Totally agree. Any time I have attempted to explain - either to nDad or eMom - the issues and decades of abuse, they consistently deny and gaslight everything I tell them. They don't want to hear. They don't want to listen. They don't care. Message received. Finally.... Only took me 20 years of adulthood to reach this same conclusion!
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Totally agree. Any time I have attempted to explain - either to nDad or eMom - the issues and decades of abuse, they consistently deny and gaslight everything I tell them. They don't want to hear. They don't want to listen. They don't care. Message received. Finally.... Only took me 20 years of adulthood to reach this same conclusion!