean there aren't consequences for mistakes. But they must be wrapped on patience and forgiveness.

We can only hope to do the best we can in this crazy world.

/end rant

danwritesbooks@aussie.zone · 12 pts · 2y (5 replies)

I switched private health people and then the old ones want me back and now I am all confused because they seem the same but then I think 'I don't need heart and vascular now...or do I?'

Being an adult sucks.

On the other hand, a school reached out to me and want me to be part of their celebrity reader thing they're doing. Me, a celebrity. Absolutely wild, lol.

Gibsonisafluffybutt@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

That's amazing! Well done mate ๐Ÿป

danwritesbooks@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

Thanks!

Nath@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (2 replies)

I'm not sure how, but I'm still down on Medibank under a corporate plan from a company I worked for 20 years ago. It's something amazing, because despite costing a fortune, nobody has ever come close to matching it. I've had multiple Medibank employees tell me over the years not to mess with it because I won't get that good a deal again.

This amazing deal is just under $250/Mo for the four of us. ๐Ÿ˜ž

Duenan@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y (1 reply)

I donโ€™t know if you have extra built into that but if I was sign up to a moderate leve of cover plus extras thatโ€™s about 240 for me alone.

250 for a family of 4 sounds like a dream.

Nath@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

It's called "Bronze Plus Assured Hospital and Essential Extras 75"

It's pretty basic cover I think.

bull@aussie.zone · 11 pts · 2y (6 replies)

There's a very real possibility that I'll need to confront probably my most important life decision ever soon. I'm trying to mentally prepare myself for the possibility of having to even consider it. If I do need to, I need to find a way to be at peace with that decision.

It's a doozy too.

::: spoiler adding spoiler tag as the subject could be sensitive for somebody struggling with fertility

"Would I be ok never having a biological child of my own if it meant finding great love and joining an established family?" As someone who already feels like an outsider, would I ever feel like I belong? Am I willing to accept that my life never has a chapter of having and raising my own child if there is potentially an option/scenario where I could? Would I resent my decision?

Heavy stuff. Like I said though, it's not something I need to confront right now but there's a possibility that it might come up, so I should probably get my head straight about the concept so I know where I stand. :::

Anyway.. almost weekend time woo. I think I might have a drink or two this afternoon.

dumblederp@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 2y

I'd say if you like the woman and get along with the kids go for it. As far as resentment and/or feeling like an outsider, you can walk away if its not working out, maybe feeling like an outsider is the price of that freedom.

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 2y

Where there is great love there is family.

Blood ties is not the same as love, I have seen it. ๐Ÿ˜”

StudChud@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y

Hm, that is a doozy. Only you can answer that one, I think. Be true to yourself.

I know for some, having their own biological children is important to them, and for other's, less so. It's also important to consider what these Hypothetical Step-Children (HSP (lol)) think as well.

But finding love is hard, and like with all choices, there'll be pros and cons with whatever is picked.

You don't have to decide right now, so take your time and see what happens ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

TinyBreak@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y (1 reply)

got a mate struggling with fertility and I gave him some advice recently about this. Course I'm giving it from a VERY privileged position, so feel free to disregard. Once you hold your kid in your arms, you wont give a fuck how you got there, cause it simply doesn't matter. Biological or not wont matter for shit.

the newborn stage fucking sucks too ey. no one actually talks about that part, cause if we were honest no one would ever have kids.

Catfish@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

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Nath@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

This one is tough. I don't believe I'd have had the strength to do it before I had kids. I really wanted to be a dad and I wanted my "own" kids. The idea of forming a relationship with a single mother was also mega daunting to younger me.

But now that I've gone the traditional route, I could absolutely imagine the "other path" to happiness. I can recognise that I'd have loved it had I met my wife and kids as a package and joined the family. I don't love them because they have my DNA. I love them because they're my kids.

It'll depend on the age(s) of the kid(s), but to a kid is under 5, they won't remember a time before you were in their life. You won't be an outsider, you'll just be "dad".

Duenan@aussie.zone · 10 pts · 2y

Unexpected last minute arrangement.

