fracture

u/fracture@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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on let go rule · c/onehundredninetysix · 20 pts · 2d

i'd rather you pirate her stuff than buy it, but i would really prefer you shut the fuck up about consuming it, regardless. both to stop other people from engaging with it, and because i do not wanna fucking hear about it, as a trans person

(harsh tone not directed at you, OP, it's in agreement, if anything)

as in... you're into chicks+enbies+dudes with vaginas? (asking mostly just because this is the type of question i would expect to be asked by a straight man)

it's not impossible or anything, but it's the first time i've heard of someone defining their sexuality by preference for genitalia. i've heard of people defining it by the negative (e.g. "i don't like people with pussies") or despite them (e.g "i like people regardless of their genitals"). but this would be the first time i hear of a preference for a particular one, regardless of gender

how do you know if you are attracted to people before you know what equipment they're working with?

on Illusion of choice · c/femcelmemes · 4 pts · 16d

meeeee 🙈🙈🙈

can y'all stop posting such relatable memes? i'm supposed to be a big tough manly man /s

the trans (otherwise non-gendered) spaces i've tended to occupy have been trans fem dominated... which is cool but eventually can feel kind of exclusionary to like... share a space? because i'm trans masc and not necessarily looking to get the good girls posts or the girl euphoria posts etc

so it's not really like a... oh being a trans fem is triggering... it's just an acknowledgement that not everyone in the space is. but i get feeling some friction about it. maybe it helps to imagine the equivalent trans masc post? "girlmoder or not, you're all handsome and valid"... and you can decide for yourself if you feel like the "cw: assumes viewer is trans masc" is warranted

but that's what i understand the origin of the rule to be, and for what it's worth, it does make it a lot more pleasant to be around for me