Daily Discussion Thread: Mon 11 Sep 2023

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StudChud@aussie.zone · 28 pts · 2y (21 replies)

I GOT THE JOB OMG HOLY SHIT AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿค—

Edit: AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

Editedit: thank you everyone you have been so damn supportive of me ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ i love you all so much!

cherryripesalmoncake@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y

Work, work, work, work, work, work He said me haffi Work, work, work, work, work, work He see me do mi Dirt, dirt, dirt, dirt, dirt, dirt So me put in Work, work, work, work, work, work

6368_39162@lemm.ee · 6 pts · 2y
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just_kitten@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

YAAAAAAY

Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

!!!

Big congrats!

Outlier1031@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y (2 replies)

You took their jerbs! what is the role??

StudChud@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Hehehe! It's a scheduling job for a home services company! I'm just excited to be working again haha!

Outlier1031@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

That sounds great! I hope you plan on celebrating!

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

AWESOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOME ๐Ÿ˜Š

anotherspringchicken@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

Yay! Congrats, thatโ€™s fantastic! ๐ŸŽ‰

Taleya@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

#FUCKIN' A!

landsharkkidd@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

FUCK YES! GO YOU! SO HAPPY FOR YOU!

useless_modern_god@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

โค๏ธBIG LOVE OH STARCHY ONEโค๏ธ

Pilk@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

Queen shit

CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

Fuck yeah ๐ŸŽ‰

Duenan@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Oh my god thatโ€™s amazing! Iโ€™m glad you never gave up. Eventually you were bound to find something.

Congratulations!!!!!!!

underwatermagpies@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Woohoo! Amazing!

RustyRaven@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

๐Ÿพ๐Ÿฅ‚๐ŸŽ‰

baconmash@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

YOU GOT THE JOBBBBBBBBBB

๐Ÿพ

Force_majeure122@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

OMGGGG GO YOU!!!

PeelerSheila@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

Late to the party on this one but ๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐ŸŽŠ๐Ÿช…๐ŸŽ†๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿ†๐Ÿฅ‡๐Ÿ…๐ŸŽ–๏ธ CONGRATULATIONS

Llabyrinthine@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

Yay! Congrats! ๐Ÿฅณ

landsharkkidd@aussie.zone · 23 pts · 2y (14 replies)

She's gone.

Never gets easy.

Edit: Just want to say I love you folks a lot. Sorry for making things a bit of a downer! But I appreciate everyone of you, thank you for all the love.

Thornburywitch@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y

Hardest decision ever imo. But when it comes down to a choice between one's own emotions, I think you did the right thing in choosing what's best for the dog. Hugs.

Eagle@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

Hugs. It's the toughest decision to ever make. One day they'll make a dog that lives as long as we do, so we never have to say goodbye. ๐Ÿพ

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

hugs, I'm so sorry

landsharkkidd@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

Thank you. It's better this way instead of letting her live. Sorry for making this DT sad. ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–

RustyRaven@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

๐Ÿซ‚

CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

Condolences mate.

Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

So sorry to hear that.

ReadEverything@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

Itโ€™s so tough having to let them go, Iโ€™m sorry for your loss. ๐Ÿ’”

the_procrastinata@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

Oh mate, Iโ€™m so sorry. Saying goodbye is so damn hard.

StudChud@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

I'm so sorry, sending you my love and support ๐Ÿ’œ hugs

melbaboutown@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Iโ€™m so sorry. You gave her a good life and she was safe when she passed.

SituationCake@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

So sorry. Itโ€™s so hard to loose a pet.

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

๐Ÿ’” It may be the best decision for our furry friends but it doesn't hurt any less because of that. I hope the love and devotion put into that painful decision carries you through the next few days.

Duenan@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

Sorry to hear youโ€™ve lost a loved one :(

Theyโ€™re part of our lives and part of the family.

My condolences. I hope youโ€™re doing ok over there.

bull@aussie.zone · 15 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Move aside, common people.. we have a business class flyer coming through!

Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y

They're not lying when they say estimated.

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

there's probably a reason for that ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

Outlier1031@aussie.zone · 13 pts · 2y (1 reply)

I just offered a second round interview for the role I applied for. This one is with the team lead and the CEO and its on thursday. Super nervous but excited.

StudChud@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

YESSS YOU GOT THIS HOT STUFF ๐Ÿ”ฅ ๐Ÿ’œ

StudChud@aussie.zone · 13 pts · 2y (5 replies)

So, I have an interview today, and the HR rep said she'd email me a calendar invite confirming it. I have not received one, so I have sent an email to confirm it.