Friend has invited me out for lunch for my birthday. Going to be having Japanese, I usually go for a noodle dish but maybe I might try a Japanese curry if they have one.

Itโ€™s going to be nice and fun to catch up as well.

Itโ€™ll it all lines up Iโ€™ll be back home in time to also catch my team playing afl tomorrow.

LowExperience2368@aussie.zone · 10 pts · 2y (8 replies)
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anotherspringchicken@aussie.zone · 13 pts · 2y

Iโ€™m grateful for you lot. Although I donโ€™t comment very much, I love checking in here each day. Love the camaraderie and chit-chat, and the support that is offered when people need it.

Baku@aussie.zone · 13 pts · 2y
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Catfish@aussie.zone · 11 pts · 2y (2 replies)

I am very grateful FaceBastard didnโ€™t exist when I was a kid.

And for fluffy socks.

danwritesbooks@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 2y (1 reply)

The amount of dumb stuff I would have posted if social media was a thing when I was a kid...

StudChud@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

I used to post song lyrics and quotes from famous people on my FB, between 2006-2010 (14yo - 18yo).

Now I do that here instead ๐Ÿ˜‚

danwritesbooks@aussie.zone · 11 pts · 2y

I'm alive. I'm not struggling. My daughter is happy and healthy. I can do the things I love.

StudChud@aussie.zone · 10 pts · 2y

I'm just happy to be here

PeelerSheila@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

That was nicely said. I'm grateful for the roof over my family's heads, a split system that's in good working order and for it being Friday! Sooo tired!

oztrin@aussie.zone · 10 pts · 2y

The cats are playing with toys they never touched at the old place. Maybe it's more fun on the polished boards.
Talking of polished boards, I got a couple of sheepskin rugs for the bedroom as cold boards before slippers is ๐Ÿฅถ. I would have thought the cats would be disporting themselves on them with minutes. Nope. Zooks only walked across one to love up to my sneakers, and Sammi so far has carefully walked around one. Cats...

Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 10 pts · 2y

Day 7 of the lemon tree thorn accident. That tree should be weaponised, finger is still blistering.

It'd be completely demoralising.

There you are standing in the field, bombs going off left right. Tinnitus drowning out the aural horror.. Then some fuck comes at you brandishing a lemon tree branch. You need to think quickly, this is life or death. First thought is what type of lemon... Meyer? With those sweet floral undertones... Lisbon? How thick is the pith? Would it make good limoncello? Are they really worth $1.19ea at woolies?

Before you can appraise the lemon and with various recipes flashing before your eyes it's too late. You've been struck!

You return to base, seemingly with a minor injury. Your comrades laughing at you.. but over the next few days their laughter subsides into deep pity watching you try and delicately put your right shoe on without using your normal finger.

Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 10 pts · 2y (13 replies)

I have a lot of panko, squid, oil, flour but no eggs :(

So the squid will be frozen until the panic bakers come to their senses and settle down. I just need 1. Seriously the egg section feels like the beginning of the rona.

Catfish@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 2y (3 replies)

I have 9 eggs bwahaha!

Shall we start the bidding at $15 each?

SituationCake@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

I have a whole dozen, and theyโ€™re free range! I guess Iโ€™m rich now! But Iโ€™m gonna eat my riches at breakfast so it wonโ€™t last long.

CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)

I have 2 dozen. Thanks IGA.

RustyRaven@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

I have 2 dozen plus two, about 4 frozen eggwhites and a container of dried egg powder. Thanks mostly to Gippsland Eggs who have a minimum purchase of 5 dozen to get free delivery. My last order was just before they started putting purchase limits on at Colesworth, so the timing was good.

underwatermagpies@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Lots of eggs at my greengrocer. Try outside Colesworth?

oztrin@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

I actually got some at Coles, though Aldi were out Tuesday.

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

mayo is a brilliant idea and sounds delicious

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

Next time you're in Kew try Toscanos, haven't seen egg shortages there so far.

