Do you have any hard no's that are absolutely off limit?
My main three would be anything scat related, diaper play and age play. No disrespect to anyone into that, but they are definitely hard nos for me.
How about you?
Do you have any hard no's that are absolutely off limit?
My main three would be anything scat related, diaper play and age play. No disrespect to anyone into that, but they are definitely hard nos for me.
How about you?
16 Comments
signal_1096@fedinsfw.app · 6 pts · 155d
Diapers, "adult babies", scat, vomit those are the hardest no's I have.
Kolanaki@pawb.social · 5 pts · 155d
No hitting, no blood, no shit, no puke, no children, no rape (not even pretend rape).
Everything else is on the table.
TabbsTheBat@pawb.social · 4 pts · 155d
Choking, hair pulling, sounding, and anything with the word prolapse in it.. I don't have that many off the top of my head tbh, but those ones definitely
CapOnBackwards@fedinsfw.app · 5 pts · 155d
TabbsTheBat@pawb.social · 2 pts · 155d
I knew someone who was into that, which was... Something
But it's something that makes me cringe (in the literal sense, not the internet one)
SarahFromOz@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 154d
Hair pulling is off limits? I guess it hurts too much?
TabbsTheBat@pawb.social · 1 pts · 154d
I don't mind painful kinks tbh, but just something about the sensation of hair pulling I don't like. Even if someone would grab a large enough bunch of hair and don't pull hard enough to be painful lol. I just hate it :3
LemonMan@fedinsfw.app · 3 pts · 155d
"Gross kink" stuff. Sweaty feet, sweaty armpits, unwashed panties, etc. If you put your smelly feet near my face, I might throw up. I will definitely not have sex with you.
dime577@fedinsfw.app · 2 pts · 155d
Rape fantasies are a big no for me. Lost a relationship because I refused to rape her.
SarahFromOz@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 154d
She should have just said she wanted rough sex while tied up. Would have worked better right?
dime577@fedinsfw.app · 1 pts · 154d
Absolutely, but she wanted the full home invasion rape scenario. Sneak in, come up behind her, do a choke hold and drag her into the bedroom while she kicked and screamed, etc. With no safe word.
And it's not like she was sexually assaulted and wanted to re-experience her trauma in a setting she had more control over.
AlwaysCravingMore@fedinsfw.app · 1 pts · 155d
Adding on to what I already see commented:
CapOnBackwards@fedinsfw.app · 3 pts · 154d
AlwaysCravingMore@fedinsfw.app · 2 pts · 154d
I have no idea how people develop the fetishes they do, but it was vile lol
CapOnBackwards@fedinsfw.app · 2 pts · 154d
imadethis@fedinsfw.app · 1 pts · 154d
The rest make sense to me, but why pegging? Is it where the action is taking place?
AlwaysCravingMore@fedinsfw.app · 3 pts · 154d
No I have no problem with the area. I tried in the past and it just emasculated my then-partner in my mind. I very much did not like anything about it.
imadethis@fedinsfw.app · 1 pts · 154d
Most of what others have said in this thread, but I'd add the two that just make me think humanity is doomed: findom and slavery (we're talking 'permanent,' where you aren't doing it just for a day or two over the weekend) as a kink. When you go from the level of kinky fetish to living it as a lifestyle, there just seems to be something broken with that mentality.
CapOnBackwards@fedinsfw.app · 1 pts · 154d
imadethis@fedinsfw.app · 1 pts · 154d
'Financial Domination.' It's a concept just begging for you to be scammed. Bad enough in person, and like trying to contain hell with a pentagram made of silly string on the internet.
CapOnBackwards@fedinsfw.app · 1 pts · 153d