I'm stressed that it isn't actually booked in, and I'll be travelling across the city for nada. Ugh.

Edit: all good it's confirmed ๐Ÿค—

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Good Luck. ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป

CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Good luck mate ๐Ÿคž

baconmash@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

call them too?

anotherspringchicken@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

Good luck! ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป

Force_majeure122@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

Shit that's annoying

landsharkkidd@aussie.zone · 13 pts · 2y (1 reply)

It's getting worse. I think it's time. I'm leaving work early.

I know this is a fact of life, but it's a terrible fact and I hate it! Hug your animals for me and tell them landsharkkidd loves them very much.

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

big hugs

bull@aussie.zone · 12 pts · 2y (3 replies)

Flying home tomorrow but I didn't do my laundry maths right so here I am at the laundromat.. at least I won't need to do washing when I get home!

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 10 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Home for the nice weather. And it's such a nice feeling to get home and there's no housework waiting.๐Ÿ˜Š

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

I've now made it a habit to tidy up the house as much as I can for a trip 5 or more days long - even if it means I'm up till 2am or am in a sweaty mess. First priority is packing of course, then dishes (including putting them away), overall tidying, bins, vacuum, laundry, and if I have time, new sheets. It's so depressing coming back esp after a longer trip and realising you have so many chores to do...

anotherspringchicken@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

I do the same; itโ€™s so nice coming home to a clean house

bull@aussie.zone · 12 pts · 2y (3 replies)

Meet Petunia. She is served as a 14oz prime rib, medium rare (which actually was more rare). Accompanying her is a creamy garlic mash, broccoli and a garlic sauce. To the side (not pictured) is a smoked Gouda mac and cheese and to drink, a Distinguished Gentleman consisting of bourbon, cherry liqueur and garnished with a cherry and orange peel served over an ice sphere.

Coming shortly is a creme brulee to close out the evening.

Force_majeure122@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Petunia looks like she lived a great, delicious life.

Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

In reality petunia (bless her keratin hooves) spent her life wandering around a feedlot.

bull@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Hey HEY!! Petunia lived in the west wing (The Petunia Wing) of the famous chef's villa. She had custom made Cow Nikes to make walking on the marble floors squishy and was potty trained. She will be SORELY missed by her family and friends.

CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 11 pts · 2y (2 replies)

I'm still learning things on my watch and the other day I discovered that it wanted to record 10 minutes of non stop walking. No problems I'll do it on a nice day. Well today is that day so I start doing laps around the house with little dog, the kid comes out to see what I'm doing. I explain. Surely it's been 10 minutes now. Head over to her. She pushes a button and then the timer starts. I don't swear in front of my kid but today I did which brought a huge smile to her tonsillitis face.

dumblederp@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (1 reply)

When I meditate to a timer, I take a few seconds to make sure the timer's running because otherwise that's all I think about while meditating.

CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

I thought it was going but not showing. It said "ready set go". The confusion happened when it congratulated me for achieving my moving goal but the whole time I'm thinking this better be working. Now I know what to do in future.

Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 11 pts · 2y (1 reply)

This cherry blossom thing normally goes early Oct. Usually clockwork.

Everything is fine.

useless_modern_god@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

My lawn is still hibernating. I guess itโ€™s fine? Havenโ€™t mowed for like 2 or 3 months

TinyBreak@aussie.zone · 10 pts · 2y (1 reply)

So 2 weeks ago I saw a car I wanted. THE car I wanted. Well, not the colour, but the rest of it was perfect. This was the one I had been told would take 6-8 months to get. I figured "Cool, but Im not ready yet, and it'll be gone by the time I am ready". had a look Friday and guess what was still there? Called them, asked if they could hold it till October. They could. Took it for a spin, loved it. Chucked down a deposit. Job done. I need to figure out the money because we still dont know how bigger loss the stupid Mazda is gonna take. But its nice having a plan and a path out of this bullshit situation. Im wayyyy less stressed because I may not be at the finish line, but I can see it in sight.

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Fingers bloody crossed you get the car you want, you need a break after so much shit luck in the automobile dept

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 9 pts · 2y

I just sent a donation to the wonderful artisan in Mexico who designed the pattern for the masks I make. ๐Ÿ˜ท๐Ÿ˜€

Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 9 pts · 2y (1 reply)

I am not doing a late night chip or hotdog you ppl can't have onee I'm sorry :(

Tomorrow is a new day.