SituationCake@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (4 replies)

I think you can use mayo instead of eggs to stick breadcrumbs, Iโ€™ve never tried it for calamari though. I reckon it would be fine.

Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (1 reply)

ooh that is a trick I haven't heard of!

CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

You can use plain yogurt too.

Baku@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)
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Duenan@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

While I like eating bananas I hate bananas used as an ingredient in anything unless itโ€™s banana cake.

The banana taste is always overwhelming when itโ€™s used as an ingredient and itโ€™s yucky.

Gibsonisafluffybutt@aussie.zone · 9 pts · 2y

For the first time in probably 3 years, I saw a group of high school kids smoking cigarettes.

Guess that vape ban is working a treat...

TinyBreak@aussie.zone · 9 pts · 2y (7 replies)

So I sat my wife down and expressed VERY clearly that we are NOT getting involved in that thing earlier this week. So whats she doing this weekend? You have GOT to be fucking kidding me.

Thornburywitch@aussie.zone · 9 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Let her. Just don't get involved yourself. This gives you "I told you so" rights when she comes home exhaustipated and emotionally vulnerable. However, you may not wish to exercise those rights in the interests of family harmony.

Best if she discovers for herself that you can only help those who want to be helped. Let this one slide past without getting yourself involved I think. Just have some comfort for her ready when she gets back. Maybe cook dinner and do all the kid things while she's busy elsewhere.

TinyBreak@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y (1 reply)

This is the latest in a long line of "I say this is a bad idea, Mrs Break says "yes" then does EXACTLY the bad idea thing". Think we're gonna have a sit down conversation about this. She's absolutely entitled to do whatever the hell she wants, but each time makes it a little bit tougher to trust her judgement.

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

It's really important you don't make her feel bad or stupid, you have to keep her trusting you. Don't let the situation get to a place where she starts doing things in secret.

StudChud@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (3 replies)

Fuuuuuuuuuck that

TinyBreak@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Yeah I'm staying RIGHT out of it, and the second it affects the kid shes in a world of trouble.

Thornburywitch@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Is she taking the kid with her? If not, then it's her problem what happens. Maybe volunteer to have the kid yourself all day so no pressure on her. If she wants to take the kid with her - fight like hell to stop that. No one sane takes a kid into a toxic situation.
It has occurred to me that maybe mrs break wants to sit down with someone that isn't going to criticise her and have a good whinge about life the universe and everything and especially MEN with someone who sounds like an olympic grade whinger themselves. Best to stay right out of that one for your own sanity. Take your kid to the park and build a happy memory instead.

TinyBreak@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

her intention was to take the kid yes.

her plan was I think she didnt really want to take my word on something as serious as this and really wanted to assess for her own judgement which look I understand that, but the original comment from me was we needed to take some space. It wasnt "lets never hang out" it was just a "deffo not this weekend"

Baku@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 2y
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CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 2y (10 replies)

Cheers everyone ๐Ÿบ

useless_modern_god@aussie.zone · 9 pts · 2y (3 replies)

Engage!

CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

Cheers Captain ๐Ÿบ

Force_majeure123@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y (1 reply)

May the spirit of death make a clerical error and forget you exist ๐Ÿป

useless_modern_god@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

Thanks. I have pre-booked though, soโ€ฆtippy - taps ๐Ÿ˜Œ

Duenan@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Cheers ๐Ÿฅค ๐ŸŸ

CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

๐Ÿบ

anotherspringchicken@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (1 reply)

๐Ÿปcheers CEO

CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Cheers Chicky babe ๐Ÿบ

Gibsonisafluffybutt@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

Cheers ๐Ÿธ

Force_majeure123@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

Get one up ya ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿป

Force_majeure123@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 2y (2 replies)

I'm very disappointed my preferred job hasn't got back to me. I am so ready to quit my current job, im already working as though my time is limited here. I was soooo clocked out this afternoon I did almost nothing. I feel like submitting my 30 days with nothing lined up but that's a horrible idea.

