is it bad if im to scared to talk to a girl who i believe likes me maybe more than i like her, because i havent been able to build up the courage to talk to her more since we met even for a normal conversation(we met 5 days ago and i haven't even been able to have a normal conversation since) im not antisocial by any means but for some reason this person in specifics seems almost impossible to approach and its killing me.
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dohpaz42@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 284d
That’s tough. It is scary to go outside of your comfort zone. Try breaking it down into smaller pieces. Say hi and go from there. Maybe give her a smile when you see her and see how she reacts. Practice smiling in the mirror if you think it would help. Try not to sweat the bigger picture, and just work on your next interaction. And forgive yourself for whatever mistakes you feel you will make. I guarantee you that women find that sort of shit cute and endearing. Take a deep breath and “jump right in”; i.e. don’t think, just do.
Be kind to yourself okay? And if this one doesn’t work out, it’s not the end of the world; it’s just an awkward learning experience. You will get better at it as long as you keep trying.