The problem with that is that it is a difficult thing to express to people if you are uncertain how they will take it.
The only thing that can potentially alleviate the awkwardness is the experience of having done it enough that you understand how to navigate the social situation.
Please just say it.
The concept is just so far beyond my understanding, that i would never figure it out on my own. I wouldn't even notice something is wrong or different.
And there's nothing i can do to fix or improve a situation i cant even comprehend.
'Supposed to' is a strong term, I just never get any answers I am either too dumb to figure out how my actions will be percieved or it is just impossible to control for other people's nerotic world views.
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essell@lemmy.world · 46 pts · 80d
You just say that.
Please just say it.
I can work with that.
The alternative just winds me up.
bizarroland@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 80d
The problem with that is that it is a difficult thing to express to people if you are uncertain how they will take it.
The only thing that can potentially alleviate the awkwardness is the experience of having done it enough that you understand how to navigate the social situation.
essell@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 80d
Yeah, I'm not gonna claim it's easy, only that it's preferable to the alternative.
Mac@mander.xyz · -3 pts · 80d
Get wound, nerd
echolalia@lemmy.ml · 12 pts · 80d
GET WOUND
GET ABSOLUTELY SPOOLED YOU FUKIN BOBBIN
Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org · 27 pts · 80d
Please just say it.
The concept is just so far beyond my understanding, that i would never figure it out on my own. I wouldn't even notice something is wrong or different.
And there's nothing i can do to fix or improve a situation i cant even comprehend.
Jake_Farm@sopuli.xyz · 3 pts · 80d
Sure but then I being hyper-analyzing my every action wondering what "energy" I'm giving off.
Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org · 1 pts · 79d
We're not supposed to do it?
Jake_Farm@sopuli.xyz · 2 pts · 79d
'Supposed to' is a strong term, I just never get any answers I am either too dumb to figure out how my actions will be percieved or it is just impossible to control for other people's nerotic world views.
Okokimup@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 80d
Malyca@lemmy.zip · 3 pts · 80d
This is why most of us just want honesty. Just say it.