In person, I try to keep my expectations reasonable. I know that lesbians are just ordinary people without magic powers and most of them probably don’t want a fangirl losing control at the sight of them and begging them to autograph her pride flag; they just want to live normal lives. Since I know that plenty of people find “celebrity treatment” unsettling, I try to act natural, too.
But…
I have another confession to make: the sight of ladies being intimate with each other enchants me; a magic power that they can either threaten to use or activate when they want to hypnotize others and control their simple minds. I can barely begin to describe it. It looks like the best thing in the world; the only kind of magic that there is, or at least the closest thing. That’s why I keep making threads in /c/lascivious_lesbians about giving you extravagant luxuries: there’s nothing that would make me happier than all lesbians living like deities in paradise! They’re perfect!
But… um… should I keep hiding this… perception of mine? While I never planned on introducing myself to everybody as a lesbian supremacist and lesbolater anyway (I am not that socially awkward), I feel like if I ever told this to queer ladies in particular, they’d start avoiding me; it sounds too weird.
9 Comments
celeste@kbin.earth · 11 pts · 219d
Just only bring it up when you're talking about sex already, and treat people like people, and it's fine I think. Worship and voyeurism aren't that weird in the fetish landscape. It's when you treat people like they aren't entirely human outside consensual sex stuff that it's a problem.
thoughtfuldragon@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 9 pts · 219d
I do like lesbians. I don't know what lesbian supremacy means. I don't really think one way of loving is superior to another. I just prefer lesbians because that's just how I like it. I would like to live in a lesbian paradise but I think in general there's a lot to be done to improve the lot of all people.
On the other hand I do think that queer women feel pressure to hide their sexuality and interest. The fear that if they express their desires they would make others uncomfortable.
I think the point of lascivious lesbians is to be a place where lesbians can openly express their desire for other lesbians, the depths and throes of our passion. A place where we can reveal and revel in our shared love of queer intimacy.
m4xie@lemmy.ca · 8 pts · 219d
Even aside from broad societal issues of fetishizing lesbians that this might trigger similarities to, being put on a pedestal is almost always alienating and self-consciousness inducing.
Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 219d
I like you!
Lobanova@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 219d
Sign my pride flag‽
Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 219d
Sorry for my messy signature. I have giant sausage fingers 😂
Lobanova@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 218d
fracture@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 219d
i think it would be pretty cool for you to ask them to sign a pride flag though. be normal about it, but they'll be flattered. it's a cool project
theresa@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 219d
I can't give any advice on how to share this with dates, but I can provide reassurance: I have this little project in my head (and partly written down, there are many, many drafts) that's about a matriarchy where heteroromanticism is forbidden and women are kind of the "royal class". That makes lesbian relationships the highest regarded in that world and as a result of the high status of women, lesbians especially live in abundant luxury. A man touching a woman uninvited is punishable by death; touch by a woman is sacred.