One way I've seen this explained is that the bad sensory stuff is things that you can't control. Whereas the humming or chatting or music or whatever is something that you're in complete control of. It's noise that you want and expect, not noise that's disrupting you.
My own noises definitely bug me sometimes, and I generally try and keep quiet. Can't really recommend, though. It definitely contributes to making one's self an uninteresting wallflower.
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RebekahWSD@lemmy.world · 46 pts · 295d
My own noises are Normal and Fine
Everyone else's noises are Evil and Mean
shyguyblue@lemmy.world · 18 pts · 295d
Like driving on the highway:
Everyone going slower is an idiot, everyone going faster is an asshole.
loutr@sh.itjust.works · 14 pts · 295d
100dB high-pitched guitars, relentless double bass and shrieking vocals at a black metal show: total bliss.
My kids when they yell out of excitement: unbearable.
embed_me@programming.dev · 3 pts · 295d
Ah same as farts
baguettefish@discuss.tchncs.de · 16 pts · 295d
your noises have been processed by your brain before you even made them, so they're not bad
snoons@lemmy.ca · 14 pts · 295d
I would be so interested to compare .log files for an autistic person and a 'normal' person.
shyguyblue@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 295d
Ugh, lucky bastards probably don't even have a console.log, let alone a file.
Bougie_Birdie@piefed.blahaj.zone · 7 pts · 295d
I'm pretty sure they're equipped with a wonderfully sophisticated logging facility that's piped straight to /dev/null
th3raid0r@tucson.social · 3 pts · 293d
Audhd here, It would be nice if it were a quiet log file. I log straight to the console AND it's probably with DEBUG enabled.
Secret_Music@crazypeople.online · 14 pts · 295d
One way I've seen this explained is that the bad sensory stuff is things that you can't control. Whereas the humming or chatting or music or whatever is something that you're in complete control of. It's noise that you want and expect, not noise that's disrupting you.
vithigar@lemmy.ca · 6 pts · 295d
I have misophonia and sounds that I make myself are definitely included. I try to minimise the noise I make at basically all times.
Angelevo@feddit.nl · 3 pts · 295d
Solutions exist.
RiceManatee@lemmy.ca · 0 pts · 295d
Yeah but you get lonely after a while.
Angelevo@feddit.nl · 2 pts · 294d
Everyone does from time to time. The trick is to find a similar deviant to cuddle with. ^^
ICCrawler@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 295d
My own noises definitely bug me sometimes, and I generally try and keep quiet. Can't really recommend, though. It definitely contributes to making one's self an uninteresting wallflower.