The answer to your question is very situational. Is this someone you just met, are you currently friend-zoned, is this someone you've already been officially dating for a while?
In other words, what stage are you at in this relationship?
This sounds like a situation where you're currently friend-zoned, so I'll answer with that assumption.
You're going to get a lot of opinions on this kind of question, one way or another, and some of this will just depend on what part of the world you live in. In my opinion, the best way out of the friend-zone is to just be direct and ask them out on an official date. This lets them know that you really are interested in them without putting too much pressure on them. At that point, it's on them to figure out how to respond.
If they are interested, they'll respond positively. If they aren't, they'll either say no, come up with excuses, or back out last minute. If they cancel on you, do they really sound like they sincerely want to go on a date with you? If you're not sure, give them another chance, but if you find that they consistently cancel on you, then it's time to move on/just keep them as a friend.
I'm honestly surprised by your comment. Is this based on one specific experience you had with someone?
I have also lived there, but I never met any member of that faith who would be offended by being called a Christian. It has always been the opposite experience for me.
As far as some sort of one-on-one support service, I'm not too sure of online services for that (beyond helping out in specific forums when people ask questions).
You can help out with a variety of different research projects over on the Zooniverse: https://www.zooniverse.org/
If you like to tinker with electronics, check out Fulu Bounties and get paid for helping to get around DRM on refrigerators or on an Xbox. This has the potential to help a lot of end users as well as prevent E-waste.
https://bounties.fulu.org/
No problem! My French still needs a lot of work as well, but I usually just use the browser's translator for their blogs. From what I can see, it looks like they're open to getting the reviews working with ActivityPub eventually.
I agree that it makes sense to have reviews be a part of the social web. Hopefully one of these options takes off, we really need viable alternatives to the current big tech platforms.
I hadn't heard of SocialMaps yet. It's definitely an interesting tool with how it translates search strings into queries on OSM data. It was throwing errors for me instead of returning results, so I'll have to give it another try later on.
+1 for cartes.app
Probably the closest to Google Maps. The interface will be familiar, it's easy to switch between OSM, hybrid, satellite, etc layers.
You get multiple options for public transit routes and you can set what time you would like to leave.
Clicking anywhere on the map displays images uploaded to panoramax, the logo from any linked website, wikimedia images associated to that location, reviews for the business, opening hours, etc.
If this is someone you'll be seeing a lot, it's best to try to make peace with them. Instead of "pouring fuel on the fire" it's best to "pour water on it".
Personally I've had conflicts in my life with others, but instead of reacting negatively, I made an effort to do the opposite. In one case that resulted in a friend instead of an enemy. In other cases it has diffused the situation.
It helps to try to put yourself in their shoes. Try to understand where they are coming from and what has driven them to react like this towards you.
Let's talk about the mail. Pepe Silvia, this name keeps popping up over and over again.
I found these letters. Pepe Silvia, Pepe Silvia. This whole box is Pepe Silvia! So, I go to look up more about him, I'm trying to find his birth certificate, marriage certificate, etc. and what do I find out?! There is no Pepe Silvia, the man does not exist, okay?
So I decide I gotta dig a little deeper. I'm looking through census records, newspapers, obituaries, etc. There's no Pepe Sy- you gotta be kidding me! I've got boxes full of Pepe!
Alright, so, I start marching my way down to the county records office and I knock on their door and I say, "Hey Carol! Carol! I got to talk to you about some records for Pepe". We open the records and what do we find? There's not a single record for him in that office. There. is. no. Pepe in those records. The man's a ghost.
Well, you have to remember that we are in an echo chamber here in the Fediverse.
I think the easiest way to explain this is with an example that might put you in their shoes for a bit. Ask yourself this, what would it take for someone to convince you to switch from using Lemmy to using something else like Mbin/PieFed? Where is the line you draw on what the developers say or do that would cause you to make that change? (Rhetorical questions).
Everyone has different values and different lines that can be crossed. For some, if the developers even hinted at support for a particular belief, they would immediately drop the software and find something else. For others, they might disagree with the developer's opinions/actions but since they're using Lemmy.World, they're not directly supporting the developers anyway, so they'll continue using Lemmy as long as it's not under the dev's instance. And then there are others who will somewhat or even strongly agree with the dev's opinions/actions.
I would argue that only a small minority of users would fall under the category that would completely drop using Lemmy. At that point, the only factor that most others really care about (for switching) might be for better features or ease of use. So, unless the devs did or said something far worse to the point that it crosses the line for most users, bringing up the same points isn't going to change the mind of most users.