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

late night food probably isn't the best idea anyway

and yes, it is a new day :)

StudChud@aussie.zone · 9 pts · 2y (3 replies)

Nap with the cat has been had, now I must turn my attention to what to have for dinner. I'm real lazy right now so everything feels like too much effort lol

Duenan@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Must have been happy and exhausting after today.

Maybe do something simple but satisfying if youโ€™re feeling the way you are now.

StudChud@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Thank you, friend ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ I saw your other message and it filled me with such happiness. Thank you for always being supportive ๐Ÿ’œ

I splurged and got pizza pockets for dinner haha, hawaiian, and cheese & bacon. ๐Ÿคค๐Ÿคค

Duenan@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

That sounds wonderful.

I havenโ€™t had a pizza pocket in ages.

I hope it was nice and tasty and those combinations of flavours I agree with totally!

legios@aussie.zone · 9 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Might not apply, but went on a date on Saturday night that surprised us both about how well it went. Online dating, and just dating in general for me I am super cynical but we just clicked. We've been texting constantly since then and it's nice. 4 years since my last 'real' date/partner. 6 years since divorced.

It's nice to just meet someone you get on well with.

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)

that's really nice ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜Š

legios@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Yeah it is. I've been divorced for 5 years now and also have troubles just connecting with people (I'm demi-sexual).

Lots of dates in the past which didn't work well. It's just nice to meet someone good.

Nath@aussie.zone · 9 pts · 2y (1 reply)

I don't normally dream much, now I've dreamt twice in 24 hours. This virus is literally messing with my mind. Once about Ed Sheeran. I'm not even a fan of his stuff. Once about cleaning some woman's kitchen so I could help her study law. I don't know about law.

Do people really dream about stuff like this every day? How do you not get distracted thinking about your dreams all the time?

ReadEverything@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

I find that dreams when you are sick are so much more crazy and weird, not what I normally dream.

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 2y (8 replies)

I just wanna reiterate it in case the universe needs reminding. But HOW GOOD IS THIS SUN.

(let's just not think about el nino and summer for now mmmkay)

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (5 replies)

It's been such a dry winter ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

StudChud@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y (4 replies)

Im so flaky from the dry air, but I'm too lazy for moisturiser ughhhhhh lol

Force_majeure122@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y

My flakiness stems from childhood neglect

baconmash@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

i have resorted to johnson's baby oil for my legs

wscholermann@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (1 reply)
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RustyRaven@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

The sun is awesome. It would be a cold, dark world without it, and it gives us a sense of direction. What would we revolve around if we had no sun?

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

What would we revolve around if we had no sun?

Cats?... but then they themselves are drawn to the sun, so your point stands.

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SituationCake@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y (2 replies)

It sure is. It still always sounds preposterous to me when people from Europe casually drop phrases like โ€˜went to Rome for the long weekendโ€™ I know itโ€™s way better than it was. For my parents generation air travel was hideously expensive, even overseas phone calls were expensive. But yeah itโ€™s still really far. Hoping for someone to invent another supersonic jet. I reckon there be a market for it even if it was more expensive.

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PeelerSheila@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

With my luck a fly would find it's way into the teleportation unit..

landsharkkidd@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y (3 replies)

Nahh I feel the same. I wish that I could just take a day trip to another country like Europe, or like being able to go through a few states like US. But no, takes like 2 hours just to get to the CBD.

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (1 reply)

I used to take the train to so many places. I think my fave train ride was Davos to Tirano. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rhaetian_Railway

landsharkkidd@aussie.zone · 1 pts · 2y

Oh man, that looks amazing.

wscholermann@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y
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Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y (4 replies)

It's why our ancestors came here ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿฅด Far away from war and problems.

I really don't like being so far away. ๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜ข

Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Mine were escaping TB and chasing potat

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

mine were escaping nazi devastation

wscholermann@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y (1 reply)
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PeelerSheila@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

I read goldrush as goulash and had a "huh? Sounds alright actually" moment.

bull@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 2y (3 replies)

My parents have like $500 or so casino/resort credits left to use before tomorrow morning so we're hitting the fancy steakhouse tonight to blow it all on one meal. The cow I'm gonna eat is going to be so fancy it was once the chef's child's personal pet. My steak will have had a name and had little birthday parties with party hats each year, and its own Instagram account with TENS OF THOUSANDS of followers.

useless_modern_god@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y

That story mooved me to tears and is udderly heartbreaking.

