How did you get into shibari? NSFW

It's so quiet in here with only my posts, so here's a general question to invite you to talk a little about yourself.

If you don't feel comfortable sharing your story, maybe tell us about what about shibari fascinates you at the moment?

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9 Comments

therobit@lemmynsfw.com · 15 pts · 3y (1 reply)

Found this inage in the early days of the internet and fell down the wormhole.

Neekaneeka@lemmynsfw.com · 3 pts · 3y

Hahaha, I remember finding this as well, lovely graphic that somehow is both innocent and alluring!

Neekaneeka@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 3y

As for me, I started a long time ago as a rope fetishist, who then got curious as to how to get more of it into the bedroom.

After a lot of knotwork I found shibari to be a lot more sensual and flowy, and thoroughly fell in love and spent inordinate amounts of time and money to learn it.

Meanwhile, I lost my rope fetish, but seem to have plenty of excuses to use ropes anyway ;)

x_apache_x@lemmynsfw.com · 2 pts · 2y

OkCupid date asked to do specifically that. It was the most erotic thing of my life.

After that I started a little tying with dates and we all enjoyed ourselves.

Now I'm mostly interested, I don't have the time to practice.

I do enjoy your content a lot.

OneStepAhead@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 3y (3 replies)

The GF now wife really seems to like it quite a bit. I’m happy to oblige :) She got me some books for my Bday this year, but I’m still very much a beginner. She does want to do some suspensions SOMEDAY but we have a LOT of learning to do first.

Neekaneeka@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 3y (2 replies)

Yay, good on you for wifing her!

You have a lot of fun ahead of you, take your time and enjoy the journey.

If you get impatient, may I suggest looking into weekend intensive classes? A couple of those and some practice may let you suspend safely in months (depending on your teachers and dedication to practice ofc).

OneStepAhead@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 3y (1 reply)

Two kids sort of puts a damper on most activities. We play when we can.

Neekaneeka@lemmynsfw.com · 1 pts · 3y

That's how life is, you do the best of it, and make sure to enjoy the journey

KpntAutismus@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 3y

probably not real, but a fine addition to my collection of weird kinds of porn.