Now apply this to browsers. The vast majority of people will prefer features/convenience/familiarity over the opinions/actions of one developer vs another developer as long as certain lines aren't crossed (again, what that line is will be different for everyone).
Some users will be in the camp that, if any software even touches LLMs, Crypto, etc. then they won't use the software. They hold those values as high as they do privacy/security which is why they would use something like LibreWolf instead of Brave.
Most users would probably not have strong enough opinions one way or another on Crypto, LLMs, etc. (the other concerns you raised) to let that factor too much into their final decision.
Even for the ones who disagree with it, as long as those options are disabled by default, easy to disable, or as long as they aren't directly supporting them, then this would still factor lower on their final decision for which software to use.
Marketing definitely plays a big part. Doing a quick search for "compare privacy related browsers" leads to a bunch of articles that usually rank Brave very high. Additionally, the vast majority of users are going to stick with something that's familiar to them and already has the features they're used to.
Privacy reasons aside, most people are going to stick with what's familiar to them, and the vast majority of users are already using some sort of Chromium browser.
My apologies for the wall of text, I found your comment interesting. Most of this I'm sure you already know. I just wanted to explore the subject a bit more, so I got my thoughts out.
It's not that interesting, I just pointed out that they don't have much to do with what the other user was asking for. They can respond to those other points if they want to.
For a recap, you mentioned:
Brave browser, who has a history of deceiving users with claims of privacy, literally trying to mine shitcoins on your device, and promoting add for certain affiliates without telling anuone?
The other user asked you to:
List which privacy promises Brave has failed to keep.
You responded with a list of 11 items. Only 3 were initially privacy related. 2 of those 3 you changed the headline to make a false claim. 1 of those turned out to not even be a privacy issue (after actually reading the source).
If you want to convince Brave users to not use Brave, you'll want to make sure that your arguments are valid and that you've actually read and understood the sources you're pointing to.
I even provided you with a current/active DNS leak issue that you can use.
1,2,3,4,6,7,8,10,11 are not privacy related issues.
I don't think you read, or understood the article, because your summary is not what's happening there. In that article a website owner is complaining that Brave is scraping their website and using the content to feed some database for LLM training.
I was confused about because your summary is incorrect (again). Brave does still block fingerprinting, but according to that article they removed the "strict" level blocking because too many sites broke.
When I was at Meta working on the maps team, we couldn’t afford to hold this “view from nowhere”. Facebook is enormously popular in India where showing a map that doesn’t match the country’s own vision of itself carried criminal penalties for our colleagues. Laws on cartography in India are specific and strict.
It's hard to tell without some aerial/satellite imagery of your intersection, but assuming there are islands at each crossing, and assuming that "up" is North in your image:
The crossings at the Northwest and Southeast would be tagged as shown at the top of the page you linked:
While the 4 Northeast and Southwest crossings would be tagged as shown at the bottom of the page you linked:
The way this is mapped, with a separate crossing over each direction of the road, looks correct. Especially because the sidewalks have been mapped separately from the road.
If you like to tinker with electronics, check out Fulu Bounties and get paid for helping to get around DRM on refrigerators or on an Xbox. https://bounties.fulu.org/
Then of course there's always volunteering for organizations nearby.
Why? I have reasons for each of these projects but for me it just sparks joy in contributing to projects that will help others.
In addition to the other companies already listed, Lyft does have an OSM team for providing updates to the map based on their own street level imagery:
I see them updating the roads in my area from time to time. So, while they're not one of the Corporate Members, they are at least donating their time to help update the maps.
The answer to your question is very situational. Is this someone you just met, are you currently friend-zoned, is this someone you've already been officially dating for a while?
In other words, what stage are you at in this relationship?
This sounds like a situation where you're currently friend-zoned, so I'll answer with that assumption.
You're going to get a lot of opinions on this kind of question, one way or another, and some of this will just depend on what part of the world you live in. In my opinion, the best way out of the friend-zone is to just be direct and ask them out on an official date. This lets them know that you really are interested in them without putting too much pressure on them. At that point, it's on them to figure out how to respond.
If they are interested, they'll respond positively. If they aren't, they'll either say no, come up with excuses, or back out last minute. If they cancel on you, do they really sound like they sincerely want to go on a date with you? If you're not sure, give them another chance, but if you find that they consistently cancel on you, then it's time to move on/just keep them as a friend.
That's a great list! I'm going to add one more for Cartes:
https://cartes.app/
The maps usually get updated weekly. The 3D buildings only show up once you zoom in close.