I'm currently responsible for a 'pod' normally maintained by three or four people by myself... Basically responsible for the work of three or four people. My clients are getting shit care and it sucks

Gibsonisafluffybutt@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

I came back to work on the 2nd of January only to be told my contract was being terminated.

You've probably seen me post here often about the trials and tribulations I've been through looking for work.

Of course, our circumstances are quite different, but let me be an example of what happens when you don't have a job to jump to.

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

I really hope something comes through soon that's at least marginally better than your current place. Staying somewhere well past your personal use-by date is very taxing on the soul and the resentment/disconnect can spill over onto others and exacerbate matters.

I don't know what your industry or financial situation is like, but do you think it might ever get to a point where it's better to just cut ties and stop the rot from setting in any further, even without another job in hand?... I was getting a bit antsy with job hunting after 2.5 months but I don't regret for a second leaving my old job when I did and taking the hit to my savings, being able to hold out for a good position really made all the difference

Alamutjones@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 2y (2 replies)

I have footy tickets tonight, but Iโ€™m not going to use them. Iโ€™m tired, have a headache and my face has slowly filled with snot throughout the day.

I swear I was moderately healthy this morning!

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (1 reply)

hugs

maybe you can sell the ticks?

Alamutjones@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Itโ€™s alright. Iโ€™m an AFL member, so they didnโ€™t cost me much. Just a bit put out to lose my plans

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y

Not many chores left to do tonight, then it's some tv and sleep ๐Ÿ˜ธ

Alamutjones@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y (4 replies)

Ubereats is calling. Comfort food.

What counts as comfort food?

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

Hot chips suck when delivered.

For me, a good Pad Thai or a pizza or an indulgent curry would be my go to

Baku@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y
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Force_majeure123@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

Butter chicken and garlic naan

Duenan@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

Burger. Has to be a burger.

anotherspringchicken@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y (12 replies)

Iโ€™m doing some decluttering and today itโ€™s boxes of old books.

Came across a 1974 weight watchers magazine and thought Iโ€™d share this recipe, for anyone keen to lose a few pounds.

Bon appetit!

CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 9 pts · 2y (3 replies)

Oh I get it! If you consume boiled liver, it'll put you off food for life. Smart.

anotherspringchicken@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Can you imagine how boiling liver would smell? I donโ€™t reckon Iโ€™d even get as far as eating it.

Ironically, mum used to cook โ€˜lambs fryโ€™ which I loved as a kid. Until I found out what it was, lol

CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Well, it doesn't stipulate who's liver but I'm gonna assume 8oz of your finest lamb. Mmmm iron packed rubber. Yummy.

Catfish@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

Probably at least as bad as boilt brain. I love pate, but liver as a meat no thank you.

Aradina@lemmy.ml · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

If I got served this I'd consider it attempted murder

anotherspringchicken@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

Could come in handy for a houseguest whoโ€™d overstayed their welcome ๐Ÿค”

PeelerSheila@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)

I would definitely lose weight.. by abstinence. I just can't do organs.

anotherspringchicken@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

Yeah, I think the concept of nose-to-tail eating is great, but feel the same way.

Thornburywitch@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y (2 replies)

8 to 10 mins is ridiculous. Liver is nicest when hot through but still succulent. 2 mins at MOST. The strongish flavours in the recipie would work.
Had liver at a restaurant once that was over the moon delicious. A crispish floured coating and the slices were 1 cm thick and hot and succulent. A taste sensation. Did not taste "livery" at all. Some of the same vibes as blue steak.
Edit d'escalier: I think it's the grainy gritty texture of overcooked liver that turns people off. It does me. I only eat it if I've cooked it myself to my liking nowadays. Ditto kidneys.

anotherspringchicken@aussie.zone · 1 pts · 2y (1 reply)

What you described sounds like how my mum used to do it - floured thin slices, quickly fried. I do remember it being tasty, particularly when served with gravy.

Thornburywitch@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

Chock full of vitamins etc. too. Organ meats are so damn easy to stuff up when cooking, but done well are truly scrumptious. I love a good fricasee of sweetbreads too.

