Kathrin

u/Kathrin@trouth.eu
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@TotallynotJessica

I appreciate the concern, but I think there’s a misunderstanding of what I'm doing. I've been posting historical lesbian figures from across the globe. Including someone like Colette isn't an endorsement of their choices; it’s a refusal to sanitize the history of how queer women navigated a world that often persecuted them. If we only record the 'perfect' lives, we’re not doing history—we’re doing PR. I’d hope the community can handle the complexity of our actual past.

on PIC · c/nocontextpics · 2 pts · 1y

@otter Possibly the opposite of a lake boat, so I'm imagining a lake in a boat.

@drbollocks Here's something that sometimes helps me: Ask yourself, if someone else was in your situation, what would you tell them.

Because honestly, from what you're writing, you don't have much of a relationship to lose, and you seem to be clinging onto something that isn't there, if it ever was.

It's okay to break up with people for any reason or no reason at all, if only for your own peace of mind. Don't stay with someone out of fear.