This is the explanation my father tried to give me. He had a bad father so he was a bad father. True, he had it tough, but it's on you as an adult to treat your own children well
Believe me, it's better for u to listen mum's complaints for a couple years rather than have her put you on psycotherapy and get labelled in the system registry as mentally ill for the rest of your life.
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morphballganon@lemmy.world · 15 pts · 1y
"Had to of"
Must have*
CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org · -1 pts · 1y
Ah, yes, OCD.
mojofrododojo@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 1y
parents trying to keep the home livable and keep kids on schedule were probably dealing with their own issues; where do you think yours came from?
I don't say that in a mean way, I simply assert - having seen both sides of the coin - we're all going through our own shit.
Geometrinen_Gepardi@sopuli.xyz · 5 pts · 1y
True. Growing older callouses a person and every year makes it harder to remember how much harder it is to get through shit when you're young.
BleatingZombie@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
This is the explanation my father tried to give me. He had a bad father so he was a bad father. True, he had it tough, but it's on you as an adult to treat your own children well
bigFab@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
Believe me, it's better for u to listen mum's complaints for a couple years rather than have her put you on psycotherapy and get labelled in the system registry as mentally ill for the rest of your life.
Boomkop3@reddthat.com · 1 pts · 1y
Yepp
secret300@lemmy.sdf.org · 1 pts · 1y
I feel like I'll never want to have kids because I'd be too scared of being a bad or apathetic parent.