I appreciate the invitation but I don't have the time to effectively mod a community. Yes, I'm a free rider, lol.
I am starting to think that the best bet is to keep my SFW Lemmy account but go back to Reddit for my NSFW needs. It's not like they can monetize me on there anyway.
So it's simply a matter of network effects working against us? Lemmy hasn't attracted a critical mass of perverts to be viable in this way? Depressing if true.
I've had really shitty luck with all the apps tbh. I have one friend I see very rarely that I met on Feeld, and this person from Tinder. But it's encouraging to hear that OKC now has ENM options, so maybe I'll give that a try.
Part of what's making this difficult for me is, as I mentioned in my OP, I was in a dead bedroom for many years in my marriage, so I don't feel like I'm in a place where I can feel desire for someone and not have it reciprocated. It's not psychologically healthy for me. But she is special and important to me, and if there's a way I can salvage this relationship while meeting my own needs and respecting myself, I'd be open to it.
I’m not in Texas — I’m located in New York. Just far enough from the city to make it impractical as a resource for learning, and rather sparsely populated. Not a lot of opportunities to meet with like-minded people.
As I mentioned before, I’m still in the process of discovering my Dom tendencies. I have a playmate who’s an experienced sub. Our schedules only align every several weeks or so. She says my instincts are good, but I’d like to be more confident and able to lead her through the sorts of experiences she desires. I guess I need to look for a course like yours.
I've been considering deleting my Tinder account since it's stone dead, but now I think I'll hang on a little longer in case someone in my area starts doing this!
I appreciate the invitation but I don't have the time to effectively mod a community. Yes, I'm a free rider, lol.
I am starting to think that the best bet is to keep my SFW Lemmy account but go back to Reddit for my NSFW needs. It's not like they can monetize me on there anyway.
So it's simply a matter of network effects working against us? Lemmy hasn't attracted a critical mass of perverts to be viable in this way? Depressing if true.
I don't imagine life is easier for people on Reddit, yet those communities thrive there.
I've had really shitty luck with all the apps tbh. I have one friend I see very rarely that I met on Feeld, and this person from Tinder. But it's encouraging to hear that OKC now has ENM options, so maybe I'll give that a try.
Part of what's making this difficult for me is, as I mentioned in my OP, I was in a dead bedroom for many years in my marriage, so I don't feel like I'm in a place where I can feel desire for someone and not have it reciprocated. It's not psychologically healthy for me. But she is special and important to me, and if there's a way I can salvage this relationship while meeting my own needs and respecting myself, I'd be open to it.
God, this takes me back. Possibly the hottest thing I've ever seen that's arguably SFW.
Just need her to be doing lines from Archer here and I’d be set for a long while.
Help>Slip>Franklin’s all day
Mercy me, yes!!! 😋
Happy to see him strike on Lemmy! Here’s to many more sightings
I can just imagine spanking that sunburned ass.
I’m not in Texas — I’m located in New York. Just far enough from the city to make it impractical as a resource for learning, and rather sparsely populated. Not a lot of opportunities to meet with like-minded people.
As I mentioned before, I’m still in the process of discovering my Dom tendencies. I have a playmate who’s an experienced sub. Our schedules only align every several weeks or so. She says my instincts are good, but I’d like to be more confident and able to lead her through the sorts of experiences she desires. I guess I need to look for a course like yours.
She is a timeless beauty.
I would love to talk to you about that. I've been wanting to explore my Dom tendencies, and I could really use some advice.
I've been considering deleting my Tinder account since it's stone dead, but now I think I'll hang on a little longer in case someone in my area starts doing this!
3 kids has wrung almost all the sex appeal out of breeding fetishes for me ::lolsob::