To clarify, I don't mean an employee sleeping with their literal direct boss. Here is what I mean: if a 23-year-old police officer is in a romantic or sexual relationship with a 57-year-old police captain, sergeant or lieutenant, then that 23-year-old police officer should be promoted to detective or something or at least have some authority in their unit. Now that's just an example; this goes for any job: firefighter, doctor, military – anything really. If you are old enough to consent to be in a relationship with someone who is a higher rank, then I think that should qualify you to at least move up to some degree.
I'm not saying give that 23-24-year-old the biggest position in the job, but move them up a rank or two.
15 Comments
Flying_Parpaing@lemmy.world · 28 pts · 323d
Why ? Why should we promote people in the hierarchy based on whose they are fucking with ?
rc__buggy@sh.itjust.works · 27 pts · 323d
If I were you I would start investigating why I view sex as transactional
Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world · 18 pts · 323d
Sounds like someone regrets sleeping with a higher up and wants compensation.
Or, I got it backwards and you're wishing there's a way to pay someone back for some amazing blowjobs.
KoboldCoterie@pawb.social · 10 pts · 323d
Or he asked a subordinate to fuck, and she answered, "What's in it for me?", and he wishes he had a good answer.
Fuckfuckmyfuckingass@lemmy.world · 17 pts · 322d
TIL that authority is an STD.
jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works · 8 pts · 322d
That is a very interesting way to describe nepotism.
Zahille7@lemmy.world · 15 pts · 323d
"Ethics? What are those?"
db2@lemmy.world · 14 pts · 323d
You should concentrate on the shower part, the other part isn't your strong suit.
slazer2au@lemmy.world · 12 pts · 323d
What happens when the relationship breaks down? Does the person get demoted back to their original position?
normalexit@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 322d
They have to wrestle for the job. Winner keeps it, loser walks.
FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 323d
What a bizarre take
1141kizzie@thelemmy.club · 6 pts · 322d
you are asking people to fuck merits!
funny part is, OP is saying that it is unethical for them to not compensate to these poor souls 😰
Hey, it's fair right?, if young hot lady maintains romantic or sexual relations with higher ranking military using her seduction skills to get promotion. Others soldiers are using also using their skills. so IG all animals have their weapons. Instead of spending years in battles, why don't someone should take the shortcut. who cares about defending/extending our culture? What really matter is our own self-interest.
VicksVaporBBQrub@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 323d
internal fraternizing (sleeping with employees) is a common ground rule at work to be fired. Getting away with breaking this rule, puts persons in a position to break more\other work rules. This state exists in places with bad managers or bad employees.
Agrivar@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 317d
OP, please, for the love of whatever deity you hold sacred, get help. Talk to someone, anyone, who can help you work through your many many issues and misconceptions about reality.
Shady_Shiroe@lemmy.world · -2 pts · 323d
Imagine the white house full of women cuz the president couldn't keep it in, or vice versa.
Not a statement of our current political situation or anything, I honestly don't give two sh#ts about it cuz it's the same as having a gun to your head and forced to either eat dog sh#t or bull sh#t. I hate politics cuz most people in power suck, and everyone who follows turns into their mouth pieces... I should just live in the woods at this point.