Force_majeure123@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

If you use sweetened tomato juice this comes out disgusting

underwatermagpies@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y

The Kapiti triple choc ice cream from Aldi is delicious. And so rich you don't need very much to hit the spot.

Catfish@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y (8 replies)

Ugh! Unwanted delivery of old photographs. Have cut up and binned all the naked kid ones. 70s parents and boundaries, what?

StudChud@aussie.zone · 10 pts · 2y (3 replies)

Oof brutal.

My mum has stolen all the photos, and threw out the ones that gave her "bad vibes"; if there were any of me in the nude, she would have long since burnt them I reckon ahha

I have no photos of me when I was a kid, and I know HEAPS were taken, and dad doesn't have any that he took of me or our cats. But to get them, if they still exist, I'd have to contact mum, and that's just not happening. She can rot with her memories.

Catfish@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Boyo has zero photos until about 23 for many many Reasons. Iโ€™ve got loads, and did not need these repugnant ones. Do not take pictures of kids on toilets FFS!

StudChud@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Yeah, I don't get taking photos of kids on the loo or in the bath. Especially with how social media is these days.

So gross ๐Ÿคข

TinyBreak@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

I've got photos of my kid in the bath. He has such a happy look on his face its impossible not to take a photo. But its pretty easy to shoot the pic from above the waist too!

danwritesbooks@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 2y

My ex-MIL had such a weird obsession with having a photo of all the grandkids together in the bath. So so weird.

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

I think I have 3 photos of when I was a kid, parents just didn't care, they were too busy taking photos of the favourite kids.

Nath@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)

"Kid" is older than 5? Yeah that's weird.
If we're talking baby photos though, I've got a dozen or so photos of the kids when they were babies/toddlers naked. Not with bits showing, and not shared to social media.

Is that not normal?

Catfish@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

These were bits out. My opinion of infants tends to offend, these pics being me made them even more distasteful.

Force_majeure123@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y

Trams delayed heading up Swanston st at Collins st. Two police units called to .. speak to someone.

Edit. Back under way

Catfish@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Some sort of major kerfuffle down at the shops. At least 4 cop cars and the helicopter was out earlier.

Catfish@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Armed siege apparently. Which makes the huge number of rubber neckers standing at the tape lines taking pictures even more disturbing.

Baku@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y
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Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y (3 replies)

TV Review. Indian Police Force. Amazon. A Hindi-English series about a counter terrorism unit in Delhi. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indian_Police_Force_(TV_series)

This is a pretty good show, it fairly accurately depicts terrorism and counter terrorism in a modern country. It does have some Indian tradition story telling regarding the personal lives of the main characters, there was a dance/singing scene! but it wasn't out place.

Melburnian here so when the power goes out in the Delhi apartment of the terror cell I'm all like" Youse guys are fucked, Special Ops is outside your door " But no, it's just a power outage in a capital city for no reason, no storms. It's India.

The military theme music is a little cringy but it's ok. The graphics and special effects are good. So many pairs of Rayban Aviators. Only 10% of the men have a moustache.

And approx 10% of special forces is women, which is sorta in keeping with the rest of the world.

I give this 4 hobbits.

( I do miss Irrfan, when he smiled he would light up the room. )

Baku@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (2 replies)
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Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

I have not seen it, will put it on the watchlist. ๐Ÿ˜Ž

Baku@aussie.zone · 1 pts · 2y
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bacon@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y (11 replies)