RustyRaven@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

I'm thinking that cow won't be the best eating if it has had multiple birthday parties. Might be ok for a slow cooked smoked BBQ meal, but for steak you want one of the chef's child's personal pet's offspring.

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

Are you going to have cocktails and dessert? ๐Ÿ˜บ

StudChud@aussie.zone · 8 pts · 2y (6 replies)

Found out my best mate is moving to QLD to be closer to his dad. I'm actually pretty devo about it, but I'll at least have a very good excuse to go north for a holiday lol

wscholermann@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)
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StudChud@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

Brisbane, so easy to visit at least. I told him he'll need to find a place to rent so I can come crash haha

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (3 replies)

lieb?

StudChud@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Nah, not mein liebe, he is safe here at home with me lol.

A coworker from way back, became my bestie during and after our stint at the old workplace. Been mates for 6 years, helped me break up with my ex, knows me better than I know myself. He's a good egg, and I'll miss him terribly.

I'll just have to call and text him more to make up for the distance.

Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

The tyranny of distance.

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

hugs to you all

Taleya@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y

Nipped up to bunnings on lunch break, half of cochrane's road is shut off as they have the crane in at Morris Moor.

And I TELL YOU THIS...it was a genuine pleasure riding back how many tailgating, illegally close passing, abuse hurling methed-out tradie shithuggers missed the goddamn detour signs and had to do painful, painful 5 point turns to go back from whence they came while I skated past the block on the footpath blowing kisses.

landsharkkidd@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y

I felt really weird today. Like this almost disconnect from my body. Like it feels like when I have hang overs so it's like lethargic and spaced out. Almost slow. But I took meds, and have eaten and drank water so I don't know very weird.

I also mentioned maybe a month or so ago about being worried about my dog. Everything has been okay, but today she's like breathing slowly and doesn't react to when my sister calls her. I don't know, I saw what happened to my cat, and I fear that it's happening again. She's old but it still sucks.

RustyRaven@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y

What is it about soup that always makes you wish you'd planned something better for lunch, but then when you eat it, you remember just how good soup is and wonder why you don't eat it more often. ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ I must say the cheese and bacon rolls paired particularly well with my leek and potato soup today.

PeelerSheila@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

I'm sorry mate gentle hug

Baku@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y
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MisssDarylC@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

What I should be doing; My assignment

What I have been doing: Scrolling, watching reality tv, chatting on dating apps, looking for a new bed frame that I have no money for, playing sims

PeelerSheila@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

Exercises have been done, but I must remember to not do tummy and core exercises after dinner. Trying to exercise a belly which has recently been fed is not very bright of me.. both motivation and ability are severely diminished!

wscholermann@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y
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Force_majeure122@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (9 replies)

Eel on rice with some chilli crisp ๐Ÿ

::: spoiler spoiler bowl of eel on rice :::

useless_modern_god@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (2 replies)

I used up all my upvotes on the steak. Soz.

Force_majeure122@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (1 reply)

๐Ÿ˜ž

useless_modern_god@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

We both got downvoted by the hAteRz haha!

Baku@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (5 replies)
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Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

eel tastes most like?

It can occasionally be an electrifying dish.

Thornburywitch@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

I reckon it tastes roughly halfway between snake and bacon. It's the fish red meat. I really like it. Smoked eel is scrumptious - can get it at Vic market sometimes - which doesn't need cooking. Just flake it into a salad or onto rice or pasta with your choice of sauce. Fresh eel cooked in fat has a crispy skin, cooked in water it's more gelatinous if you like it like that. Either way it goes very well with strong flavours of spice and sauce. Tinned eel is more like the cooked in water version. One of my absolute favorite dishes is crumbed and fried sections of eel on the bone, served with a sharp vinaigrette dipping sauce.
Most of the eel sold in Victoria comes from the lakes in the western district and has been eaten since forever by everybody. Which lakes are now full of water again, so I reckon there will be local eel on sale over the summer this year and next. Tinned eel should be available from asian grocers.
Let me know if you find some fresh eel on sale, and I can give you some hints on preparing it anglo style if that's your jam. There are some traps for the unwary.
Baby eels are called elvers, and any whitebait recipie can be used to turn them into food. And I recommend that you do so - they are seriously yum. Crunchy and savory and full of flavor.

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 1 pts · 2y

I've never cooked fresh eel myself, might have to keep an eye out over summer and bookmark your comment. I must also find this smoked eel. I've only ever had eel in Japanese cuisine. Grilled, or pan fried with a glaze, or a tinned equivalent.