I'm honestly surprised by your comment. Is this based on one specific experience you had with someone?
I have also lived there, but I never met any member of that faith who would be offended by being called a Christian. It has always been the opposite experience for me.
Depends on your interests:
As far as some sort of one-on-one support service, I'm not too sure of online services for that (beyond helping out in specific forums when people ask questions).
You can help out with a variety of different research projects over on the Zooniverse:
https://www.zooniverse.org/
You can help by contributing to the map around your area: https://www.openstreetmap.org/
Help out with research on wildlife in your area:
https://www.inaturalist.org/
Contribute to Wikipedia:
https://www.wikipedia.org/
If you feel passionate about consumer rights, you can contribute to the wiki here:
https://consumerrights.wiki/w/Main_Page
If you like to tinker with electronics, check out Fulu Bounties and get paid for helping to get around DRM on refrigerators or on an Xbox. This has the potential to help a lot of end users as well as prevent E-waste. https://bounties.fulu.org/
No problem! My French still needs a lot of work as well, but I usually just use the browser's translator for their blogs. From what I can see, it looks like they're open to getting the reviews working with ActivityPub eventually.
I agree that it makes sense to have reviews be a part of the social web. Hopefully one of these options takes off, we really need viable alternatives to the current big tech platforms.
I hadn't heard of SocialMaps yet. It's definitely an interesting tool with how it translates search strings into queries on OSM data. It was throwing errors for me instead of returning results, so I'll have to give it another try later on.
There are some projects working on a review system now. The 3 that I can think of are Cartes.app, Mangrove, and lib.reviews.
The developer of Cartes discusses their review system here, and why they chose to avoid using Mangrove or lib.reviews.
They also answer the question as to why they chose to work on ATproto first instead of starting with ActivityPub.
Map Complete has added Mangrove reviews as a feature in their application.
OsmAnd had a plugin for Openplace reviews, but their service shut down in 2023.
+1 for cartes.app
Probably the closest to Google Maps. The interface will be familiar, it's easy to switch between OSM, hybrid, satellite, etc layers.
You get multiple options for public transit routes and you can set what time you would like to leave.
Clicking anywhere on the map displays images uploaded to panoramax, the logo from any linked website, wikimedia images associated to that location, reviews for the business, opening hours, etc.
If this is someone you'll be seeing a lot, it's best to try to make peace with them. Instead of "pouring fuel on the fire" it's best to "pour water on it".
Personally I've had conflicts in my life with others, but instead of reacting negatively, I made an effort to do the opposite. In one case that resulted in a friend instead of an enemy. In other cases it has diffused the situation.
It helps to try to put yourself in their shoes. Try to understand where they are coming from and what has driven them to react like this towards you.
Let's talk about the mail. Pepe Silvia, this name keeps popping up over and over again.
I found these letters. Pepe Silvia, Pepe Silvia. This whole box is Pepe Silvia! So, I go to look up more about him, I'm trying to find his birth certificate, marriage certificate, etc. and what do I find out?! There is no Pepe Silvia, the man does not exist, okay?
So I decide I gotta dig a little deeper. I'm looking through census records, newspapers, obituaries, etc. There's no Pepe Sy- you gotta be kidding me! I've got boxes full of Pepe!
Alright, so, I start marching my way down to the county records office and I knock on their door and I say, "Hey Carol! Carol! I got to talk to you about some records for Pepe". We open the records and what do we find? There's not a single record for him in that office. There. is. no. Pepe in those records. The man's a ghost.
Well, you have to remember that we are in an echo chamber here in the Fediverse.
I think the easiest way to explain this is with an example that might put you in their shoes for a bit. Ask yourself this, what would it take for someone to convince you to switch from using Lemmy to using something else like Mbin/PieFed? Where is the line you draw on what the developers say or do that would cause you to make that change? (Rhetorical questions).
Everyone has different values and different lines that can be crossed. For some, if the developers even hinted at support for a particular belief, they would immediately drop the software and find something else. For others, they might disagree with the developer's opinions/actions but since they're using Lemmy.World, they're not directly supporting the developers anyway, so they'll continue using Lemmy as long as it's not under the dev's instance. And then there are others who will somewhat or even strongly agree with the dev's opinions/actions.
I would argue that only a small minority of users would fall under the category that would completely drop using Lemmy. At that point, the only factor that most others really care about (for switching) might be for better features or ease of use. So, unless the devs did or said something far worse to the point that it crosses the line for most users, bringing up the same points isn't going to change the mind of most users.
