i recently broke up with my ex, and surprisingly, moving on from him is far easier than i thought. i've already been talking to him less and unblocked him as a second chance (he started being nicer), but i definitely will be careful. considering i was "addicted" to him, i'm weaning it off until i don't think about him at all.
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fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 10 pts · 1y
classybattery@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 1y
he doesnt want me but i have trouble seeing him any other way
fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 1y
classybattery@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 1y
thanks, he said he didn’t want me but he never abused me I don’t think…or maybe he did, idk
Flagstaff@programming.dev · 2 pts · 1y
If you're unsure, you can always describe here what he did and we can try to assess, although remember that we would only be reading your side of the story.
classybattery@sh.itjust.works · 1 pts · 1y
well, he would one minute be affectionate, and the next, be unsure if he wanted me and say "let's break up". he also asked me to do stuff for him a lot or would be happy if i did but never did stuff for me. he called my interests "boring" or 'dumb". rude, but i don't think it's ABUSE
Flagstaff@programming.dev · 1 pts · 1y
That doesn't sound like someone anyone would want to be with until that behavior improves. It doesn't have to be abuse to be unstable and/or unsustainable. Continual rudeness has no place in a long-term/lifelong relationship, right?
Beebabe@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 1y
Just remember, they could have been nice the whole time. Just didn’t want to. I wouldn’t speak to them at all.