Force_majeure122@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Hmm. It's kind of like white fish of some type, but a little less fishy flavour? It's also really soft/delicate. This one was tinned in quite a sweet sauce so tough to be objective on the flavour. Not my favourite thing, but would eat it again

Baku@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y
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StudChud@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

It's going to sound completely backwards and dumb, but you just sit down and put fingers to keyboard (pen to paper) and write. Even if you just write "blaaaaaaaaaaah"

You have to force yourself to just do it. I find it helps to visualise it in my head as an actual brickwall, and envision myself taking it down brick by brick. It helps me do chores.

That, or a hard deadline (like an inspection) will scare me into doing the chore regardless of the thickness of the wall.

bananafungus@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

For me personally, I break it down until it's manageable. Seriously, it can be broken down into something as small as writing your name and date at the top of the page.

Also a good reminder for anyone and everyone is your first attempt can look like a toddler drew a picture for Mummy and Daddy.

Duenan@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

Encountered this feeling before.

As daunting as it is, make a start and slowly work at it bit by bit and youโ€™ll get there in the end.

Take the first step and plan or start on the work.

landsharkkidd@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

I usually do the pomodoro method, which is doing a task in 25 minutes with a 5 minute break. Or I go "okay I'll do the task for 5 minutes, if after that 5 minutes I can't do it anymore then okay, I'll try again next time" most of the time, I fly past the 5 minutes and end up doing it. But I totally understand the paralysis feeling.

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

I have significant recurring difficulty with this. Meds help me lift my baseline, but aren't everything. Some tips that have helped me regardless of meds, and could apply to anyone is - find something fun or rewarding about it. Even if it means turning it into a game (break it down into the smallest task and ramp it up like you're smashing the early levels of a game). Envisage how relieved you will feel when it's done so it feels like a worthwhile goal - though don't get stuck in the fantasy! I also recommend others tips here about wearing something different/creating a separate space for work, and writing out tasks and dot points by hand.

Usually what has the most impact, though, is the adrenaline of a deadline :(

SituationCake@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

Just start, with anything at all. Make a bullet point list of what to include, ideas, connections, a flow chart, sketch; it doesnโ€™t matter. It doesnโ€™t have to be in computer. I find that writing by hand seems to be easier way to break the block. It feels less official?

Recommendation 2 is gonna sound kooky. Put shoes on. Or whatever you would normally wear out of the house. Fosters some kind of subconscious โ€™doing somethingโ€™ mode.

Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

My old saying was 'the first word is the hardest".

You got this just write a few down and rest will manifest.

Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

Well there you go.

The paqui one stupid chip is being recalled due to adverse reactions.

SpinMeAround@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (4 replies)

For those who love cats and candles - what do you do to ensure that your cat can't touch the candle? The fluffy kitty in my life can't be trusted, but I'd love to be able to light a candle of an evening.

bananafungus@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y

For my cat it was a learn from your mistakes situation, turned my back for 2 seconds and the silly bugger had a burnt a whisker or two. Now he doesn't go near them, he just sort of admires from a distance.

Taleya@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

do you want the smell or the light?

Smell you can replicate with melts, light you can get in LED variants.

SpinMeAround@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

Ooh, just saw candle cages and lanterns. Just need to make sure it's weighted enough that he can't push it over.

Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

All my old kitties weren't too keen on open flames.

You could put the candle in a glass candle holder.

melbaboutown@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (11 replies)

Iโ€™m thinking back to the GFC in 2008 and swine flu but weirdly donโ€™t remember much. For me they didnโ€™t hugely affect my life and were so long ago theyโ€™re like a mental blip.

I know swine flu was contained fairly quickly (unlike covid) but for the average person how do economic conditions now compare to what they were in 2008?

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y (5 replies)

wages have declined in real terms, cost of living has gone up

melbaboutown@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (4 replies)

I figured :( Iโ€™m just wondering, were costs of living *ever this badโ€ฆ

Edit: Do you think itโ€™s going to improve or is late stage capitalism just going to keep doing its thing?

Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y (3 replies)

is late stage capitalism

That's a difficult concept

melbaboutown@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (2 replies)

You know what I mean though. Is this going to improve or is it just going to keep getting worse

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (1 reply)

The main thing that helps me sleep soundly at night is knowing at least the buck - and the personal suffering, I hope - stops with me in terms of future humans. As long as they still have safe and relatively easily accessible chemical euthanasia when I start becoming unable to care for my basic needs, I am not going to get too anxious about my own life - which is the only thing I really have the most control over.