Now apply this to browsers. The vast majority of people will prefer features/convenience/familiarity over the opinions/actions of one developer vs another developer as long as certain lines aren't crossed (again, what that line is will be different for everyone).
Some users will be in the camp that, if any software even touches LLMs, Crypto, etc. then they won't use the software. They hold those values as high as they do privacy/security which is why they would use something like LibreWolf instead of Brave.
Most users would probably not have strong enough opinions one way or another on Crypto, LLMs, etc. (the other concerns you raised) to let that factor too much into their final decision.
Even for the ones who disagree with it, as long as those options are disabled by default, easy to disable, or as long as they aren't directly supporting them, then this would still factor lower on their final decision for which software to use.
Marketing definitely plays a big part. Doing a quick search for "compare privacy related browsers" leads to a bunch of articles that usually rank Brave very high. Additionally, the vast majority of users are going to stick with something that's familiar to them and already has the features they're used to.
Privacy reasons aside, most people are going to stick with what's familiar to them, and the vast majority of users are already using some sort of Chromium browser.
My apologies for the wall of text, I found your comment interesting. Most of this I'm sure you already know. I just wanted to explore the subject a bit more, so I got my thoughts out.
It's not that interesting, I just pointed out that they don't have much to do with what the other user was asking for. They can respond to those other points if they want to.
For a recap, you mentioned:
The other user asked you to:
You responded with a list of 11 items. Only 3 were initially privacy related. 2 of those 3 you changed the headline to make a false claim. 1 of those turned out to not even be a privacy issue (after actually reading the source).
If you want to convince Brave users to not use Brave, you'll want to make sure that your arguments are valid and that you've actually read and understood the sources you're pointing to.
I even provided you with a current/active DNS leak issue that you can use.
I'm assuming this is a list you copied from somewhere else, most of these are not privacy issues.
https://github.com/brave/brave-browser/issues/13527
There is a more recent issue where DNS is leaking if your Shield settings are set to "Aggressive" for trackers & ads blocking:
https://github.com/brave/brave-browser/issues/48947
1,2,3,4,6,7,8,10,11 are not privacy related issues.
I don't think you read, or understood the article, because your summary is not what's happening there. In that article a website owner is complaining that Brave is scraping their website and using the content to feed some database for LLM training.
I was confused about because your summary is incorrect (again). Brave does still block fingerprinting, but according to that article they removed the "strict" level blocking because too many sites broke.
I could understand civil penalties, but criminal?
It's hard to tell without some aerial/satellite imagery of your intersection, but assuming there are islands at each crossing, and assuming that "up" is North in your image:
The crossings at the Northwest and Southeast would be tagged as shown at the top of the page you linked:
While the 4 Northeast and Southwest crossings would be tagged as shown at the bottom of the page you linked:
The way this is mapped, with a separate crossing over each direction of the road, looks correct. Especially because the sidewalks have been mapped separately from the road.
The wiki uses these examples for traffic signals:
https://wiki.openstreetmap.org/wiki/Tag:highway%3Dtraffic_signals
I would not join the 6 separate crossings into 1. Just tag each crossing as
highway=crossingand, if they exist,crossing=traffic_signals.Cartes.app for typical map usage and public transportation.
CoMaps for driving. OsmAnd+ with an API key for traffic routing if I need to worry about traffic.
This is an awesome picture. Thanks for sharing!
Quick update on Cartes: They now support English. It looks like the most common stuff has been translated, but there's still a little work to go.
Volunteer for things you find interesting or fun.
Check out OpenStreetMap:
https://www.openstreetmap.org/
And help map out your area.
You can help out with a variety of different research projects over on the Zooniverse:
https://www.zooniverse.org/
Help out with research on wildlife in your area:
https://www.inaturalist.org/
Contribute to Wikipedia:
https://www.wikipedia.org/
If you feel passionate about consumer rights, you can contribute to the wiki here:
https://consumerrights.wiki/w/Main_Page
If you like to tinker with electronics, check out Fulu Bounties and get paid for helping to get around DRM on refrigerators or on an Xbox.
https://bounties.fulu.org/
Then of course there's always volunteering for organizations nearby.
Why? I have reasons for each of these projects but for me it just sparks joy in contributing to projects that will help others.
In addition to the other companies already listed, Lyft does have an OSM team for providing updates to the map based on their own street level imagery:
https://wiki.openstreetmap.org/wiki/Lyft
I see them updating the roads in my area from time to time. So, while they're not one of the Corporate Members, they are at least donating their time to help update the maps.