Breakfast ๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ๐ŸŠ๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿˆ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ‡๐Ÿ‰๐ŸŒ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฅญ๐Ÿ๐Ÿฅฅ๐Ÿฅฆ๐Ÿฅ‘๐Ÿซ›๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ…๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿฅฌ๐Ÿฅ’๐ŸŒฝ๐Ÿฅ•๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿซš๐Ÿฅ”๐Ÿง…๐Ÿฅฏ๐Ÿž๐Ÿฅ–๐Ÿฅจ๐Ÿง€๐Ÿง‡๐Ÿฅž๐Ÿงˆ๐Ÿณ๐Ÿฅš๐Ÿฅ“๐Ÿฅฉ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ–๐Ÿซ“๐Ÿ•๐ŸŸ๐Ÿ”๐ŸŒญ๐Ÿฅ™๐Ÿง†๐ŸŒฎ๐ŸŒฏ๐Ÿฅ—๐Ÿฒ๐Ÿœ๐Ÿ๐Ÿฅ˜๐Ÿ›๐Ÿฃ๐Ÿฑ๐ŸฅŸ๐Ÿฆช๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿš๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ ๐Ÿค๐Ÿชผ๐Ÿฆ€๐Ÿ™ ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿฅฎ๐Ÿข๐Ÿก๐Ÿง๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿง๐Ÿฅง๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿจ๐ŸŽ‚๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿฅœ๐ŸŒฐ๐Ÿช๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฅ›โ˜•๏ธ๐Ÿต๐Ÿบ๐Ÿถ๐Ÿฅค๐Ÿง‹๐Ÿงƒ๐Ÿฅ‚๐Ÿท๐Ÿฅƒ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿน๐Ÿง‰๐Ÿ”‹

useless_modern_god@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Slap me with a splintered ruler

bacon@aussie.zone · 9 pts · 2y

my lord it is eight in the morning

Catfish@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Could you feed the cats for me? Really donโ€™t want get out of warm bed.

bacon@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

๐ŸŸ๐ŸŸ๐ŸŸ๐ŸŸ๐ŸŸ๐ŸŸ๐ŸŸ๐ŸŸ๐ŸŸ

Catfish@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

Hopefully this will stop the pitiful mewing for 5 minutes.

Thornburywitch@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Lamb chops and lollipops please - with coffee, lots of coffee.

Also, when is the food truck enterprise starting up? Do we know yet which locations?

bacon@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿญ๐Ÿญโ˜•๏ธโ˜•๏ธโ˜•๏ธโ˜•๏ธโ˜•๏ธโ˜•๏ธโ˜•๏ธโ˜•๏ธ

Next week. We will be everywhere and nowhere.

Force_majeure123@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y (3 replies)

Wild-caught horse butt stew thanks

Thornburywitch@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Came across a short on youtube of a customer asking a baker for grass-fed salmon on her bagel. Wtf?

Force_majeure123@aussie.zone · 1 pts · 2y

๐Ÿคฃ

bacon@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

๐ŸŽ ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฅ˜

Cendana@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

I am having this strange phenomenon, where:

  • If I think I need my laptop and bring it with me, but then not end up using it.

  • If I think I don't need my laptop and left it home, then I end up needing it.

Yep, a few of you might remember that a few months ago, I had to file a claim using just my phone 3 hours before a flight lol... Might be time I get a Bluetooth keyboard of some sort.

fullkitwanker@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (10 replies)

Help me choose.

Budget: about $500

I need one wool coat + one puffer (do I though?)

With puffers, its between Uniqlo (cheap), Patagonia (because brand quality and their customer service), and The North Face Nuptse (unsure between this and the 'Gonia).

With Woolen overcoats, I have no idea! If I get an expensive overcoat then I'll have to go with a Uniqlo puffer, but again, I'm not sure if I really need a puffer?

Help please ๐Ÿ˜”

PeelerSheila@aussie.zone · 9 pts · 2y (1 reply)

As an overweight person, the overcoat I have looks a lot smarter and more flattering than my puffer, which when zipped up is cosy as but makes me look like a liquid paper pen.

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Miss Seagoon would call me a sausage

melbaboutown@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

I have one of each. Long wool coats protect your bum and legs from the wind, but have to be drycleaned, brushed of hair or lint and protected against moths. Puffers are more practical and portable but cover less of you, and depending on filling may also have to be dry cleaned (in the case of down).

The trench coat I have is op shop and the puffer is Kmart so getting both came in well under budget.

If you really can't choose you could start with a cheaper puffer to get an idea of it while you continue saving. Then if you don't like it you can donate it and buy something more suitable

Edit: Also consider where you'd be wearing it most. Woolen coats are generally more formal and puffers more casual.