If society collapses I think I have enough in me to find a way to have a meaningful and healthy enough life that contributes to others existence... but I'd probably rather take myself out when it gets to the roving-marauders-with-guns phase.

melbaboutown@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

I donโ€™t think itโ€™d be so dramatic or immediate. At least I hope not. More just the downward slide of shittiness thatโ€™s been happening, and vastly more people not coping or able to get basic needs met.

A worsening of the mental health crises and violence in the CBD, even more homeless than now. Increased health care burden due to drug use, heat stroke, assaults or malnutrition.

Possibly arrests turning violent because people are increasingly being forced to squat and getting evicted plus the right to protest has been gradually eroded by laws. Climate change slowly gets really bad and wrecks people in cheaply built houses. (Tbh thatโ€™s already happening.)

I really hope things can improve. Plus between depressed wages and rising costs it could get to the point where people are literally unable to buy shit and the economy fails anyway.

Edit: Mutual aid is one way but honestly Iโ€™m no longer able to do it

Thornburywitch@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Apologies in advance for a wall of text. Will try to put it under a spoiler.

::: spoiler spoiler As someone who actually had swine flu, I remember that time fairly well. The flu was Not Fun. Economic conditions were a little different but not too much. You could, and I did, live without a home computer. Still had to have a mobile phone though. My boys had both reached the downhill slope of uni, and were fairly independent and both were earning and contributing to the household costs including labour costs.
Price of food was distributed differently - meat was relatively cheaper than today. Lamb was still a relatively cheap meat due to large supply. Pork was relatively expensive as not so much was imported as is today. Also only a few categories of milk - real milk and reduced fat removed coloured water which was promoted as healthy. Soy milk really wasn't a thing much, and the whole gluten-free thing hadn't really gotten started. It was available in health food shops, but not usually in supermarkets. Somewhat reduced choice of vegetables available in supermarkets - you had to go to a market or side of the road stall for interesting veg.
As a rule of thumb, the biggest perceived health threat was FAT. And there was fat-free almost everything available (except maybe bacon), and butter was the true cause of the downfall of civilisations if you believed the healthfood press. People even avoided eating eggs because of the fat content. Processed food still hit the sugar pretty hard, and sugary food was marketed as "low fat" and therefore healthy. Not healthier, just healthy in general due to increased 'energy'. This still happens today.
Less 'foreign' food in supermarkets, but plenty of ethnic restaurants. And imo restaurant food was relatively cheaper than today - so we ate out more, but got a LOT less takeaway and no home deliveries. Lots of people still did a weekly shopping trip and this was also an entertainment thing and had to be co-ordinated with the TV's programme schedule. You could tell when a popular programme was being broadcast because the supermarkets would be empty.
Power prices, well I had solar on my roof for hot water and electricity, so I didn't perceive any problem with that. Lots of people bitched and moaned about the price of power but it was generally agreed that gas was the cheapest option. Electric stoves were still a distinct step down from gas for cooking, and induction just wasn't on the radar. Reverse cycle aircon was still fairly new, and not trusted by many. After all, how could your air con also be your heater? The cost of petrol was also a constant whinge. Memories of the millenium drought were still fresh, so saving water was a priority and the cost of water was going up up up.
This period was also the last gasp of the great home renovation boom that hit in the 1990s and lasted until about 2010. I don't miss that, or the convos about one's latest renovation at any and every social event including the pub so help me God.
In my opinion, the chief difference between then and now is the drop in real wages, and rising rental costs.
The actual cost of living (outside of housing cost) as a percentage is not all that different when you take the change in HOW and WHERE we spend money into account. We are outsourcing or delegating a lot more stuff to commercial providors and insisting that it be delivered to us. This comes at a cost. There is less money available to pay for it. It's a choice not a right, imo. :::

melbaboutown@aussie.zone · 1 pts · 2y

Thanks for this. It all sounds about right. I was a grown adult through all of it, just really donโ€™t remember much.

(By it not affecting me much I meant - I was already a hermit! I was already poor!)

landsharkkidd@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (2 replies)

I honestly don't remember much (the ADHD mixed with PTSD really fucks with the memory). But I was 13 and that was the year my parents separated. So I can't remember the economic issues at the time, I just remember having to live in a unit instead of a house when they separated. Dad was still in the old house until maybe mid-way through 2009?

