From someone who knows; sex won't make you less lonely. Dispelling loneliness requires social connection, not a physical act easily performed without connection or satisfaction.
Hobby groups can be a good place to start, as can volunteering for community/collective projects. 💛
I was in class today and we were practicing clinical scenarios with a mannequin patient and the instructor acting as the "patient's" wife. The instructor says "well I don't think he's had any abdominal surgeries, he doesn't have any scars or anything". I thought 'well how would you know if he has scars on his abdomen?' and then immediately realized I've been single way too fucking long.
When I read things like this, I am suddenly very glad the language I use in my everyday life has very different words "Dattel" (the fruit), "Datum" (point on a calendar) and "Verabredung" (romantic meeting, though we also use the anglicism "Date" for this - and ONLY for this).
Great song, but I was referring to a slightly obscure version of spider man "spiders man". Essentially Spiderman is made up of millions of spiders crawling around in the suit, and are sentient. From one of those alternate storylines.
The world of modern dates sometimes seems strange and unpredictable, because everyone is looking for their own format of communication and sincere emotions. Funny situations and unexpected acquaintances make this process a special experience. The flick chat helps to find interesting interlocutors, freely share thoughts and find new friends. Treat the search for new acquaintances with ease and choose comfortable platforms for communication.
32 Comments
ThePowerOfGeek@lemmy.world · 33 pts · 24d
Arachnophobic vampires assemble!
ShaggySnacks@lemmy.myserv.one · 23 pts · 23d
I’ll let someone bite me if it means a date.
Hell, I let someone eat a limb; If we get to have sex.
God, I’m so lonely.
GutterRat42@lemmy.world · 15 pts · 23d
And this, kids, is how praying mantises evolved
Fluke@feddit.uk · 15 pts · 23d
From someone who knows; sex won't make you less lonely. Dispelling loneliness requires social connection, not a physical act easily performed without connection or satisfaction.
Hobby groups can be a good place to start, as can volunteering for community/collective projects. 💛
lonefighter@sh.itjust.works · 8 pts · 23d
I was in class today and we were practicing clinical scenarios with a mannequin patient and the instructor acting as the "patient's" wife. The instructor says "well I don't think he's had any abdominal surgeries, he doesn't have any scars or anything". I thought 'well how would you know if he has scars on his abdomen?' and then immediately realized I've been single way too fucking long.
BeMoreCareful@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 22d
What's your spider situation?
zarkanian@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 23d
I prefer licking, but biting works, too.
Jack@lemmy.ca · 20 pts · 23d
Is it bad that the 1st thing I thought of was RFC 3339, and not the fruit or people?
pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 11 pts · 23d
You are an evolved nerd
kamee@lemmy.zip · 2 pts · 23d
Yes, I thought of ISO-8601
expatriado@lemmy.world · 15 pts · 23d
so many interpretations
Jankatarch@lemmy.world · 12 pts · 23d
Date, the fruit.
You have to check for maggots, actually.
smeenz@lemmy.nz · 6 pts · 23d
Free protein
MoffKalast@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 23d
Not the weirdest thing about modern dating.
schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de · 8 pts · 23d
English is just a stupid language...
Not the first joke about this: https://www.reddit.com/r/Venn/comments/pb3k85/excel_incel_and_me_eating_a_fig/
When I read things like this, I am suddenly very glad the language I use in my everyday life has very different words "Dattel" (the fruit), "Datum" (point on a calendar) and "Verabredung" (romantic meeting, though we also use the anglicism "Date" for this - and ONLY for this).
evasive_chimpanzee@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 23d
Probably every language has homonyms.
schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de · 1 pts · 23d
Of course, this was in part joking, there are other similar jokes in German too...
sepi@piefed.social · 5 pts · 23d
The answer is yes, you troglodyte
arrow74@lemmy.zip · 4 pts · 23d
Hate when the spiders get in my chronologies
kamen@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 22d
English is weird sometimes
captainlezbian@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 23d
I'll admit, I didn't check for spiders last time I bit any of the people I was on my most recent date with
Almacca@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 23d
Meanwhile, in Australia...
Okokimup@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 23d
How many people were you on your most recent date with?
captainlezbian@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 22d
There were four of us. I think it went well.
BreadOven@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 23d
Spiders man?
homik@slrpnk.net · 4 pts · 23d
Does whatever spiders can.
Buddahriffic@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 23d
Spin a web?
BreadOven@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 23d
Any size! Catches thieves just like flies.
BreadOven@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 23d
Great song, but I was referring to a slightly obscure version of spider man "spiders man". Essentially Spiderman is made up of millions of spiders crawling around in the suit, and are sentient. From one of those alternate storylines.
Buddahriffic@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 23d
Oh, guess it should have been "Spin some webs?"
DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 23d
You'd be better off eating the spider.
AvaLord@gehirneimer.de · 1 pts · 10d
The world of modern dates sometimes seems strange and unpredictable, because everyone is looking for their own format of communication and sincere emotions. Funny situations and unexpected acquaintances make this process a special experience. The flick chat helps to find interesting interlocutors, freely share thoughts and find new friends. Treat the search for new acquaintances with ease and choose comfortable platforms for communication.