Thermals are also great to layer under clothing if they're not a sensory issue for you

Edit 2: Also definitely consider adding scarf, gloves, woollen socks and maybe a beanie. They donโ€™t have to be expensive or brand name, just having them helps a lot

Force_majeure123@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

Go to Kmart and get something else warm for $30 and go for a nice meal instead

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

I used to have a long down puffer with a detachable hood, it was the warmest coat. Make sure if you have a long puffer it has press studs as well as a zip. Woolen hat to cover ears and forehead, scarf to cover neck and face if need, thin gloves or double gloves.

You can get end of season puffers from overseas sellers .

Sometimes when it's cold here in Melbs I put on a roomy lined wind proof raincoat and have warm jumpers underneath

dumblederp@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

I've got a wool welders jacket that's basically sat in retirement since I got my puffy. I'd start with the puffy and then reassess your needs. I do sometimes wrap a blanket round my waist like a towel to keep my midsection (kidney) warm if I'm tinkering in the shed on winter nights.

imoldgreeeg@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

To throw a spanner in the works my current go to (with a long underlayer) is a lightish jumper (usually woollen) and a shell jacket that doubles as a raincoat over the top. Super efficient at keeping out the wind and easy to pack down. I walk everywhere so it's heaps warm enough the wool jumper is warm for inside.

Other than that I would go puffer first for packability (I love my pea coat but rarely wear it now)

tombruzzo@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Here are some deals in my inbox this morning:

https://www.ozbargain.com.au/node/854646

https://www.ozbargain.com.au/node/854668

There was a BCF one that said expired, but that could be the extra $20 off

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

I'd say get a puffer, much more versatile esp if you don't drive as it's lighter and easier to pack down/carry around if it gets warm. I almost never wear my trusty old wool jacket now.

Best option is get a Patagonia/North Face/Macpac etc while on sale. You might've missed the sales but have a look online anyway. I bought mine from Wild Earth

TinyBreak@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

everyone raves about uniqlo.

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (10 replies)

Argh! Another long day - one job started off simple but the more I looked at it the more issues turned up. I pushed through and at least it's all done now. I can see the end of the tunnel, one more thing to smash out for Monday and then I'll be up to date. I'm almost tempted to clock some hours in on the weekend and clear out overdue stuff and do a shorter day on Monday.

I did make my slow cooked jackfruit last night! A bit too much vinegar maybe, lots going on with the flavours, but it went alright with some bread and mayo and salad to cut through it. It really needs that low and slow cooking to get the best flavours. And I walked to work and back today! Pretty chuffed with myself overall.

Duenan@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (2 replies)

I love jackfruit. Used to pick up the tinned ones and throw them into the fridge and eat them as a snack or for dessert.

Havenโ€™t eaten it cooked before though.

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)

That'll be the sweet ripe jackfruit. Have you ever had it fresh? I've been lucky to had it fresh off the tree and it is divine. Eat it for days. A cherished childhood memory when visiting family overseas.

It's the unripe jackfruit that's cooked, very different thing.

Duenan@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

I remember having it fresh once but I was very young and canโ€™t remember much of it other than my parents chopping it up from the big bulb.

No idea what the taste of it was at that time.

Yep the tinned ones are definitely sweet.

dumblederp@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y (6 replies)

jackfruit

It looks like durian. Do you process it from it's spiky home or does it come processed?

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (5 replies)

I personally have only ever cooked with the tinned stuff that is thankfully processed. I grew up with my mum and other women in my life cleaning the fresh fruit though. It isn't as spiky as durian, but it can be larger and heavier - and the worst part is all the sticky latex - only oil gets it off. Mum had a special cleaver for jackfruit that she'd sharpen to a fine edge before use, and a rag soaked in oil to clean the latex off every so often while cutting. Think she used gloves as well. Certainly made me very grateful for the tinned stuff even though it doesn't hold a candle to freshly cleaned jackfruit

dumblederp@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y (4 replies)

Wiki mentioned up to 55kg, which is more than some people. I'm pretty sure I've seen it for sale around Springvale central.

