The day after my 21st birthday, late September, I'd left home to go to trucking school. Went through a trucking company's in-house "apprenticeship" program, which was somewhat predatory in hindsight.
Anyway, I went through this program, managed to get my CDL, which took several months by itself (through no fault of my own - the program was designed to take that long), and when I finally got a truck to myself, it only took me about five weeks to grow tired of the sudden isolation. I was finally allowed to go home around Easter.
After my three allocated days of hometime, I decided to quit that company, and I found a better job closer to home.
Three months. New job, and I moved in advance so I could find a place for myself, GF and kids while they stayed at family.
Other than that, 5-6 weeks routinely (5 weeks in, 5 weeks off), as I used to work offshore. I still work in the same industry, but I'm on-shore support now, so the travels are rarely more than a week at a time, and not as often either.
Both of us coped just fine. I worked away before we first met, and one gets used to it pretty easily. Past a couple of weeks, the duration doesn't matter that much either.
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DarkCloud@lemmy.world · 13 pts · 1y
What loved ones? I don't love anyone.
scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech · 8 pts · 1y
COVID I think it was about a year and a few months, we live in a far away city and no one felt safe flying to see each other
TheUsualButBlaBlaBla@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 1y
Eight years. Moved away to another continent, they didn’t visit me and I was busy exploring my new life. See them once a year these days.
STUNT_GRANNY@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 1y
Eight months.
The day after my 21st birthday, late September, I'd left home to go to trucking school. Went through a trucking company's in-house "apprenticeship" program, which was somewhat predatory in hindsight.
Anyway, I went through this program, managed to get my CDL, which took several months by itself (through no fault of my own - the program was designed to take that long), and when I finally got a truck to myself, it only took me about five weeks to grow tired of the sudden isolation. I was finally allowed to go home around Easter.
After my three allocated days of hometime, I decided to quit that company, and I found a better job closer to home.
tetris11@lemmy.ml · 2 pts · 1y
That's really good to hear, and that the isolation gave you the perspective
1ns1p1d@lemm.ee · 4 pts · 1y
Three-ish years. We live in different countries, and covid happened.
tetris11@lemmy.ml · 1 pts · 1y
Did the relationship survive
neidu3@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 1y
Three months. New job, and I moved in advance so I could find a place for myself, GF and kids while they stayed at family.
Other than that, 5-6 weeks routinely (5 weeks in, 5 weeks off), as I used to work offshore. I still work in the same industry, but I'm on-shore support now, so the travels are rarely more than a week at a time, and not as often either.
tetris11@lemmy.ml · 2 pts · 1y
How did you/your partner cope?
neidu3@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 1y
Both of us coped just fine. I worked away before we first met, and one gets used to it pretty easily. Past a couple of weeks, the duration doesn't matter that much either.
Ludrol@szmer.info · 2 pts · 1y
All my life or All my life minus two years depending if self love is a valid answer for a loved one.
ComradeMiao@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y
My partner and I were away from each other for three years in different countries and continents because of Covid… then we got married :)
shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee · 2 pts · 1y
Going on two years.
Nemo@slrpnk.net · 2 pts · 1y
one week
hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y
Yeah last time was on a school trip for me, that was two weeks.
I don't go on vacations at all so...
slazer2au@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 1y
Oct 2019 till Jan 2021.