Best type of love

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6 Comments

grober_Unfug@discuss.tchncs.de · 11 pts · 6d (2 replies)

I’m honestly curious, what exactly is „best type“ about her insecurity in this love?

hakase@lemmy.zip · 8 pts · 6d

Right? Seems like "gf who's not insecure about her body" and "bf who loves her body" would just be a straight upgrade to the situation.

a_non_monotonic_function@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 5d

People complement each other, ideally. My shit isn't entirely fixed by my partner, but it is pretty close.

fibojoly@sh.itjust.works · 10 pts · 6d (1 reply)

Meh. Telling her she's beautiful and her never accepting herself feels sysiphean.

chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 8 pts · 6d

At some extreme it gets to feel kind of objectifying too, like you're a source of validation and anything about you that might conflict with that role even a little is a problem

QueenHawlSera@piefed.social · 2 pts · 5d

I'm a trans girl who doesn't pass (I blame my short hair mostly), my bf loves me and thinks I'm sexy.