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (3 replies)

Yeah I haven't actually checked it out for myself, but I wonder if might be the fully ripe fruit they're selling. Unripe jackfruit is quite mild and a bit stringy and carries flavour well, which makes it a popular meat replacement, but the ripe fruit is syrupy sweet and pungent, completely different beast.

dumblederp@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (2 replies)

I'm keen on meat replacements and I recently got a slow cooker so I reckon I'll give it a go.

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)

That's a perfect combination. Jackfruit was made for the slow cooker. Heaps of recipes out there, my tip is don't skimp on the oil as there's none in the fruit itself. It isn't a perfect meat replacement due to the low protein content but does a bang up job in terms of texture. Make at least two tins' worth. You can do it pulled pork/BBQ style and crisp it up a bit in the oven or air fryer at the end like carnitas, or try some traditional recipes - Sri Lankan curry, Indonesian gudeg, or any Thai curry/soup

I'm gonna get some tortillas and avos tomorrow to make some smashing tacos

dumblederp@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

Carnita's sound rad, I've been wanting to try something Birra style. It'll also give me a chance to try making the flat bread. e: I found this liquid dough recipe I'm keen to try. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vk68HMjQiqc

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

hot milo before bed

CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (8 replies)

Unpopular opinion: Prosecco is overrated. Tastes like hairy balls. There's so much better out there.

StudChud@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

You haven't had good Prosecco, methinks. That, or you don't have it when you're drunk enough. Tsk tsk lol

CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

Maybe. It was a Brown Brothers. It was dry and tasteless like soda water.

SpinMeAround@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Prosecco is good for making spritzes, that's it. Limoncello spritz, mmm!

CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

Agree

Force_majeure123@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Agreed. Fuck Prosecco and everyone who likes it

::: spoiler spoiler Ok not everyone who likes it. They're okay. Mostly. :::

StudChud@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

๐Ÿ˜ฌ

CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

Oh dear.

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

imo, prosecco is as revolting as pinot gris

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Good night everyone. Stay warm. ๐Ÿ˜˜

Baku@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y
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danwritesbooks@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y (10 replies)

Has anyone tried an Emma Sleep Mattress? Or Koala? Ecosa?

I got a quote from Harvey Norman (urgh) for a King Koli mattress and tested it. It felt nice, but if I can avoid giving them money I will happily do so. But online ones and online reviews are hard to trust.

bull@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (2 replies)

I've tried loads of those mattresses in a box. I can tell you that Sleeping Duck is the best of them and worth the money. Ecosa was the 2nd best.

Here's my notes on them from my notes app:

  • Ecosa (very good)
  • Koala (a little soft but good)
  • 624 (not bhad)
  • Eva (meh)
  • Macoda (quite good)
  • Sleeping Duck (tres bien)
  • OneBed (meh)
  • Hugo (no bueno)
  • Bed in a Box/SleepFirm (too firm)
calhoon2005@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Agree. Did the same, although not quite as complete. Sleeping duck was the best we found.

danwritesbooks@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

Awesome! Thank you.

SituationCake@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Many of them have a trial policy, where you can return within x days if you donโ€™t like it. So itโ€™s pretty low risk. Itโ€™s a different feel to a sprung mattress, which will come down to personal preference and if you have any back or body issues. I personally like the foam mattresses, have a koala one and so far it is fine. Although from what people say it seems sleeping duck ones are a bit better.

Catfish@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Was going to recommend one I love, but the bloody thing has been discontinued. Sorry, no help at all.

danwritesbooks@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

haha, it's the thought that counts

StudChud@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)
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danwritesbooks@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

Thanks.

tone212_@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)

I've got a Sleeping Duck mattress and it's the best one I've ever owned. You can easily change the top foam layer from soft/medium/firm if you order a mattress that's not the right firmness for you. And you can return it for refund if it's not right for you at all (100 day trial currently). So basically no risk to you to try it out.

danwritesbooks@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

SD seems to be the concensus best.