But yeah 2008 was weird. Starting year 7, so moving to a new school, and then at the end of the year having to move schools again because of the separation.

melbaboutown@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Itโ€™s fair enough not to remember, thatโ€™s a lot for a kid

landsharkkidd@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

I do remember in 2009 when KRudd gave people money and mum gave my sister and I $50, and obviously back then that was a lot. I bought a DVD from Sanity hahaha. And I remember Swine Flu being in the news, but it didn't feel as real as Covid did.

bananafungus@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

Time to get my arse off the couch and go to work! I have a shadow tonight who is apparently annoying as all hell so that should be fun...

Force_majeure122@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Who's watching the tennis with me? It's getting spicy

Ok_Cookie@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Can anyone recommend a place where I can borrow tools for a one time use? I'm working on the lawn soon and need one-time things like a lawn leveler/soil spreader, pitchfork, crimper etc. Really not interested in purchasing one even second hand just to use it once :/

landsharkkidd@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 2y

Oh I actually know this! There's a thing called a Tool Library. There's one in Brunswick, I don't know about other locations. But it's basically a "library" so to speak where you can borrow tools for diy, gardening, that sort of thing. I don't know if that is too far for you, but I know that exists.

dumblederp@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Kennards has a bunch of stuff too.

melbaboutown@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

Itโ€™s so difficult to keep on top of everything and my hair is giving me the shits. Tempted to go a pixie cut but thatโ€™s just more maintenance

bananafungus@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (4 replies)

Just hopped into bed and the cat keeps softly licking my arm and then very softly nibbling at it. No idea what he's up to, but I can see the headline now, "lonely shiftworker eaten alive by beloved cat in the night".

Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

'cat escapes stormwater drain and eats owner".

FTFY

melbaboutown@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Just having a taste. Youโ€™ve got two, right?

bananafungus@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Yes, the one currently nibbling me is mine, the other is my housemates (the one you may remember as the sick old man).

melbaboutown@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

I meant two arms (nibbles is leaving you one for the can opener)!

But now youโ€™re facing double trouble. Surrounding you like velociraptors

StudChud@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

๐ŸŽผ๐ŸŽถI have a long temper
Until a certain point
It takes a lot, to get to me
Usually people don't get there
But then, when this dude has an angry cranky day
So damn the devil, then I go haywire
When I have deficiency of a vitamin
Then I go haywire
Then I go haywire
When I have deficiency of caffeine
Then I go haywire
Then I go haywire๐ŸŽถ๐ŸŽถ๐ŸŽถ

bananafungus@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (4 replies)

Whenever I see someone recommend Much Ado About Nothing (1993), I feel like it should come with a warning. I see it come up in a lot of period drama comedy recommendations, and while the film is good and funny, if you don't understand iambic pentameter you're in for a very unfunny time.

Same goes for The Hollow Crown (Henry IV adaptation), excellent mini series, but again good luck following along if you don't understand iambic pentameter.

StudChud@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (1 reply)

O God, that I were a man. I would eat his heart in the market-place.

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

I love that play so much, it has triple puns, triple!!

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 1 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Comedy? Some pretty scary stuff happens . It's between waves of the plague, there are wars, and there is hell to consider!!

bananafungus@aussie.zone · 1 pts · 2y

Oh, I wasn't saying the Hollow Crown was a comedy, more another example of a good watch but only if you understand the dialogue.

Edit: Just occurred to me you're probably talking about Much Ado About Nothing... I think most people aren't thinking about what's going on beyond the whole soldiers arriving from war turns to hijinks situation.

Pilk@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Good news, if you want your led light up Christmas reindeer they are now in stock at Big W!

Bottom_racer@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y

Too early it's just rud(olph).

SituationCake@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y

Christmas food items are on the shelves at Colesworth. Because itโ€™s September.

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)

I'm doing an on line shop and noticed all the champignon mushies are sold out and the exotic mushies are still available ๐Ÿฅบ

wscholermann@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y
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Ok_Cookie@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Does anyone have recommendations for couriers they use to ship things interstate?

I'm looking to buy a device second hand from interstate. Some may come in a box some might not but it can weigh up to 20kg and in a (relatively) decent sized box ~(70cmx40cmx40cm)

Are there services that pick up from the persons house or would they have to go into a place to ship it off? They tend to stay on the market for a while so I'm sure the person wouldn't mind.

I tried looking into backloading but it seems like too much trouble for minimal savings. Looked at courier sites and wasn't sure if I was doing it correctly but it was estimating ~$80 which is actually not too bad. Would much rather go off of recommendations. My concern is also payment, I essentially have to trust the other party to ship it off once paid.

