notalannister

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I've shared my partners with other people since HS. Only a couple of times during that period, then casually with my GF at university and having a fully swinger rellationship nowadays.

I was raised in a very open family. My parents weren't prude nor close-minded even when we were poor. They were religious but never moralistic. I grew up close to a beach and since a young age I had the chance to catch a glimpse of couples having sex on the beach at night when coming home or during the day while picking beer cans around the beach in remote zones. I guess this developed a kinda vouyeristic kink on me back then and that makes me get really horny nowadays when watching people have sex in front of me.

Another thing that might add to my sharing kink is that I really grew up without a jealousy sense. It is really weird for me to even try to comprehend how people can get jealous. I was raised, maybe because our poverty, with a "let-go" philosophy. We struggled to get things, even food during a period on my childhood and my parents teached my sister and I that if you loose a thing, even a person and you cannot do anything about it, you should let it go. I was teached responsability. Being a good person and having social and emotional responsability towards the people around me is important. But if I try to be my best for my partner and she still chooses somebody else over me, that's on her. Maybe that other person is truly better than me, but if I'm trying my best and that other dude still wins, I should let it go.

This also makes me horny when sharing my GF, because it means somebody else also gets as horny as I do about her and she enjoys that other person fucking her, ye she chooses to stay with me.

Sorry for the wall of text, lol