I have this fantasy and was curious what others’ root desires were. For me personally I think it’s the change in perspective figuratively and literally. Seeing how they react to the different feel and touch. Simply viewing it as a personal live porn with your favorite performer. I appreciate the replies. Please be of legal age when responding. Thank you
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cincythrowaway45@fedinsfw.app · 8 pts · 4d
I think mine comes from the hedonist in me and being open to whatever makes me or her feel good. Plus I love it when she cums. But it's not often I have a short refactoring period so I would be open to sharing her so someone else can fill the gap and hopefully she can prep me so I can go again after he is done. But the wife isn't the sexual fiend that I am so I have to be the one to push her to use anything other than her vibrator.
Lemmyseeplease@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 4d
That’s a good way to put it “hedonist”. A time and situation geared for pleasure not ego or societal norms. Just a release.
ayawnymouse@fedinsfw.app · 6 pts · 4d
I like the concept of swinging, orgies, etc. It's a fantasy to be able to have sex with all kinds of other women than my partner, but that's selfishness and it's not going to happen IRL - both of us are pretty prone to jealousy, fear of losing the other, so it's not going to be an open relationship of any kind. Still, I enjoy the porn portrayals of those situations.
Lemmyseeplease@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 4d
Thank you for the thoughtful response. I totally understand. I’m very confident and sexy in fantasy mode. However, if things were to progress I’d be interested to see how I react.
deezcashews@fedinsfw.app · 3 pts · 3d
Pretty much this. I know a lot of people into all of this and it never ends well for someone. It takes a certain type of person to pull it off and most people just aren't wired that way, or they get into it to try and save an already failing relationship, but it usually just ends up like they're shopping around for a new partner before ditching the old one.
But I'm in the same boat as you. I love the idea of it but I don't think I could do it.
notalannister@fedinsfw.app · 4 pts · 3d
I've shared my partners with other people since HS. Only a couple of times during that period, then casually with my GF at university and having a fully swinger rellationship nowadays.
I was raised in a very open family. My parents weren't prude nor close-minded even when we were poor. They were religious but never moralistic. I grew up close to a beach and since a young age I had the chance to catch a glimpse of couples having sex on the beach at night when coming home or during the day while picking beer cans around the beach in remote zones. I guess this developed a kinda vouyeristic kink on me back then and that makes me get really horny nowadays when watching people have sex in front of me.
Another thing that might add to my sharing kink is that I really grew up without a jealousy sense. It is really weird for me to even try to comprehend how people can get jealous. I was raised, maybe because our poverty, with a "let-go" philosophy. We struggled to get things, even food during a period on my childhood and my parents teached my sister and I that if you loose a thing, even a person and you cannot do anything about it, you should let it go. I was teached responsability. Being a good person and having social and emotional responsability towards the people around me is important. But if I try to be my best for my partner and she still chooses somebody else over me, that's on her. Maybe that other person is truly better than me, but if I'm trying my best and that other dude still wins, I should let it go.
This also makes me horny when sharing my GF, because it means somebody else also gets as horny as I do about her and she enjoys that other person fucking her, ye she chooses to stay with me.
Sorry for the wall of text, lol
Lemmyseeplease@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 3d
Incredible response. History of your personal experiences and possible root cause. Then a level headed approach to possible risks. Very thoughtful response. Thank you so much.
notalannister@fedinsfw.app · 2 pts · 3d
I hope it contributes to the post
LangSlang@fedinsfw.app · 3 pts · 3d
I think both of us would enjoy it. A combo of it being different experience and then getting to try a new cock. Not to mention the personal pornstar aspect of it.
Lemmyseeplease@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 3d
Totally agree. See how her body and face react to the different sensation and movement of a novel cock.
LangSlang@fedinsfw.app · 2 pts · 3d
Exactly. Maybe she moans different. Would be so hot.
Lemmyseeplease@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 3d
Riiiiiggghht!! Just watch her untethered and hungry for another cock.
LangSlang@fedinsfw.app · 2 pts · 3d
Fuck yes. Just watching her get into it and loving it.
Lemmyseeplease@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 3d
See the lust and excitement in her eyes. Yeesssss
LangSlang@fedinsfw.app · 2 pts · 3d
🥵 yes. Just moaning and saying how good it feels as she bounces her ass back. So fucking hot.
KK_Jade@fedinsfw.app · 2 pts · 4d
Speaking as someone who has experienced this personally: yeah, what you're fantasizing about is very real and pretty damn hot. Especially when sharing her with women, where she can experience sex in a way that I can't really give her.
In addition to why you said it turns you on, I'd say it can have the humiliation aspect (IE: humiliating me) as well. It doesn't have to, though!!
Lemmyseeplease@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 4d
Watching her with another woman would be incredible. Also having her totally desired by two men sounds so hot for her. I’m not seeking humiliation, but I can see how it can arise. Ideally I guess I’d like to be able to give in to the situation and forget about my ego. Thank you for the response. I enjoy hearing all the perspectives.