Do you hide your origins online because of your Filipino identity?

I do, because I believe I'm more than any preconceived stereotypes people have regarding Filipinos.

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Taiatari@lemmynsfw.com · 9 pts · 1y (1 reply)

I am from Germany, I can't answer the question but I am not aware of any stereotypes for Filipinos? What kind of stuff do you have to deal with and from whom?

EmbarrassedBenefit3@reddthat.com · 5 pts · 1y

I used to have a strong sense of cultural cringe on being Filipino because of the problems the country faces.

I can only speak for myself. At a time when I'm exposed almost exclusively to local sources, I thought that the Philippines is so bad, the rest of the world so good, that foreigners see us as invaders wanting to take their jobs and money. I also thought that we lacked the self-awareness to realize it and we unknowingly taint the so-called better nations with our presence. That the only cure is to completely purge yourself of your Filipino-ness.

Nowadays, the sterotypes I read about are usually positive (kind, hospitable, etc.) or occupational (maids, nurses, mariners—at least they're not criminal professions).

neutronbumblebee@mander.xyz · 4 pts · 1y

That's truly sad to hear. Hopefully it will improve as Filipino culture becomes better known worldwide.

TrickDacy@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y

I've never heard a single negative stereotype about Filipinos and I live in a pretty racist country: USA

megane_kun@lemmy.zip · 2 pts · 1y

Not really. I tend to operate on a "don't ask, don't tell" basis when it comes to my origins.

it is less of shame and more of an opsec thing.

shalafi@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y (2 replies)

My wife is Filipino who has been in America 6 years or so and she is quite proud of it.

Randomgal@lemmy.ca · 2 pts · 1y (1 reply)

I had a few Filipino co-workers who were also very proud of their heritage, they showed me a lot of their cooking.

EmbarrassedBenefit3@reddthat.com · 1 pts · 1y

Yes, let them cook!

Homecooked Filipino meals are so good.