Taleya@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)

I've used couriers please of all things, but again it depends on your franchise.

Ok_Cookie@aussie.zone · 1 pts · 2y

Thank you, I'll see their prices and how they operate to see if it fits the requirements

baconmash@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (18 replies)

Breakfast ๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ๐ŸŠ๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿˆ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ‡๐Ÿ‰๐ŸŒ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฅญ๐Ÿ๐Ÿฅฅ๐Ÿฅฆ๐Ÿฅ‘๐Ÿซ›๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ…๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿฅฌ๐Ÿฅ’๐ŸŒฝ๐Ÿฅ•๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿซš๐Ÿฅ”๐Ÿง…๐Ÿฅฏ๐Ÿž๐Ÿฅ–๐Ÿฅจ๐Ÿง€๐Ÿง‡๐Ÿฅž๐Ÿงˆ๐Ÿณ๐Ÿฅš๐Ÿฅ“๐Ÿฅฉ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ–๐Ÿซ“๐Ÿ•๐ŸŸ๐Ÿ”๐ŸŒญ๐Ÿฅ™๐Ÿง†๐ŸŒฎ๐ŸŒฏ๐Ÿฅ—๐Ÿฒ๐Ÿœ๐Ÿ๐Ÿฅ˜๐Ÿ›๐Ÿฃ๐Ÿฑ๐ŸฅŸ๐Ÿฆช๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿš๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ ๐Ÿค๐Ÿชผ๐Ÿฆ€๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฅ ๐Ÿฅฎ๐Ÿข๐Ÿก๐Ÿง๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿง๐Ÿฅง๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿจ๐ŸŽ‚๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿฅœ๐ŸŒฐ๐Ÿช๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฅ›โ˜•๏ธ๐Ÿต๐Ÿบ๐Ÿถ๐Ÿฅค๐Ÿง‹๐Ÿงƒ๐Ÿฅ‚๐Ÿท๐Ÿฅƒ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿน๐Ÿง‰๐Ÿ”‹

bull@aussie.zone · 9 pts · 2y (6 replies)

Scrambled eggs, 2 strips of bacon, 2 sausages, 2 pancakes and a piece of french toast please.

Edit: holy shit Bacon delivered

useless_modern_god@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

I spy with my little eye, something that rhymes with blemonade

bull@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

Guilty lol

baconmash@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y (1 reply)

thatโ€™s so beautiful

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

it's HUGE, I eat 1/10th of that for brekkie

Nath@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Did you find yourself craving salads and vegies after a few days of "regular" US food?

I like this sort of stuff all right, but I couldn't live off it for long.

bull@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

I've vowed to eat nothing but vegetables for a month once I get back. Potato not included. I feel it.

useless_modern_god@aussie.zone · 6 pts · 2y (2 replies)

Itโ€™s a dangerous business, Frodo, going out your door. You step onto the road, and if you donโ€™t keep your feet, thereโ€™s no knowing where you might be swept off to.

baconmash@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

๐Ÿฆถ๐Ÿฆถ

Seagoon_@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

๐Ÿง™๐Ÿปโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ‰๐Ÿ—ป

RustyRaven@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y (1 reply)

A hotdog and chips, with all the toppings please. Plus a blooming onion if that's on the menu.

baconmash@aussie.zone · 5 pts · 2y

๐ŸŒผ๐Ÿง…๐Ÿ…๐Ÿฅ’๐Ÿฏ
๐ŸŒญ๐ŸŸ

6368_39162@lemm.ee · 4 pts · 2y (1 reply)
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baconmash@aussie.zone · 4 pts · 2y

๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿซ 

Force_majeure122@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)

Blueberry and bacon pie please

baconmash@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

๐Ÿซ๐Ÿฅ“๐Ÿฅง

StudChud@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y (1 reply)

A smoke and a pancake, please ๐Ÿ™‡โ€โ™€๏ธ

baconmash@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

๐Ÿ’จ๐Ÿฅž๐Ÿฏ

just_kitten@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 2y

Watched Past Lives. It was like a modern update of Wong Kar Wai, dripping with tension and beauty and a throughly atmospheric soundtrack unsurprisingly scored by two members of Grizzly Bear. I dunno whether I'd recommend it to others. I think they need to have lived through at least a bit of the contemporary immigrant experience for the film to hit its most powerful notes.

prime_factor@aussie.zone · 1 pts · 2y
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